Adult Narcissistic Children

This video addresses the questions around the relationship between a parent and a narcissistic adult child, the family conflict and triangulation with other siblings. Looking also at elder abuse and manipulation.

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[DarrenFMagee]

Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos

[sallytaylorpsymedium]

There is a deep and heavy grief when you recognize your relationship with your narcissistic child will never be what you had hoped. Love to all parents who are learning to navigate that grief.

[jeanmarie]

What a sick world. End times. Children will dishonor their parents.

[bonniecraig]

I have 3 grown children, all narcissistic. I've been to hell with them. I've tried to fix things I got blamed for everything that they went through. They told so many lies about me, they disrespect me, I only hear from them when they want something, I've been called names used, you name it, I've been there. I've cried so many times over them. I found out 3 years ago what I was dealing with. I had to go gray rock I had to heal the pain they put me through. I know they will never change but I still pray and love them. Its so hard. I got out of a 10 year torture chamber with one only to realize my kids were narcissistic too. Its a sad lonely life. God bless, stay strong.❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[peace.denise]

My adult daughter is a narcissist. I'd been pacifying and enabling her most of her life and finally I had enough of her bullying. Long story short, she has cut off all contact. I haven't seen my grandsons in years. I am working on healing, but it's been a long, painful journey. I'll always love her, but I see no path forward with her.

[armorofgod]

I have 2 highly narcissistic adult children. It's the same no matter what. You have to go no contact to protect your sanity.

[Ktki]

An adult child with borderline personality disorder is equally devastating for the parent and anyone else who loves the child. Absolute nightmare..

[Nothingbutlovehere]

My ex-husband (diagnosed narcissist) negatively affected my daughter, despite my best efforts. She is 39. I do not have a genuine relationship with her, as she will not allow it. I have been fighting FOR HER, to no avail. And I’m exhausted. I’ve had to remove myself from her target field. It is heartbreaking.
I am thankful my son sees the reality of our situation.

[sandylucas]

I learned something very important from this challenging relationship with my adult daughter. I thought if I could be kind enough or generous enough than she wouldn't be so difficult and she would love me and be appreciative of all I've done for her. HA! Fat chance! As long as I kept giving she kept taking. I had to end it once my tolerance level hit an all time high. I've spent the time away from her healing myself and giving me the love and kindness I gave her. I'm loving me and it's been an enjoyable ride. Maybe I have given her an incentive to change or maybe not. Either way I am FREE!

[ziziroberts]

Yup. Feeling blamed. For everything. I'm not perfect. I've apologize for that. For 15 years. I've had enough shunning. Moving on.

[liljerseygirl]

This describes my eldest daughter. It is exhausting dealing with this with anyone close to you not just a partner. My daughter is 43 years old and she is getting worse as she ages. It's aweful, I just told her not to come to my home anymore.
She comes here disrupts my household to an extreme and abuses me in front of my grandchildren. While using foul language puts me down, gaslights me, etc.
She lies about me to people and is extremely jealous of me. She has turned my two granddaughters against me. She is also very entitled, minipulative and controlling to an extreme. This leaves me a mess for weeks after she leaves and hurts deeply. I've tried so hard to have a healthy relationship with a very unhealthy daughter. She goes to therapy in short spurts and lies to and minipulates the therapist. She gets young new therapists that are trying to get their license, so have little experience. She then quits after a few visits. I can't and won't do it anymore.

[liljerseygirl]

My eldest daughter is really narcissistic. Her father was really narcissistic. The older she gets the worse it gets. It is so horrible to deal with. She is disrespectful to an extreme, blames me for everything that she did wrong in her life. She rages continuously, makes false accusations, puts me down, smears me to others, uses my grandchildren as a weapon, only is nice when she wants something from me and once she gets it, she goes back to the mean, disrespectful behavior, she is so jealous of me and I could never understand this, on & on

[sandyg]

This was like hearing a description read out of our daughter and her behaviour. She’s in her early 40s, very physically beautiful, twice divorced and has three daughters who haven’t seen their father for many years and are now estranged from their loving stepfather as well. I was her target from the time she was a child but she now refuses to speak to her father, and has convinced her older brother to see us in the same light she does, after we’d had a close relationship with him and his wife and children. Our youngest son is a little more able to see what’s happening, but she’s trying hard to rope him in as well. We’ve had to step back and bear the heart break of realising that this may never change, and that our grandchildren may never be part of our lives. We love them all deeply and pray for them and that they’re happy and successful without hurting others. We get on with our lives and are grateful for the tender mercies of God.

[gwenjones]

Finally had a nervous breakdown and heartattack and realized I needed to cut ties for my own safety...they have lied soooo much and put me in harms way I'm literally afraid of them

[stevewells]

My estranged daughter who is a narcissist is just as this man speaks. I couldn't play this 31 year old adult childs games anymore, so I sealed the deal = block and banned her from coming back around. Best thing we ever did....

[szendrich]

I have only one daughter. She destroyed me. She changed drastically the moment she got married so I'm thinking that her husband may be behind it because I never see him, he never calls and when we do meet, there is no eye contact and he avoids me. I've done all I can to help her with her children. To be honest, for the sake of the children, whom I adore, I've taken a lot of abuse. Now I'm being punished for daring to question something she did to me. She kicked me out of her house and told me never to go again. A few years ago, I might have called and begged to see the children, but I've now reached a point where I just can't take anymore of her disrespectful and often abusive behaviour. I miss my grandchildren and I fear they'll forget the bond we've forged between us.😢

[rascallyrabbit]

my daughter and her husband are users, entitled and only like wealthy people. They are upper middle class or lower upper class. Their false front is sickening sweet. I find good, honest, supportive friends the best therapy.

[lilitincher]

It's totally heartbreaking when you finally realize there is nothing you can do. I pray continually for my daughter who suffers from this personality disorder. It has affected the whole family, and her only grandparents still alive. It is truly a sad thing.

[gwendolynwehage]

I have seen all of this in extended family, we were raised in a narcissistic culture and have seen it grow exponentially in the past few years.

[SherryBowie-jm]

My son is a cruel sadistic narcissist. He has no moral compass, no love or empathy. My husband died from covid 23 months ago. We told him he couldnt come here with the virus. He came anyway. Gave it to me and his dad. My husband was dead in 4 days. My son showed no emotion or empathy. Not one tear. He abandoned me totally the day my husband died. Left me here all alone in shock and grief. Didnt call or text. He moved in with some random girl we had never even met. I hsd a total mental breakdown. I never thought id recover from and was diagnosed with severe PTSD. My own.son has tried to destroy my very soul. Hes malicious has has no heart or soul. I decided if he kept this behavior towards me, it would kill me. So i decided no contact in any way. No mother deserves this abuse. Im still recovering from the breakdown. If i keep on with his cruel behavior ill be in a mental institution or worse. This all started the day my husbsnd of 47 years died from Covid. All i think is "why" !!😢😢