5 Signs of Narcissistic Hoovering

5 SIGNS OF NARCISSISTIC HOOVERING//Do you want to know what the signs are of narcissistic hoovering? Narcissists use many different tactics to try to get you back into their realm of control and back as a source of narcissistic supply. Watch this video to learn all about narcissistic hoovering, how long a narcissist will hoover for, narcissist hoovering techniques and tactics, and how to respond to and survive narcissistic hoovering if it is happening to you.
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[andynnai]

“STOP BRINGING UP THE PAST, IT’S IN THE PAST”. I get that all the time when I bring up issues that have NOT been resolved.

[FPVREVIEWS]

OMG yes. It's like nothing ever happened to them.. they want you to suddenly forget about everything they ever did. It's not okay.

[vuokkorusso]

Narsisstic Hoover is so common.
1. they go out of their way to insult you( out of jeaulosity)
2.they disappear for few months and let you simmer in wondering why they were so rude.
3.they show up like nothing ever happened, if possible they blame you in a very nice way.
4.they invite you to a get together and you think all is well.
5.you go to their get together and wonder why nobody talks to you???
This is your setup. They have already told all their friends and relatives all the lies and what a rude person you are and how YOU victimized them. Of course the other quests are now asking the narsisstic indevidual why now you are at this party???...they most certainly will respond" You invited yourself to the party that is how rude you are".
Your healthy respond ;
1. block their number
2. be polite to them they are sick demon possessed people.
3.do not let them in your house again!
4.do not go to any place together where they might be.
5.do not talk about this person with anybody associated with her.These people are nothing but messengers and manipulated individuals the narsisstic indevidual is using. They do not know any better.
6.you not falling for the games anymore makes you the most hated indevidual in the live of the narsisstic.

[iloveTool]

Literally had the first one happen to me, he had a car breakdown crisis. not enough money and exact words you used in this video - "Please, you're the only one who can help me" I'm really glad you brought up the fact that covert narcissists DO apologize and they fake the whole empathy speech. There's a lot of channels out there who say a narcissist will NEVER apologize and that is just absolutely false. I think they are speaking more to overt narcissists but covert absolutely do fake apologize. They're the scarier ones but the manipulation is so hard to see until it's too late

[mareebrissenden]

OMG yes stalked me at the gym in the street turned up unannounced with flowers or food or wine very creepy finally my son who was at home at the time and had turned 15 and was over6 foot so much taller than the covert narcissist said ‘ you need to go now Mum doesn’t want these things you need to leave her alone ‘ with that I never saw him again 🙏❤️

[ericac]

Filed for a divorce 4 weeks ago and he calls me every other day wanting to talk. Crazy part is he did the discard. I am going no contact and being serious about it

[sarahkeling]

One my exes is still possessive over me, even after he got engaged to another woman. She is aware of it and hates me. I wish she'd get some self respect, stop hating on me, and dump the loser. We both deserve better than to be pitted against one other by a disrespectful, emotionally abusive, man-child.

[Jen-eywh]

OMG YES!!He left things in my mailbox, in my yard, hang up calls, drive-bys for TWO YEARS. I finally confronted him and told him to leave me alone. He started dating the woman across the street from me six weeks later. Out of all the neighborhoods in my city...coincidental ???? They are horrible people.

[janinealexander]

Yes and I made the mistake of welcoming him now I’m divorcing him...

[jenniferanne]

The “nice” gifts are also a message: of control

[caracox]

My MIL could leave me a gift basket and make sure everyone sees how nice she is, but next thing you know she will be saying do you remember that basket I loaned you? I’m coming to get it.

[oliviasage]

OMG yes. I am in that situation right now, but thankfully I have videos like these that make me aware of what this really is

[geneviv]

Thank you so much Rebecca for giving us information and helping us realize what and who narcissists are. Im a nurse, i have a career, and im a victim of domestic and sexual abuse from my ex husband. I really did not know that my ex hubby was a narc. I cannot believe that everything you said about narcissist are true.i thought also that every time he discard or devalue me, he will hoover me again.its been a cycle until i found your channel and it helped me a lot realize that it was actually not love that he was showing me..it took me months to realize and accept that my ex hubby was a narcissist..so sad..but i need to let him go to move on woth my life..i wasnt healthy mentally being with him..he was draining me..but now im better..and happier without him.so thank you again for all your help🙏

[aporue]

they turn everything into an issue. 'ME, ME, ME!''

[jordanautumnjarviswilson]

OMG YES I'm realizing this MORE AND MORE everyday!
My God it's taken Long to see this! But I still dont see all of it!
What has happened to my life???

[peterknyk]

The first year was the worst. It was nonstop. I almost convinced myself that she was being nice but that was not true. All she wanted was what she wanted and nothing else. She was used to me being her doormat so hoovering was natural for her.... it has subsided somewhat because I have been doing my best to go no contact, no response, etc. Her narcissistic neediness is such a powerful impulse she just can’t help herself. 🤢 Eventually it will end and I will be so grateful. 🙏🙏🙏

[firedplay]

I can't thank you enough. I used your Crush My Negotiation Worksheet and your advice from these videos and it all saved me from the narcissist's endgame of trying to get me arrested for rushing him out the door. He was insane! You arr providing an invaluable service.

[andynnai]

There is an attempt on their part to say that they have been there for you, they’ve always loved you, will always love you. “I will change”, yup, I get that. “I’m sorry”, without an explanation of why or give any details, or what steps will be taken to mend, fix, resolve or show they will genuinely change.

[Mantelar]

They do something so terrible that immediate dissolution of the relationship is not only appropriate but expected, and they’re still trying to get you back. Ordinary people who make mistakes know when they broke something and it can’t be fixed. A Narcissist can fix anything.

[triciatrenary]

Absolutely, we just went to court yesterday and he offered to work on my car right after court.