5 Signs That Your Ex Is Testing You

Why would an ex test you?
- Curiosity
- Power Trip
- Decision Making

1. The Jealousy Test
2. The Ignore Test
3. The Sex Test
4. The Emotional Support Test
5. The Career Test

[simplyyetz]

We broke up 100 days ago, we’ve known each other for 3 years and been in a relationship for a year and i am in a no contact rule for more than a month now. He wants to be friends with me still but i dont feel like pretending that everything is easy and okay. At first i missed him, no doubt but days passed, the more i focus on myself the more i realized my worth and i deserved better. And now, i am not in searching for next relationship, i feel like i am enjoying my single life more.

[Handleisnotavailable]

These videos are the most comprehensive in among them all. Very well organized and offering really detailed, factual info. I can’t believe the channel and views aren’t in the millions.

[indigodande]

Here's a test. a Prove me wrong test. Its like I expected better from you because I know you can be a better man. I had one ex make reservations for a hotel. He had a girl that he made a priority over me bc he was in love with her for like the last 20 years. I was secondary choice... I wanted him to mute her....or at least not be flying by on his fb feed. I didnt say unfriend her but instead of keeping the hotel reservations when we got into an argument about her and muting her. A "bid" for him to show me I was a priority that my feelings matter. its like I knew 99% he'd fail and hoped for 1% that he would prove me wrong. I've done personal work since then so dont be coming at me.

[peternincompoop]

These seem less like tests & more like manipulation tactics. All the more reason to stay apart.

[ace]

All of this is extremely exhausting and just validates there is nothing better than avoiding broken people. Never go back to this psychosis. DA, AA, FA’s are psychotic and need to be hospitalized and on meds. This is not life. This chase : game is incredibly pathological and sick. No one’s precious life is worth being with anyone like this.

[iamrightyourwrong]

i guess i failed the jealous test .. she flaunted her new girlfriend who is 20 years younger then her … so i reach out and she blocked me 🤷🏾‍♂️.. so idk know ..im going to just keep moving forward

[gloriacarina]

You know he wants nothing to do with you when sex would gross him out. My ex left me saying he was not attracted to me.

[the_agate_gate]

Lol. If he ever tried to get emotional support from me, I’d purposely leave him on read.

I went no contact and won’t contact him unless he contacts first, which he has done a few times already. Sometimes I won’t respond.

[Lyonspl]

After watching these videos and numerous others...

I actually reconnecting with me ex partner...

These videos are excellent advice but at the end of the day if your true to yourself and also the past relationship you could both willing reconnect...

Honestly, ownership, trust and love will guide you

All the best xox

Paul x

[thicks]

Good stuff. Please Stop with the noises on every slide change.

[leighmiller]

My ex is kind of testing me right now. One of the reasons for the breakup was because he was afraid I couldnt handle him having to go on the road for months at a time sometimes. Well we have recently begun to start connecting again a little bit when he found out he had to go away for a few months and I told him It would be a good chance for me to prove that I can handle him being gone, and he said okay, but he diddnt think I could do it, and the fact that I'm continuing to stick around and even help him deal with things here in the homefront, is actually surprising him and frankly impressing him. He isnt used to this seeing as how every other woman before has left him because they couldnt handle him being gone like this.

[vicart]

Can anyone join your Facebook group or is it just for people being coached?

[camellia]

I personally think if you were dumped (when you didn’t do anything dreadful to precipitate the breakup) it should be the ex who repairs what they broke. Secondly why would you want to be with someone who plays games or tests.

[HaloHuntress]

My ex is absolutely doing two of these. First he unblocked me and started posting a bunch of public photos with his new girl. I never reached out. Then after they broke up I saw him on a dating app and messaged him a friendly text. He hasn't responded to it. It's been almost two weeks. He's tried the jealousy and ignoring so far 😂

[shawnbateman]

My ex tried a few different tests on me. She would post pictures on social media of pictures containing things that I bought for her, for she would be wearing something that I bought for her. Another test, she would post pictures of herself with another guy or even girl, and they we're acting affectionate towards one another in the pictures. Jealousy doesn't work with me, but I was feeling a little guilty when I was seeing the pictures of the stuff that I bought for her and the memories attached to it. But I'm not playing games with her anymore, and I'm not going to go and reach out to her again just to get the same result. I'm keeping no contact permanently. She has done far too much and kept too many secrets behind my back, and I caught her in too many lies.

[williamdolan]

Your quiz can’t tell that all people are different and you can’t guarantee anything!

[czapatacz]

What if your doing no contact but reaches out for financial purposes like taxes or when you spoke about agreement you had but ex reaches out still

[nellyshivere]

Am on No conduct.
. I highly suspect he is also doing the same

[gordon]

Currently undergoing the game of chicken to see who will break first 💩

[stanlivingston]

Your comments on no contact are not exactly what some people need to hear. This is constructive criticism here, just saying. Spend some time talking to some folks In extreme cases. And you may have I don’t know a lot about your background, but I’m subscribing to learn more. You have a very good delivery on your video.👍. Also that last on the wealth, very good information. Money is not everything but partners expect and require the other to provide a certain amount of financial security. Money problems equal high stress and lots of tension. Dead on bro👍👍👊👊