7 Signs Your Avoidant Ex Loves You

Even though someone with an avoidant attachment style may keep you at arm's length, they still want to love and be loved.

In this week's video dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 7 signs an avoidant loves you.

Lucia is an internationally known dating/relationship expert, author of "Lucia's Lessons of Love", former host of "The Art of Love" TV and radio shows, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker.

She has over 100 major national and international TV and radio credits including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News.

Lucia has been interviewed by numerous publications including Details, Business Week, Allure, Elle and media from Italy, France, Germany, Canada, Japan, the UK, Australia, Azerbaijan, Chile and Denmark.

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[raoulcabrera]

1. Time and space -- Yes, lots of it
2. Pull back and come back -- Yes
3. Social media -- No. Am blocked
4. They had a bad day, sharing -- Yes, traffic, death in family, etc.
5. They leave you alone in their place -- No. Am told to stay out of their house.
6. Travelling with you -- Yes, they ask for it.
7. Family introduction -- Yes, but not close friends.
Thank you for your video.

[GlobalEnglishSupernaturals]

It takes an avoidant to know an avoidant and TO CATCH an avoidant 😂❤

[beachstreet]

I’m an avoidant and this is all true. The ones I had a high interest in I was less avoidant than I normally am. And breaking those rules But if I suspected even the slightest threat, boom! I back away again.

[thbornpr]

Happy to learn my ex loved me. She did everything mentionned in this video.

[loganshorthair]

Me and my fearful avoidant ex are talking again, 4 months after the break up. I did everything right but have always been a little curious as to whether or not he truly did/does have feelings for me. I’ve seen ALL these signs with him and things are going well. Taking it slow and making him work for it but this video was very helpful and reassuring! Thank you Lucia!!

[jcymngo]

I think there are a lot of people holding out hope they have an avoidant partner when in fact, it's just people who don't want them. 😂

[jabwinfinance]

Me and my ex are trying right now. It’s been a 4 year journey of getting her back and I’m perhaps the closest I’ve ever been (knocking on wood now). She EASILY checks all the boxes in this video and this brings me great hope and motivation. Great way to start the week! Thx again Lucia…❤️

[lwalters]

Can you do a video that compares fearful avoidants and dismissive avoidants as it relates to your key concepts you’ve been teaching us?

[na]

1/give time/space 2/they come back 3/change status 4/share if they have bad day 5/leave alone at home or give key 6/travel w/ you 7/introduce you to family

[MikeJ]

She left me alone at her place, but she did have the ring cameras around her place. She did tell me about her bad days. We traveled to New York and Orlando together. We stayed at her parents house plenty of times. Parents still loves me.

[AlexPenn.DatingCoach]

Great insights, Luchia! Your breakdown of signs an avoidant loves you is spot-on. As a dating coach myself, I appreciate your focus on understanding attachment styles. I'd add that fostering open communication is crucial for both anxious and avoidant types. Encouraging healthy dialogue can bridge the gap between these attachment styles, leading to more secure connections. Keep up the valuable content!

[russellfowler]

#8. They actually tell you that they love you

[vornamenachname]

After a year of being in a relationship, they have wiped out your self-esteem, so no contact for 2 months won't help. You will be traumatized and your needs will still not be met.

[robertsimpkins]

Patience is a will always listen to you ❤♾️🔦

[markmcmanus-]

5 out of 7, we have broke up twice but I know she will come back again.

[Oilbabyoil]

All of them. We haven’t spoken or seen each other now in 7 months since the breakup

[ScottAndScarlettsDarkHumor]

I have seen most of this from the avoidant that I know. The others I have not seen come to pass. However her and I are understood to be just friends. I would have to have certain things change about myself before she would even consider dating me. She lives with me and I just encourage her in spite of my anxious attachment style to be herself at all times genuinely. Everybody thinks we are dating but we are not and we are definitely travel buddies and have a ton in common. We just don't date each other though.

[CeciledeLuire]

"I've *avoided* to talk about this topic, because I'm an avoidant, and that's what we do: *avoid* haha" 😂
thanks for sharing 😉

[hatebreather]

She was showing all 7 signs, and still she left me out of the blue...

[Vekktoria]

I remember that smiley face photo Lucia lol, it was years ago it seems