The Brutal Truth of WHY 'Nice Guys' Always Finish Last!

The Brutal Truth of WHY "Nice Guys" Always Finish Last!... In today’s dating advice video, I will talk about the nice guy syndrome and give you the brutal truth of why nice guys finish last. You might have come off as a nice guy on first dates, online dating, or elsewhere in the dating process unknowingly. Embrace this dating advice to learn why nice guys always finish last and watch to the end.

Most women reject nice guys, which has made the nice guys always finish last. Pay attention to this dating advice to understand why nice guys always finish last. If you want to leave women wanting more, stop being a nice guy.

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[dandaman]

Women! Why won’t you help your friends who are men to get out of this? Why can’t you empathize and help us, I’m so resentful and hateful, all I have left is anger. I was always open to my female friends giving me advice but when they found out I acted this way I begged for help, instead I lost friends. I’m not a violent man, Iv been a good friend, so why?

[indevolatile]

Here's a fun "nice guy" story for you. You can't make this up... A few years ago I was seeing this exchange student, about 10 years younger than me. After a couple weeks of dating, she came back to my place but, despite my best efforts, she kept telling me "No". I finally gave up and took her her home, and wished her a good night. The next day we met up for lunch, and she seemed a little bit upset with me. I apologized for being a little bit aggressive the previous night and assured her that I'd be more considerate in the future. She looked me square in the eye, gave me an exasperated sigh and said "It's not that! Just... sometimes no means yes"
I didn't see her again after that. There's some things I'm just not willing to risk.

[Phaedrus-thbi]

A man finds a woman, marries, and hopes she will never change; A woman marries a man, and hopes she can change him. Happy Fathers Day !

[faddy]

Not only do many nice guys finish last but sometimes get demonized after they eventually lose their temper for being treated badly or taken for granted by women who were treated appallingly by heartless chads and abusers in their previous relationships.

[markcollins]

I did the work and got better at all these things. That’s when my wife of 18 years left. Unhealthy controlling women will use and abuse a ‘nice guy, ’ which is exactly what happened to me. She only became unhappy when I was more assertive, healthier and established boundaries. That says as much about her as it does me.

[johnjunior]

When you are nice all the time she'll take your kindness for a weakness.

[steen]

Get pumped and dumped by top 5% of men in their 20s and most fertile years then want the nice guy to pick up the pieces and accept the leftovers.
Which is whats happening.
Why would men be chivalrous when they're punished for it?

[camo]

You know what I call a man who cares about others and other's feelings .giving himself unconditionaly always trying to help others ?
A true leader and someone to aspire to be .

[MrSpencerport]

This is correct, stop being nice to women who would never think of being with you.

[todmsn]

I thought about it a lot over the years but the biggest gift I ever got by being a “nice person” was that I did not make situations worse. In other words, by keeping my cool and being respectful I walked away from situations unscathed that could have been much worse. For example, years ago I was in a car with a woman and we turned onto a road. She had been criticizing me during the ride and then this other driver seemed to assess it was my fault he was speeding up a street and just missed my car. The light changed and he drove away. I kept my cool and said nothing to the other driver and the moment passed. I also decided I’m not allowing this woman to talk to me this way and didn’t argue with her and dropped her off and never went out with her again. What I am saying is that nice does not mean passive but it does mean working at being respectful and calm and it helps me make good decisions.

[janoycresva]

I can’t believe I have to say this for the billionth time. Let’s stop using “nice guy” as a pejorative or as something negative. EVERY man should be a “nice guy”, all 100% of men should all be “nice guys”. What no man should ever be is a pathetic pushover who lets others exploit him.

[dennisjames]

About 20 years ago or more, I went thru a phase where I lacked that confidence in dating. Several dates led to nowhere and I was guilty of many of these nice guy traits. I ended up involved with a woman who kind of straightened me out in that matter. Although we weren't really right for each other we developed a strong friendship regardless. It certainly helped when I did meet my dearly departed better half. I was much more able to handle difficult situations. I firmly intend on carrying this with me when I meet someone new in the future.

[jafoot]

This is where I think the red pill is dangerous. Red pill feeds on nice guy anger and resentment without giving tangible actionable solutions. Thank you for this!

[jimbigboystoys]

When I grew of age to start dating, my mother had a favorite phrase she always liked to use when giving me advice. She would always say, “Never be a DOORMAT to a woman” She always said that much like children…women easily become spoiled, and can become a nightmare if you don’t see it coming! She always said that when you cater to her every need, she will grow to get used to it. And when you get to the point where you’ve been so nice, that your no longer ABLE to satisfy her, she will then begin to become turned off, and start to resent you. She may even be disrespectful, and start to belittle you. And ultimately, in the end, there’s a good chance that she will eventually dump you. You know what?…She was RIGHT!! I’ve seen this time and time again. Not just in a few of my personal relationships, but with many others as well. Be nice…But not TOO nice. Like my mother always said…Don’t be a DOORMAT!!

[bigdaddyd]

Men are doing the best thing they can for themselves now and walking away. The shit ain't worth it no more. Goodbye the game is rigged and done.

[todmsn]

Your post is fantastic! I would only add as someone who thinks being a nice person is the way to go that my mistakes with women were not their fault but mine. What I mean is that I allowed situations that were not too my liking to go on and did not seek clarification as to what is going on between us. What I am getting at is that I have come to the belief that if I blame anyone in my life for what went wrong then I am missing the lessons that can be learned. For example, one woman was not very nice at times and it took too long for me to walk away. I learned that if someone is not being respectful then it's game over and time to walk away. I am wise these days but I do think blaming others allows you to miss the necessary lessons.

[kc]

life is ruthless and cutthroat, thats what "Nice Guys" need to learn

[randombedroomguitarrist]

the trouble for me is that when I was made aware of these points in the past from books and other sources I have tried to act with those qualities mentioned but still getting the same results, meaning I ended up coming across insecure or immature etc. I think the point for me is the part of "getting results". For me the best path in the end I found is to check inside what are your needs and what makes you feel respect for yourself regardless of any possible affection and love that you may get. I feel at least for me the best course is taking the focus and awareness from the "women out there" and putting it on the "man here inside". It's like you get out of your center, out of your body and get lost towards what's outside of you. I may not become sucessful in dating like that but certainly will get sucessful at feeling ok and peaceful about myself.

[WaterlooExpat]

2:11 "Remember, I'm not the creator, just the decoder." That is you, indeed! You serve the relationship advice needs of men very well. Thanks.

[x-man]

I've heard the "it's not you, it's me" a few times. Said it to women a few times too. There is an element of truth in it. The "me" person has lost attraction for what ever reason. There is really no good, easy way to break it off with someone if you have a conscious.
The difference between "nice" and kind is that "kind" is something you are, all the time, to everyone. "Nice" as used in this context, means being "supplicant" You are also supplicant when you pray, for example. See the problem there?
If on a 1st date with a woman you have great attraction to and you are "My Queening" her, you are literally begging her. THAT will NOT win the day for you with her. If it ever does, plan on "supplicating" for the rest of the relationship