Signs My Ex Is Hurting

Signs that your ex is hurting likely means that reuniting with them is not unlikely and that you are doing what you need to do to let them experience a real breakup.

If you are wondering if your absence and the breakup are hurting your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend to the point that you can feel hope about getting back together with them, Coach Lee, has a powerful message for you in this video.

In this explanation, Coach Lee, reveals 5 signs that show your ex is hurting and also a bonus sign after those 5. No matter how long you've been broken up with your ex, this information should be helpful for you to determine if your ex is having a difficult time without you or not.

Videos Mentioned In This One:

[matthewferreira]

I definitely don’t want my ex back… never take back a cheater, once a cheater always a cheater! Believe that!

[minigunnie]

1. They exaggerate their happiness on social media
2. Regresses to a Negative behaviour
3. (Key point) if they are asking the details of your Life - jobs, pets, ur weekend, things that is normal to ask when they were with you
4. Volunteer that they miss you but then gives you cold shoulder
5. They act a lot diff when they are with you - silly or mature

[runer]

Listening to this guy will ease your life when you are heart broken. But I don’t really want my ex back. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

[rrrrrrraaaa]

Sometimes they are hurting bcz their rebound dumped them.

[DailyEnhancer]

When my ex seperated from me. They post 10 times harder on social media than normal. It's like their life have never been so good, life is just so perfect without me 😂

[kalaiclaire]

I cried and begged on the day he broke up with me then he blocked me on social media. Was devastated for 10 days, watched coach Lee everytime I feel sad and lonely and made sure to follow his advice. 2 weeks now on NC rule, he keeps asking about me from our mutual friends. I had to fake being happy in front of them and that’s what he knows, two days ago he just unblocked me but i ignored it and pretended i didn’t noticed. On healing process at the moment and loving myself more. Thanks Coach Lee for your videos it really helped me a lot.

[zebra]

Coach Lee has cured me . I’ve watched all of his soothing videos ... today I woke up and realized I actually DONT want my ex back . Thank you coach Lee . You are an angel on earth .

[betherealdeal]

It has taken me a very long time to understand what this man is talking about in all his vids.
They all pretty much say the same thing but with different angles. It’s really liberating to know that time is a major factor in this. We are so conditioned to having things our way at any time.
Not so... the biggest challenge and the hardest thing to do for any person is to stand still. Yet there is power in doing so. Stand still and not try to fix things or take matters into our own hands. I am learning that.
Like the Mick says: ‘Time is on my side, yes it is.’ They have to experience the LOSS. Not too many people experience that. They just hop from one relationship to another..

[lyrlandemilhomme]

The crying, pleading and begging have stopped. I feel like this is getting fun now. Thank you!!!

[BOO-syoz]

Almost 4 weeks of NC.
Thanks for getting me through so I don’t lose any more dignity lol

[lunajones]

This video is soooo helpful. My ex immediately changed their profile picture. We had no contact for 3 weeks and then he reached out asking very personal questions about my life, and then disappeared again. This is so encouraging to hear.

[TinaSotis]

I miss my ex. But I can never trust him again.

[orlandomedina]

“Stay with me, be careful “. That was great information Coach Lee. Thank you

[amandavictoriasewell]

He has sent me a love heart, and phoned to say he was having serious doubts about his 'new' relationship. And he wants to meet up with me. Amazing. This was a guy who couldn't wait to get rid of me a few weeks ago. Your videos are so accurate, Coach Lee. Thank you.

[marleew]

It seems like they come back the day you LITERALLY don’t want them back ever again. In fact they aren’t even a thought on your mind. Then you get to deal with drama all over again—but hopefully you are clear enough to know what you need more than what you think you want. So focus on the future without them.

[misterhenchmen]

remember..!!! when they say they "miss you".... they likely only miss easy access to you. they miss the ego boost you give them. they miss you being their doormat to make them feel attractive. so... don't fall for it. do they actually miss YOU? LOVE your videos!!! they are keeping me afloat during some bullsh..t going on in my love life. thank you thank you thank you!

[suissefidelis]

My ex and I broke up last month for the reason that she said she is not yet ready to commit, we are already going for a two year relationship but that one fight we had became our downfall. Thank you coach for all your advices now I don't feel so alone.

[tena]

I've noticed my ex losing weight. She had a bad eating disorder that I'd help her fight through but now...I've also been told by a friend she seems extremely depressed. Given the holidays no contact has been mixed. I rarely have reached out. She reached out first for Christmas for example. But she keeps telling my friends or mutual friends to tell me to move on, that she has no intention of ever trying to mend what we had. It hurts to hear but technically shouldn't be news. She left me right around Thanksgiving. This all just hurts. At the very least I have been actively trying to take positive steps in my life to improve, hopefully she takes notice of that

[KorachiLINDA]

I am using your advice to just move on. I don't want him back. I am just taking my time. I really want to experience a person that is afraid to ever let me go.

[ΔΙΟΝΥΣΗΣΚΑΡΑΝΤΖΗΣ]

Count me in that the no contact works. It works especially when there were lots of great moments. She dumped me and took her three painful days on her part (and mine) to contact back and in no time we are better than ever. Lee, in my case you are absolutely right. Thanks mate, keep researching human behaviour.