Narcissistic Victim Syndrome | Dr. David Hawkins

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Do you find yourself acting in ways that are completely out of character? Are you saying things that you would normally never say? Stress due to chronic emotional abuse can lead to behaviors that are "so not like you." In this video, Dr. David Hawkins talks about this particular aspect of Narcissistic Victim Syndrome, and how your pain and frustration can be used as a launching pad for change.

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The internet is inundated with hyperbole and misinformation about narcissism, leaving many people confused and hopeless. Get the facts about narcissism and emotional abuse from someone who has been researching, writing about and treating narcissism and emotional abuse for over a decade.

Dr. Hawkins is a best-selling author and clinical psychologist with over three decades of experience helping people break unhealthy patterns and build healthier relationships. He is the founder and director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute which offers education, training and counseling for people who want to break free of, and heal from, emotional abuse.

Whether the perpetrator of the abuse is your spouse, partner, parent, boss, friend or family member, we offer practical advice for anyone trapped in a toxic, destructive relationship. In addition to narcissism & emotional abuse, topics include covert, reactive, spiritual, secondary, relationship trauma and more.

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This is EXACTLY what I'm feeling!! I feel like I don't even recognize myself!!! Finally got out and glad after 28 years. Broke my heart to leave...I loved him up till about 6 months ago when he put my life in danger in the car, kicked me badly under the covers and thr final straw throwing things at me while I'm trying to run away from him! I'm devastated and so badly wanted things to work!!! #nolongerstrugglinginoklahoma

taraelmegreen
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Thank you! This topic isn’t widely discussed in recovery circles. There is a lot of guilt and shame having succumbed to this type of behavior. You feel like you’re behaving just like him and you are highly criticized for it yet his outbursts (for no reason) can go on for days, months, years...and you better not challenge that. I’m so thankful for this valuable and much needed service you provide! Thank You!

jojostarbuck
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Thank you for your incredible work on Narcissistic abuse, victims and survivors. You give voice and a pathway to the light out of fog and sometimes utter darkness. May God bless and keep you.

nwilliams
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Yes! Yes! Thank you! I am crying because I haven’t been able to put it in words. Nobody gets it. You get it and I thank you so much!

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One eye opener for me was others saying to me, "Kari this isn't like you, it's like you're mimicking his behavior. Don't let him change who you are." Several people have said this and things like it to me and that's when I noticed this was not me, nor who I want to be. This video explains the head spinning, the frustration that builds up when feeling like you're constantly under attack, overtly and covertly.

KariMotley
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I have felt so alone all of these years thinking I was losing my mind and begging God to help me stop these terrible things I started saying and doing to my husband. I did think “this is not me!!” Then one day I heard you on the radio and I thought, He gets it!!! Thank you, Dr. Hawkins!

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This is so relatable! This one time I was feeling bad so I was accusing myself of being vicious and vengeful and grudging because I was guilted and my mind was just translating every emotion into believing I was a bad person.

And he screenshots these things I was calling myself and sends them back to me, as if he was holding a mirror and that was me.

Thankfully, It broke everything that had a chance to get fixed and I walked away.

NadaAlawadhi
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All I can say is WOW & I too feel validated! This resonated every word....it was like you live in my house or my head.

mindigirl
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I am so glad I am now a client of this Center. You have all saved my life. Absolutely. I am right at this place and struggling with who I am And the Marriage Recovery Center may well be the only place in the world that can help. Because my husband is also now a client. Because Dr Hawkins is correct, narcissism is on a spectrum.

shelleyd
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You neglected to mention that even years after you’ve left the narcissistic person you can still have fallout from that relationship pop psychology tells you to move on yet you know something is wrong so you continue to blame yourself. Do you need to let people know that this can continue on for decades inside of you, this is not just about people who are in a relationship with narcissist.

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I am going to reach out to you for help. My husband is killing me (my spirit).

Lexilea