WHY HOT WOMEN HATE NICE GUYS

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[briandrake]

Being "nice" is not un-masculine. Being weak and being nice are different things.

[Angrybogan]

Women don't hate nice guys. They look at the niceness as a licence to exploit him and take him for granted.

[gunsrulecommiesdrool]

Fortunately, there are a lot of women teaching us how to be jerks

[Anthony-djnd]

Female's aren't gonna like the outcome of telling male's not to be nice😂

[HonestLeighSpeaking]

What she is exposing is the fact that we have conflated the term “nice” with what it means to be a coward…

[rajibdeka]

"Nice guys end up on divorce court.
Bad guys end up on her face."- Rich Cooper.👍👍👍

[billowink]

Having grown up in the sixties/seventies in Eatern PA, most guys were "nice guys." I knew many nice guys who went on to be some of most successful men in history and they were generous to a fault. Amazingly, many of them did have difficulties with pairing up but eventually succeeded there as well. The girls were never these hotties. Marry for your brain, not your groin.

[wajdanali]

Be kind not because of fear, but out of principle, as it aligns with what is right and just.

[dexterspeights]

A world WITHOUT NICE GUYS is a WOMEN'S NIGHTMARE with her eyes wide open!

[copainspammeur]

The issue is women who do not know what a good man is tend to see abusive men as masculine and good men as nice guys, then don't understand why the good man "turned his back". They ought to educate themselves before getting into a relationship.

Also : men (real men that is) WANT a nice woman. It's men who have been around masculine women their whole life who want a woman with "character" because it is safer for them and more familiar...

[TheBrooklynbodine]

This brings to mind the saying "Don't mistake compassion for weakness." One of my teachers said that, and he was liked as well as respected!

[halalfoodtours]

She was being nice by saying: "Nice guys finish last."
It's actually: "Nice guys eats the leftovers."

[valdius]

I’d say people should check the definition of nice and stop using it as weak.

[l-n-s]

Nice guys usually finish last until they get rich.

[passthegravy]

If any girl hot or not has a problem with nice guys then that is their problem. Listen guys. Trying to please another person shows lack of respect for yourself. Don't change to please anyone except yourself.

[mattstakeontheancients]

So basically be kind but keep your masculine traits. Being tough or protective doesn’t mean being an asshole. Don’t be a pushover or conflict averse when boundaries need to be set. Does seem like this happens more with younger people as both men and women through experience realize the balance between being conflict averse and setting healthy boundaries in a relationship.

[spacebuddy]

Being nice and being weak aren't the same thing. Y'all need to stop conflating both!
Edit: Not being able to distinguish between both will turn good men into assholes for the wrong reasons! A guy might think that it's because he was 'too nice' his girlfriend cheated on him even if it has nothing to do with him and it's all her, this might turn him into an asshole that the next girl has to deal with. Y'all need to stop this.

[linneasimchah]

When people do not respond positively to certain kinds of "nice" people, it's because that version of "nice" is coming from fear. The underlying motive to please people is because that person is afraid. Afraid to confront. Afraid to disagree. Afraid to disappoint. Afraid afraid afraid. PEOPLE WHO ARE AFRAID ARE NOT SAFE PEOPLE. It is entirely correct/appropriate for someone not to respond positively (by moving closer) to a "nice" person like that.

[ImranKhan-ubib]

most "nice" guys i know are happily married

[uabeemployeebiblestudy]

There are two issues. The first issue is...what is a hot woman brining to the table that you would go after her so hard for? The second issue is that are you just chasing a woman or are you chasing a lady? Women is a biological term, a lady is a term applied to a woman with character. Masculinity in a man is being a nice guy because it takes a lot especially in this world and society to be one that is nice. If you can maintain your dignity and character in this society and still be a leader and not have to show your dominance of "I'm a man! and I am dominant" I can just live my life as a good man. The biggest issue is, this society has no use for the nice guy with good character anymore and so the Ruffneck is what they want. I'm not blaming my niceness, just learn to find a LADY, not just a woman, but a true LADY that will appreciate you for being that and not being the one that doesn't have to prove he is a masculine man, his character does that for Him. May God bless you all today...