6 Things 'NICE GUYS' Do WRONG! (Instant Attraction Killers)

In this video Marni shares 6 things nice guys do wrong which are instant attraction killers. These Nice Guy Habits make men look weak to women. She also shares how to STOP doing these habits so that you are no longer seen as the "nice guy". Instead you are seen as the awesome, attractive and confident guy.

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[tonya]

Just focus on your goals and dreams. Chasing these type of women are dream killers. Quality women will gravitate to you when its right

[dmac]

A "nice" guy will find a "nice" girl and they'll be happy. Any girl that doesn't appreciate a nice guy deserves the kind of guy she ends up with. When you're growing old with someone, kindness, stability, and loyalty is what it is all about but hell, what do I know?

[bogidyboowereareyou]

It’s sad how being a gentleman isn’t appreciated these days

[anesugandirajamie]

If your a nice guy. Don't change because of what people tell you. Woman normally don't know what they want. And in the end they are ones who will regret saying that he was too nice. If your being nice without anything in return just keep doing it. Be strong men 👌

[AnnieB]

The funniest thing is; the moment I became comfortable and ok with being alone, things started to happen for me.

[neophytealpha]

Polite men don't always say something, not out of fear but out of respect.

[mixfm]

I have been and nice guy all my life. That's how I was raised. To respect a Women. Yes, I have been walked on and stepped on, but those women don't deserve you. I got played in High School by a girl that I fell in Love with. I was her boyfriend and she had (3) other guys on the side. Never had a clue. She apologized many many years later and regretting that she left me. Now she sees my life and said I could of had a good life, but ended up with a Bad Boy, Kids, and Divorced. I worked as a DJ at a Strip Club and learned a lot about women during that time. The Manager said, you can't be nice to these women or they will walk all over you. And it was true, but not all where like that and I was there to do a job. Just be confident and be yourself. Your gut feeling will let you know that that women is not for you and it's time to move on. DTB!!! Don't waste your time buying her things expecting something in return. She will just take advantage of you and your kindness. You're wasting your money. DTB!! I have been with my wife for the last 22 years because I'm a "Nice Guy".

[iftekharenan]

the only thing I get from this video is that- "falling in love/having a relationship" is a pain the ass. And thanks to you I get another motivation, that is not to fall in love ever.

[maartenlaeremans]

Guys not escalating is not only about a fear of rejection. Some men are afraid a woman will call them a creep and tell all their friends about this horrible experience.

[thefleet]

NOTES

1. Trying to be liked (1:13). Of course you want to be liked, but if your sole purpose is to please the girl, it makes you look needy and unworthy. Express yourself in a natural and authentic way instead.

2. Having a transactional attitude (3:35). Being nice with an agenda is not really nice. Niceness doesn't even trigger attraction in the first place. Trigger attraction first.

3. Being overly impressed by beauty (5:06).

4. Filtering words (6:20). Even if you say something inappropriate, it shows carefree confidence.

5. Not setting boundaries (8:00). Fear of breaking rapport and getting rejected. Don't be a doormat. A guy with strong boundaries shows assertiveness and high self-respect.

6. Avoiding escalation (9:43).

General theme: Inauthentic behavior is a turnoff

[assassinsrequiem]

These sound like 6 things a psycho female demand & expect, especially the "avoiding conflict" part. Nice guys are that, NICE, not violent & angry & conflictive. Not nice guys are usually abusive, manipulative, and demanding.

I've been with the same girl since 1997, I have given to her everything I can. I made a commitment to her that she "holds my leash" because she has seen me get so violently angry that I've broken my own bones in an attack. So, I told her she is my center as well as my control. We have 2 children together (she had to convince me to have kids) and I love them very much.

So, I defy this list because it's the list from a high school girl's desire to have drama in their lives, and my wife agrees.

[austinsanders]

It's easy to tell someone to stop being a "door mat" but for some of us it's hard to quit doing something or being something that we were raised to do. I was always told growing up women were always right, happy wife happy life, never argue with your spouse if you want to be with them for the remainder of your life. Always treat women like royalty. It's been drilled so deep into my head I don't think I can forget it.

[drewmorgan]

Being nice, in general, isn't the reason why you're "instantly killing" attraction with women. It's actually because you're either not good-looking enough for her or not tall enough for her.

[dakotaseven]

It’s attitude and chemistry. If the woman isn’t connecting to you as a person, then move on. No matter what you do, that right person will present themselves without having to making it an algebra problem. These channels specifically are helpful but targets the actuality of making “all women are perfect” and it’s the man who is the problem. Keep in mind, women too has inadequacies, social problems and identifiably misrepresented. If the woman fails to see you for who you are, cancel her out and move on. Rejection is protection.

[Kudeghraw]

The tables have kind of turned now. Now when the 30-somethings beg for the man they rejected after riding the CC the men just say "I would date you, but you are just too used up."

[charlesvictoria]

🤷🏼 if she says I’m “too nice” that’s her perception. Maybe she can’t handle a guy who knows how to treat a woman right and she never deserved me in the first place.

[todmsn]

All good points and worthy of considering. Bottom line: believe in yourself, do not need the other person and have confidence in yourself that you will be fine no matter what happens. Just roll with things.

[nfbrice]

When all the shrews are alone and their biological clock is ticking, then they'll remember the "nice guys".

[littlegipper]

F these rules, be nice, be respectful, be yourselves fellas. She doesn't want to date you, walk away.

[klankie]

so basically:
"no complimenting, no caring, no helping" because feminism-women think that's needy.

Can't stop laughing here.
Women can choose who they want, if they prefer picking the douchebag, we end up with this kind of divorce rates. Children are the victims