'The worst mistake people make in a breakup..' - Matthew Hussey

"The worst mistake people make in a breakup.." - Matthew Hussey #shorts

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[antoniub]

And sometimes, it's not pain...it's just anger and disappointment. That will continue to be in your head for long time

[Lucky]

Can’t wait for that day that I will stop crying over old memories

[Infrared]

The first day I woke up and didn't cry was such a relief. It feels like you'll be sad forever but he's right, it will fade. Each step forward is a step away from someone you loved, so it will hurt. But your body knows what to do so trust the grieving process and don't interfere.

[Justdoinok]

I still cry all the time after a year. And he was awful to me.

[jaydeepvipradas]

If you don't get a hold of yourself before next relationship, it's injustice to new partner.

[Nikki_]

It’s been 3 weeks since my break up, I’m so lost inside. I’ve lost 9 pounds, can’t sleep and even lost my appetite. He’s moved on already and I’m here broke. 😢

[goinggagaladygaga]

2 years after my husband on 27years cheated on me and that pain is still in the foreground
Not quite to the excruciating extent it was but man I wish my healing was quicker. 5 therapists, deliberately trying to heal, facing my fears, triggers and demons.
Betrayal from someone who is supposed to protect you is one of the hardest things to overcome

[guitargod]

My breakup has faded into the background, but the pain was so intense that I haven’t even approached a girl since

[noddybrown]

I have been through hell in the last few months and yes, only now can I start to do small things. When it occasionally re-emerges it’s not as sharp. The fact that I found out he was a liar in the last week has helped me hugely and writing him telling him exactly what I thought of this has been therapeutic. I wish nothing but shit for the bastard.

[timelordthefirst]

Songs and places get me. When I hear a certain song.. it brings it all back. 😔

[Mimibiz]

Yep! It took me over a year to talk about my divorce without crying. It was so painful 🤦‍♀️

[sarahlund-ntkw]

I wish I'd known this sooner, but glad I found this anyway. Also, relationships aren't everything. They're not anyone's whole world. You get the illusion that it's all that matters in life, but it truly isn't. We become fatal to the idea of falling in love. Jmho.

[doraljackson]

9 months and I definitely agree.. I am so much happier and loving myself! I know now… I will always put me first!

[SsrhH]

Exactly...at the beginning it's hurt & hard...times pass it become memories

[nightskylights]

After my only sister passed away about 2.5 years ago. I was paralyzed with grief for months. The heartbreak was to enormous at times, that when I cried, I couldn't breath. Have had one breakup since then, it took me only a week to get over it! Because compare to losing my sister, breaking up seemed like nothing at all. It completely changed how I think, and feel about breakups now. I look back about the breakups before she passed away, and how so devastated they made me feel for months. Now, when I think about them, I feel so silly about feeling so upset after breakups.

[eessa]

To sum up what I learnt from life is that nothing is permanent.🙏♥️

[nandiniritz]

This person has helped me in getting over my biggest trauma 😭

[cindyrodway]

Thankfully it had moved to the background, it’s been a long painful journey that I wouldn’t wish on anyone ❤

[ddarwin]

Matthew is too good at this honestly like how does someone so young in one life time know all this

[lady]

So true. I still think about it every day for all day long. It's been 6 months and I still ask myself why, even if I know the answer. I don't want to ever go back, I just want this pain to end. I am emotionally drained and I just want to be happy again. I know I am strong and that day is always one day closer 🥺