5 Reasons Your Ex Is Reaching Out To You After They Dumped You

5 Reasons Your Ex Is Reaching Out To You After They Dumped You

My ex is reaching out to me, what should I do? Today we're going to be answering the question - why is your ex is reaching out to you after they dumped you. Why would they be doing this after all? If they broke up with you, shouldn't they have just moved on and been living some sort of perfect utopian life without all of the baggage and problems that they attributed to you? Not necessarily.

Clay Andrews

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[Happy-Me.]

They want your non sexual attention. Never give it to them!

[carlissable]

A close male friend who ended the friendship out the blue is trying to come back an entire year later. I blocked his @$$

[EagleEye]

If she monkey branched and then tries to come back later, let her know you’re not trying to get involved. It’s not worth it, because she will do it again. Close the door on that chapter of your life and find someone else. Stay in the gym, workout, keep your diet good, and stack money. Don’t ever go backwards. She needs to realize that she can’t just leave a good guy for someone else and then think you’ll take her back with open arms.

[theseahag]

Can’t imagine my ex reaching out. I’ll never hear from him again, and got no closure after a super abrupt, random ending with no explanation. Awesome.

[rickymoreno]

My ex and I went 8months without talking since she started dating someone new. She texted me a few weeks ago to wish me a happy New Years, we talked for a few hours but eventually she stopped replying 🧐. I no longer care, but I’m still curious to why she would text me after ghosting me for months. FYI she’s still dating the same person.

[serenitygilles]

Yup he left for greener I blocked his arse after a year of trying to get him back etc....

[nissemabdeljelil]

Hi, I have a suggestion for a future video: How to deal with an ex going through a traumatic event or a difficult life situation? Thank you 😊

[josepalermo]

My ex very much still wants to keep in contact even though I told her I wan't nothing to do with her after she lied during our relationship and kept lying after the breakup.

[Yahusha-Saves.]

The grass is greener until they walk up and see all the poop in the yard 💩

[jamesdeek]

She says she loves me, we reconnected and had a wonderful emotional time. But she says she has to deal with her mental illness before going back into a relationship with me. She regrets the breakup but she just won't commit again.
She calls me everyday now. Do I give an ultimatum and leave? She says she can't lose me in her life

[pipoosingh]

My ex married this april and after 2 weeks of marriage started calling and texting me and still trying. I blocked him from everywhere but he managed numbers from his friends..still doing but am not answering since he left..am fed up now

[wutabeta]

1, 2, 4 & 5 for me. She “monkey branched” or whatever they call it these days and we work together. Given my circumstances I was a bit surprised she hit me up after a period of no contact but whatever, guess we’ll see what happens.

[shauno]

I've watched so many of your videos Clay! You have been such a great help to getnme through this. It's been 45 days NC and today my ex reached out saying she can't stop thinking about me and asking that I not use that fact against her which I never would. We did talk for a bit and she admitted she misses me and we are talking about if we want to eventually go for coffee down the road. Thank you so much for your help!! This is a great first step and I've been hoping for this to happen

[petecoventry]

My ex came over last night - slept with me and then said it was for "comfort" I mean come on - she thinks I am stupid no?

[ohreally]

My ex girlfriend contacted me 3 times after dumping me. First time 2 months later, I cut her short. Second time, two years later, pretty clear her ‘plan’ derailed - I entertained it for a day. Really those two times where clearly what is known as “breadcrumbing’. Third time, 20 years later, I just ignored. Treated me like dirt for the last year of the 4 year relationship. Not sure what the agenda is, but i must admit the third time - some old wounds have opened, which has me thinking. I have ZERO interest in connecting with my ex on any level.

[anthonywilson]

Mine migrated then broke up with me not long after, she ask 2 time to get back together for a long distance relationship, but both time she gave very little effort...we are apart 2+ years now

[sulala]

3 months ago my ex admit to cheating and left me for the girl he texted me a few times asked to meet up for coffee and he wants to give me Xmas gift his mom got me. He texted me Friday said he has the flu maybe we can meet up next week and comment on a pic of mine letting me know that I look hot. Said he is just working and home wonder if he’s even with the girl he dump me for

[erunstoppable]

Sent flowers and pic of us on my birthday... why?

Flowers alone whatever.. but the pic?

[kari.m]

She dumped me after 10 years of marriage and 2 kids, she is with the rebound for 5 months, we ended our mariage badly, i am not asking if she will be back one day, i don't need this kind of woman, we have kids and i want to know how long she need to realise that kids need there father and i will be a part of there life whatever

[stephenespinoza]

My only problem is this, she tells me that she’s gonna take our daughter to school, I’m always available to take our child to school, and pick her up. Come to find out her bf drops our child off, then she reaches out by asking me if I can send her a picture of her outfit when she could have asked her boyfriend to send her a picture. They live together. Rebound at first, now they live together. So why ask me at those moments?