8 Signs Someone You Know Is Dismissive Avoidant | Thais Gibson & Dismissive Avoidants

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How to Repair Any Relationship

In this video, I talk about 8 signs to look out for of a dismissive avoidant partner, friend, or family member.

Have you ever wondered if your partner or someone you know is dismissive avoidant, and if so, what were some of the signs?

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00:00:00 - Holiday Contest
00:01:05 - Intro
00:02:09 - Sign #1: Lack Emotional Availability
00:03:32 - Sign #2: Can Be Difficult to Get to Know
00:04:40 - Sign #3: May Withdraw After Being Vulnerable
00:05:35 - Sign #4: May Be Reluctant of Making Long Term Commitments
00:07:12 - Sign #5: Avoid Attachment Needs
00:07:59 - Sign #6: Can Have a Difficult Time Warming Up
00:08:40 - Sign #7: May Have a Hard Time With Your Emotions
00:09:51 - 7-Day Free Trial: How To Repair Any Relationship Course
00:10:29 - Sign #8: History of Short or Non-Committal Relationships
00:11:07 - Conclusion

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[edgreen]

1) distract themselves w creature comforts
2) shove emotions down. So say think instead of feel.
3)Don't know how they feel or how you think but know how they think.
4) avoid deep emotional interchange..
5) may not process data after conflict may take days or months.
6) feel they shouldn't have to compromise for a relationship.

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