5 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back But Is Scared

In this video, Clay Andrews discusses 5 signs your ex wants you back but is scared.

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When I look back at my experience getting back together with my "big ex" I can now see a few signs she and I were going to get back together again.

So, in this video, I'm going to look back at what I saw between my ex and I and help extrapolate a few signs your ex wants you back but is confused or scared from my own experience and story.

Are these the only signs that there are? Of course not.

However, these are a good place to start.

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[robertswift]

the absolute #1 sign....the grass wasnt greenier on the other side, , , it was just your turn

[itsmeeandrea]

clay im literally living the same life as you lol its my 2nd breakup and i also kept a journal and im here watching this video

[patrickwalsh]

I was literally watching your other videos on this topic last night HAHAHAH perfect timing

[jakebrown]

Thank you clay xxx much peace to you brother

[KMM]

Clay: "When my big ex & I broke 😁😆😅🤣😂
I still crack TF up when I hear her referred to as this!!! 😆😂🤣 AWESOME. 😁😄😆🤣😂

[rebeccajohnson]

@clay I write in a journal book too. I write about relationships. I reread my journal books overtime to figure out stuff about certain exes. I noticed that there was several exes that were trying to come back to me in time. Lost contact with them. How do I build up trust and let know the path is clear?

[couldstrife]

Thanks for the advice your videos are helping. I think I’m seeing some of these signs but my ex isn’t really showing if she wants to get back together, as when I’ve brought it up but not pushed she’s kinda just said I’m not in that place, as she still hurt over her rebound breaking up with her, but she keeps messaging pretty much everyday and asking if I want to hang out with her so I just don’t really know

[MB-ebed]

They might be scared but that’s a good thing and not a reason to break no contact. We want them to feel afraid that they might be losing us. That is the strongest and best force to reverse them drifting away and not wanting us.
However you do want to give them a little bit of grace if they are just way too afraid. Breadcrumb them back, be warm when they do contact you, and keep the mystery alive by answering questions maybe like 70% at a time.

My approach is probably way more measured but it’s been working and I nearly lost her completely from just hating me. It feels like emergency care.

Reverse the roles as best as you can. Be the attractive one. Politely decline their offer of friendship. Keep improving yourself. Be the one that is getting away for them!

[barbersmurff]

Wow the timing of this video is perfect. All of those scenarios are happening now between my ex and I. I use to buy her flower every other week but she asked me to stop because she said she didn’t deserve it due to the fact that she left me and jumped into a rebound relationship with another married man. But she also says that the ship hasn’t sailed yet regarding our relationship but she’s scared. She even planned a Disney trip for our family next month. Paid for my tickets and everything before she even told me about it. So his video gave some insight. Thanks Clay ur the man..

[barbersmurff]

Omg my ex just told me this again. Ur timing is amazing Clay. She’s scared to get back together

[BagChasinLife]

This literally could not have come more on time

[carolinekelly]

I did try contact him & he blanked me & now he reached out to a family member looking for some belongings!!! 2 late because I won’t contact him again after he blanked me ! He knows where my front door is

[cherrybacon]

I think people meed to have a clear boundary between 'friendship with no relationship ' and 'friends with benefits' or they're going to get hurt emotionally. 🍒

[alberth]

Thank you clay I appreciate it I’m going through a rough time with my ex we broke up on April and recently the break up hit me and I broke up with her and now I want her back do you think these rules or advice still have an effect my ex doesn’t know what she wants she tells me that she misses me but at the same time she is scared of getting back together

[uisiyki]

Can this apply even though we are in no contact right now?
Its been 3 weeks thill this date, and i know we are meant for eachother. The Signs your talking about i can't see them because we are distant rn but i can feel them if it makes sense?
I see it trough her social media storys, the music she chooses the way she asked me how to deal with netflix account and so on(we talked onece over text). It feels like its not over yet, even though she said it. But how she said it sounded more like her borther and her friend and less like her tbh. Its been a 2 years realashionship and the main reason for the break up was me distensing myself because i couldn deal with my problem and fell into a "depression" / addiction in video gaming and that changed me alot. Now i recoverd, sold everything that had to do with gaming and i'm happier then ever, the only thing missing is her
Thanks in advanced.

[williamdolan]

How would you know if your not in there life? In my case

[macbookbackup]

What about the line right before or at crisis point “I don’t want to say I’ve moved on, but that’s not where I’m at” when you weren’t even asking to get back together but they misinterpreted
That just blew me away as so cold
I’d almost rather here the “You should move on” or “We’re not compatible” like in the crisis point videos. Those sound like walls. This sounds like a full stop no hope I’m over it.
The rebound is gone as she said he would be, rapport is very good, we both have feelings but nobody is acting I don’t get what just happened

[Pearlangeldream]

This is from a weak ex gf spoke to u. But my case is a strong ex bf who is stubborn instead.

[timellis]

So my ex left me and I tried no contact but she would say gnite out of nowhere n ect showed signs that we could get back together but she always so super short with me and it's been the biggest roller coaster ride. Well anyways I messed up and deleted her off my social media bcuz it's been tearing me apart and I told her how I feel. But now she's so upset with me. I'm starting to regret my decision after watching this video

[Faxtron]

Want to come back because the other person is not better than you, simple as that.