6 Signs A Woman Is Emotionally Unavailable (Every Single Man Needs To Know This)

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[diegofranco]

The 6 signs:

01:08 - Flings vs Serious Relationships
03:25 - She sees vulnerability as a turn off
05:16 - She's not affectionate (consistently)
06:21 - She's unavailable (literally)
07:15 - She's defensive
08:03 - She seeks perfection (in herself and you)

[stormmaverick]

I dated an emotionally unavailable woman the end of last year and happy I was the one that dumped her. She just wanted me as a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend. I advice guys on here to know your worth and leave women that don't reciprocate.

[BodyTrust]

If she never asks you questions about yourself, walk away.

[Nordic_Sky]

Been there, done that. Guys, just leave. You're welcome.

[TheChampionEccentric]

My last girlfriend was extremely defensive. It made it very difficult to criticise her bad behaviours in part because she would rarely accept the criticism, and in part because she would lash out in response (verbally). It made me very wary of ever bringing to her any problem I had in the relationship for fear or an explosive response.

If you can't feel comfortable raising an issue in fear of her being extremely defensive every time, it's not going to be a very happy relationship.

[ajtaylor]

Never force anyone, let alone a woman, to be emotionally open with you as a guy. A lot of issues with emotional unavailability stem from parental issues, fear of commitment, fear of being hurt, or past relationship issues that have scarred them. If a woman isn't willing to let you in, you should be willing to let yourself out.

[ChrisW]

I recently saw a video where someone explained that not listening to people is a form of being passive aggressive. Being passive aggressive is not healthy at all. For me, that is a big sign of emotional immaturity and unavailability.

[RoscoeRed]

It's like you were talking directly to me. Left my ex about 3 months ago for this exact reason. Most of these points were present and happening. I really wish her the best, but I couldn't stay in a relationship where there was no emotional connection or vulnerability from her. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do, but it was unfulfilling and I had to walk away. Thank you for this Courtney! Keep doing what you do!

[curtisder]

For the longest time, I thought I was the problem in my last relationship. It's much freeing to hear that a lot of what I thought was my problem was actually her problem because she was emotionally unavailable.

[ccastaneda]

Any woman, like any man who is emotionally detached and doesn't take accountability and responsibilities for their actions and their emotions has a major problems. I recommend that you head for the hills and dump them. Usually, they'll try to blame the other partner for their problems which has nothing to do with them.

[Gallowaves]

My most toxic relationship was with someone that displayed most of these traits. She had me questioning myself as a man and destroying my mental health trying to figure out why things were as difficult as they were. Eventually I just had to accept that I deserved better and let her go bc she wasn’t going to do right by me. No other girl has been as compatible as we were since then but at least they actually try to make things work.

[ticksunbs]

Im just checking if i am emotionally available

[CobraCommander]

"Dated" a girl like this for 2 months. I was not sure if she was just shy or being unavailable. She knew my intentions were romantic about one month in and she seemed into the idea, but was still deciding. She decided to wait a month of me paying for dates or getting snubbed on plans to say, "I'm just not into romanticily". We agreed to be friends, but stopped responding when I said we would need to cover our own dinner bills 😂

[BruceJC]

My recent ex was very emotionally unavailable. You live on breadcrumbs for so long and then you get discarded. Hardest breakup yet.

[kevinbradshaw]

I had an experience with a woman once with all the things courtney said there, she was a professional woman with a serious job and i knew that, i never encroached on her personal space, i treated her with respect, her friend told me that she used to put time into her appearance if we were meeting up for my benefit ( so her friend said) but she was unbelieveably guarded, i wasnt a threat to her, but in the end i just walked away because i thought she had deeper issues, i met her years later and she was still single, i just wished her well

[pablomartinez]

I broke up with my ex not even a week ago for this precise reason.

- She was defensive about completely minuscule things
- Trying to settle things after an argument was impossible; she would make me feel like trying discuss how we could improve was a burden to her
- She was always busy or the stars always line up so she couldn’t make it to anything I invited her to. Even when I made the effort to see her, it was never reciprocated. Always “too busy”.
- Never initiated sex
- Never talked about her feelings
- Wouldn’t accept any kind of hel

I just want people to know how great of a video this is. A person doesn’t need to have ALL of these signs for you to know they are unavailable.

And I want to reassure you boys that “being a man” does not mean working overtime to try and keep a girl attracted to you or giving you the bare minimum.

[brunomadeira]

Most of the time emotionally unavailable just means not interested likely for insufficient attraction. The difference is men would still do casual just not stick around. If she follows up with the classic "someday you will find someone right for you" then it becomes even clearer. Hit the road and don't simp around.

[dustinquinton]

In a relationship, being unemotionally available will kill that relationship. I know from experience and will never be in a relationship with an unavailable girl again.

[NicholasPR]

I'd like to throw in an important point about vulnerability: during the dating phase when you're first getting to know each other, vulnerability can be an attraction killer. That's okay, all it means is that she has a feminine energy. Be careful not to share too deeply in the beginning, but instead speak confidently about how something was difficult for you (if she prompts you) without going into details. That being said, vulnerability is required to connect with and deepen a relationship that has already been established after you have already attracted her. A lot of guys get confused about how/when/why regarding vulnerability and it can be tricky to navigate

[jtfritz]

That one girl who broke my heart in 2019, was emotionally unavailable. She wanted to go hang out and party with other guys. 😬