8 Signs Someone Is Highly Attracted To You

Unless someone is outwardly expressive about their interest, attraction typically appears first on the micro-level before it becomes obvious. So whether it be that schoolmate, colleague, friend, or stranger, stay tuned for signs that someone may be highly attracted to you. For all of the signs listed next, please use your best discernment and intuition to decipher the clues!

Writer: Cindy Nguyen
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Azélie (new animator)
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

Happy Sunday! We're so grateful to be part of this 9 MIL journey with you! If you're new here, comment where your'e from. We love to know.

[weirdscorpio]

Things I do, when I'm attracted to someone: try to avoid them

[froukjefaber]

Things I do when I like someone
1: look at them
2: look away
3: don’t talk to them
4: walk away
5: avoid them at all costs

[vagabonde]

2 signs I am attracted to someone :
- Avoid them
- Do everything in my power not to show it to the point where they might think I hate them 💀

[jojon.]

There's only one thing to pay attention to. Their effort in talking to you, and seeing you. A person's effort shows their interest in you

[markusguadalupe]

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[No_Purpose_White_Flour]

Side note: friendliness ≠ flirting. Mirroring behaviour and distraction can be signs of ADHD or spectrum behaviour, and open/enthusiastic body language can be caused by masking or excitement about a conversation topic or relief at fitting into a social interaction. The best way to know if someone is flirting with you is to ask if they're interested

[Jaidyn]

Things I do when I like someone
1. Laugh a LOT
2. Say wack things
3. Text excessively but only when they text first
4. Stop texting and talking bc I think you hate me and I’m making them uncomfortable
5. Avoid touch and apologize when I reactively touch them

[lipistikniaya]

It's sad when that person is no longer attracted to you and already moved on because you kept on ignoring and avoiding them even though you like them back.

[yasmine]

In case you don't relate to all of these signs it's okay dude
You're lovable, you're worthy and you're great and enough, it doesn't matter if the people we love aren't attracted to us or even normal people what matters is the way you see yourself not others . Have a great day ❤️❤️❤️

Omg i didn't expect all these likes

[theworldsmostplagiarizedma]

I find it easier to just assume no one is attracted to me in any situation. It's a safe bet that prevents a lot potentially awkward interaction lol.

[deborauzumaki]

I used to get so excited whenever I saw these signs in a crush. Then I learned attraction is just phase one. A person might be attracted to you, but that doesn't mean they have feelings. Feelings might grow with time, if you're both willing to spend time together. If you both want something beyond the physical. If you both share and keep an emotional connection. However, a lot of people leave at phase one... I think we all deserve so much more than those physical language signs. We deserve our significant other's presence in our lives, their concrete gestures, their love. Attraction is amazing, but it is just a piece of a greater thing.

[staryanaki]

The inclusion of the “Hi, stranger” guy at 5:45 caught me so off guard that I screamed a laugh. 😂

[maggie]

3:48 I love how you included Luisa and Mirabel from Encanto in the video! So adorable! ☺️

[Dozymizzle]

watching this so I don't make it obvious that I like my crush

[supiamlauren]

Just a reminder to not be too hard on yourself. Life is hard, it’s more than ok to relax and give yourself a break. If you are going through a tough time I wish you the best. Things will get better. And your stronger and more powerful than you’ll ever know😁

[NumberFiveYT]

I tend to distance myself when I'm crushing on someone, and brush off a conversation when it starts to go outside of just work stuff. It's not about them - I just hate the feeling when people notice that I like someone (especially if they're his friends), which is something that I know I should not mind but I do.

[vilmaraz]

It's hard to pretend that you don't love someone when the truth is you are so in love with that person🥰

[melaniemartinez]

I always just assume everyone is purely friendly to me because who could possibly be attracted to me? and then when I like someone, I suppress my attraction to the person and try to act purely friendly to them because rejection is terrifying.

[kayskreed]

I'm a grown man and I've only just recently begun to pay attention to body language as I've been pretty much oblivious all my life. I missed some opportunities either because of that, or because I rationalized my way out of it. "I must be imagining things, " or "Nah, it would never work out." The mind is really good at that it seems, haha.

It's true that paying attention to body language matters and whereas people lie, the body rarely if ever does. There are a bunch of books on the topic. But, if you're a fellow over-analyzer, it's best to let it filter into your subconscious and not to obsess over it.