Being with an emotionally unavailable narcissist

You have to ask yourself why you were willing to settle for this emotionally closed off person #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic

[estephanelia]

i love how she's so upfront about everything.

[konsyansnou]

Everything she said is spot on!🔥
True and healthy relationships get built overrime with someone you truly like; not over night.

[rayyar]

so rite worse is they are emotionaly unaware, but they very cunning..💐

[lulumoon]

Some folks aren't ready for that truth! 🤣👍❤️😎💞

[jaijai]

Exacly what i needed to hear! Thank you!

[The_Mim]

This is my husband and I'm so lonely. I don't fear it. I want emotional intelligence from my husband. And I'm not emotionally immature.

[JimBillyRayBob]

B-I-N-G-O
The good news is you can fix you.

[fightswithspirits]

Guilty (but not feeling guilty). I broke up with covert gf during the lovebomb phase. It was too perfect, but didn't want or deserve perfect. Turns out the perfect lady had another side. She called a year later and "somehow" we got back together. The shitshow started the first day. Now she had my interest lmaoooo So I dumper her a second time during the devalue phase. I have no doubt she will call again. But now I'm armed with the knowledge of covert narcissism and a gift of observing and drawing accurate conclusions. I used to use that gift to crush souls. I behaved like Narc Hitman. Say anything negative to me I would respond with something so personally destructive there would be tears. Women only. Just one head shot. Only to strangers. For dudes, you just had to be in a bar and ready for an undeserved insult. Even if I got my ass kicked, totally worth it. I made you feel like a crying baby unloved by dad. Plus, you're not a man if you let a complete stranger control you. II never hated you, . Wasn't even angry. It was fun. I hated myself. These days I use that gift for good, never evil. If you're a gifted leader even at young, I will see it and I will tell you what your gift is. Only takes a few minutes observation to see gifts. My friends other people I just met, "Has he told you what your gift is yet?" It's my thing. It's helpful. People can have a difficult time identifying their gifts. Just listen to others when they give you a compliment. It's likely a gift. If I don't tell you what your gift is, it may be because it's not a nice gift. Could be because there's something missing. Nothing there. Narcs have no gifts. There's nothing there. I really want to crush their fragile egos now that I know about them. Tempting. Not worth the time.

[Humble]

Wow!! Just wow. That's actually me.

[Imnotyourdoormat]

Well said Danielle, the variables are endless. Sam Vaknin's gentle wife Lydia says she stays with him for those very reasons. That and the fact she was born and raised in a gaggle of these hobgoblins. Better her than me is all I can say. Respectively, but she is a sweetheart. And remains 1 to this day. For whatever that's worth. How I do not know. I know in the "Deerhunter" movie, no matter what De Niro could not stop Wakken from going back to the "Roulette."

[davidemm]

Making statements is not really Convo..gets very old qiuckly

[LOVEtoPLAYdrums]

Liked the onion thing... Very true~! (3.67 Subs) as of 1.20.23 4PM / Some videos take hours to tell this good point. Spot on for sure~! 🎼🎸🎹🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🎼🎵🎶

[TheOutlaw]

Nothing wrong with that, as some people need to take time to get in touch with them selves, as how you love someone if you dont love yourself...

[davidemm]

Zero curiosity, z empathy in Convo = talking that leaves me very empty...z compassionate probing to understand another is very noticeable..I'magine having sex with another and next morning they can't look took you in the eye, and will not comment about the reality of the so called pleasure that occured the night before .." what can I do to turn you in more " is not a question a cov narc will be ok with, it's just basic honesty...you know, real nessss

[kevinmcnamara]

I pulled my ass out just in time over three months ago February was gonna be our six year anniversary such as it was? I started doing the math and adding up all the times she gave me the silent treatment and I figured it to three months total throughout a 5 1/2 year run. I’ve had a girl chat to me and she’s very nice beautiful and sweet and right now I’m questioning her motives that’s how ShellShock Diane from the last one but it’s a new year if you get into a relationship with a narcissist just freaking run they are nothing but damage