Why Nice Guys Don't Finish Last... (Nice Guys vs. Simps)

In this video we discuss the important distinction between nice guys and simps and why labeling nice guys as finishing last is simply not the case.

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[CourtneyRyan]

Hi everyone! I know this can be somewhat of a sensitive topic but I wanted to make this video because of the disbelief I received when I said I like nice guys in a previous video 😂 I also just had a close friend who was going through a similar situation so I figured it made sense to talk about this. Hope you all find this helpful - have you experienced this? Leave comments below!

[krazyhorze]

If you don’t want me in your prime, I don’t want you in the decline.

[danangelovalencia]

"Ladies, guys are sick of hearing you ask where all of the nice guys are. They're in the friendzone where you left them."
- Barney Stinson

[christopherwithers]

“Only go where you are celebrated, never go where you’re merely tolerated” -Coach Corey Wayne

[spacelogisticsinc]

"Sure, she'll go through the bad boys. She'll have that little stage."

...It lasts 15 years. Then you pick up the tab

[Zero-tmxk]

You said she will get out of her bad boys phase and then it will be your turn. That is literally finishing last.

[MrSdragon]

She destroy herself in her badboy stage. Now in her 35+ and expect good guys to be her prince to show up. The problem her prince came for her in her 20s and she reject him.

[jeffersonburton]

As a Nice Guy I can say that most SIMPs are actually involved in narcissistic abuse. Been there, done that, and have healed my inner child. Thank you Courtney.

[Ablemaung]

In my early 20s I definitely acted like a simp and I would meet the worst kind of girls that would take advantage of me. It wasn't until later in life that I've finally got over my insecurities and found true confidence that I started meeting quality girls. Lack of options and insecurities definitely make you an easy target for the wrong sorts of women to take advantage of you. But I'm thankful for those experiences nonetheless because it taught me what I needed to look out for.

[mazze]

”Sure, she’ll go through the badboy, have that ”little” stage.” Right

[wlessfanable]

"Women have choices, men have responsibilities." - YT personality Stardusk.
Let that sink in for a few minutes...

[fahadorky]

“It’s true. Nice guys don’t finish last because they don’t even finish the race in the first place, G.” - StephIsCold

[gasphynx]

I was always nice, I was never a simp. I didn't have a lot growing up though, only became successful when I was about 30 (all on my own), then suddenly I've got women who've spent 15 years in their bad boy stage hoping I'll settle down with them. That's what finishing last is. Alpha fux beta bucks.

[CJ-Rodriguez]

“Sure she’ll go through the badboy stage”...soooo in other words, the nice guy still finishes last. Kind of contradicting a little bit don’t you think? Here’s the real cycle of this whole screwed up love circle. She goes for the bad boy, Bad boy crushes her heart because she finds out she’s just another tally mark on his scoreboard, and the “nice guy” is left to pay the price. The “nice guys” are always the ones having to go through her trust issue stage and having to work double time to earn what she gave the badboy. Long story short guys, just live your lives the way you want. If miss perfect comes around, great. If she doesn’t then at least you know your living your life to the fullest and not missing out on anything. Live worry free kings 😎🤙🏻

[hanzbrixx]

"She'll go through that bad boy stage". Leave them in the street.

[jediryan]

Nothing turns a girl on more than a taken man, especially a married one.

[johanrunfeldt]

The big trouble with dating - and trying to establish a relationship with - a woman who had that "bad boy stage" in her life, is emotional. I don't care if she's had every bad boy in three towns over, but I resent being treated emotionally like those bad boys deserved to. Let me paint the picture:
Well Girl, you finally landed that sweet guy who hold doors for you, takes out the trash without being told and who brings you a bouquet of roses the first Thursday every month. He pays his own bills, and never refuses to help you over that last week before payday. He even remembers your significant days. Perfect Husband Material. AND YOU TREAT HIM LIKE HE WAS ONE OF THE LOW LIFES YOU USED TO DATE FOR LESS THAN A WEEK EACH, FIVE OR TEN YEARS AGO!!!
If you want a nice guy, be a nice girl.

[jondavidtheauthor]

"Nice Guys Always Win"

No, no they don't. Take it from me.

[johngalt]

Please believe us, nice guys. We need that provider after we hit that wall.

[thaturaniumguy]

Why are we putting so much emphasis on being a simp instead on focussing on people being manipulative ? That's the real problem.