The REAL Reason 'Nice Guys' Finish Last (STOP Being So 'NICE' To Women)

Want to know the real reason Nice Guys Finish last? It's not for the reasons you think. It's because they are being NICE the wrong way!! Every woman wants to be with a NICE guy but not a "nice" guy. I'll explain the difference in this video and tell you why being NICE to girls does not work!

I'll also tell you what does attract women and how to be just nice enough to women so that you'll always finish first!

This video shows why you may not be attracting the women you want and how to start attracting the women you want ;)

3 Things You're NOT Doing That Turn Women On (Copy These)

Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

[paulsartorello]

I’m an older dude..I go by what I feel in a situation with women/woman. If there is animosity towards men, I pass, regardless of what they look like. Nobody has to put up with shit from the other sex.. you don’t like it, walk away! All these videos on whatever platforms makes me grateful for being my age and Not putting up with bs from gen whatever..

[alexflips]

1) nice guys are indirect and don’t make their interest known. This means you have to ask her out. If she says no then no big deal move on or just be friends for social proof.
2) nice guys are too agreeable, they pretend too like something when they don’t just to please the girl. Be honest.
3) nice guys need validation rather than wanting it. It’s not something you need because you are already valid as you are. It’s nice to get validation but if you need it you’ll come across as needy.

Take care boys

[MrLeovaras]

Marni... if I ever tell a woman what I want, I'll come off as creepy, and not necessarily talking about being in bed with a woman. I'm talking asking a girl out, or even ask for her Facebook or Instagram account! They will back out if I ever do that. Last time I did it, I was called by my then HR representative, saying I was "harassing" women. And mind you, I wasn't even being persistent. What gives? I think today's women are very entitled, and if you don't give them what they want, they won't even give you the time of day 🤔

[jaydubya]

I've been a people pleaser growing up, turned 30 and I'm just a nice guy, I really don't care how people like me and it works out better.

[MarkLac]

#3 is even more problematic if you deal with depression (I will admit I do deal with it and never wish it on others). Even if you are not seeking validation, if you deal with depression that mind game kicks to try and validate yourself even if you know there are people out there who do care about you.

[romanlawing]

Being nice worked for me...36 yrs and going strong.

[todmsn]

Good advice. Insightful. Being nice meaning not clear of your interest and not declaring your interest is a mistake. If you get rejected, you can move on or if you don’t care you can be a friend. If you get accepted, even better. Anyway, good advice. Thank you so much!

[nurezanchetta]

this was the video that i needed to hear because i hear from everyone im a nice guy but hearinmg it from women you are striving for is not what you like hearing. so thank you for this

[jasonhurst]

You are BANG ON about point/tip #2!
When this woman I fell in love with, and I first met, we would disagree, or debate on a lot of things (mostly in a playful, banterish style, etc), but once I realized I had feelings for her, I started acting just as you said NOT TO...I would agree with everything, pedestalize her, change my opinion to agree with her etc. Basically in her own words, "I became BORING!" I became a "Cheerleader", and she told me Flat out, "I DON'T WANT, or NEED a CHEERLEADER!" and that Basically pretty much sealed my fate/put the final nail in my coffin as far as anything other than friendship. (Wish I would have found your channel before this happened.)

[EverandAnon]

I acknowledged the truth in this advice years ago but Marni explains it better. Thanks Marni. Also, about the "the report rule" the word you are you looking for is rapport. Many people use this word without knowing how to spell it.

[bryanmccallum]

Thank you Marni this helps me understand a little bit about the CRAP I'm going through.

[panthersfreak]

This video is literally me in a nutshell. Thank you for making this. I needed this video badly

[metpark]

Rapport is "R-A-P-P-O-R-T, ' not Report. Thanks for the tips! All the best to you, Marni!

[SHADOW]

number 1 is a double edge sword somewhat because it highly depends on the woman. Because this could work out get you ignored nowadays more so ignored/ghosted etc.

[jasonhurst]

I think a good way to summarize things is us "Nice Guys" need to get out of our "Comfort Zone". We don't need to stop being "nice", or become "A$$holes"; but rather just be a bit more adventurous, or take a few more "risks". Think Positive. She won't BITE you. (Unless that's what she's into. 😜 lol ).
So yeah, I see now that there's a lot that I can do to improve my chances/results; but also don't have to entirely change who I am. There's nothing wrong with self improvement.

[jonathanphilips]

I totally agree with these 3 points 👍
Thanks

[StevenStiefel]

BINGO! Great video, Marni! Every man needs to learn this.

[THOMMGB]

Marni,
Thanks so much for doing this video. You made some really good points and gave me something to think about. I will definitely watch this video again.

[walterdavies]

nice guy here. always seek validation. im in the loop

[gabyk]

when I used to dare to hit on girls, before totally giving up after I got the memo about the fact that being poor and ugly is an immediate disqualifier, I was always direct about what I wanted and I never missed a chance of being immediately rejected like if I were a leper