Jordan Peterson - Make YOUR RELATIONSHIPS last FOREVER by DOING THIS

Healthy relationships treat arguments as a time to communicate their feelings. But some couples treat arguments as a time to attack their partner which Dr. Peterson says isn't right. So here he discusses the right way to argue with your partner to make sure you guys last a lifetime.

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[src]

This works really well, unless you have a partner that takes offense to your feelings and automatically gets defensive when you bring your feelings to them.

[thechancellor-]

To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

[lunaramanda]

This actually works me and my hubby really hated that we said such mean things to each other when we are pissed and feel bad about it later so we started to speak to eachother the way you are suggesting letting each other know how we feel about certain situations instead of HOPING THEY CAN READ OUR MINDS we talk about what's bothering us

[allclean]

Jordan Peterson is the reason I was able to walk away from a 17 year toxic marriage. I was married to a narcissistic person that was badly damaged before we met she hid her damaged past years went on we got married and had kids the mental abuse started off small just nit picking and eventually became a daily routine where no one could do anything right I knew she was sick and had issues but I prayed that things would get better they never did i loved her deeply and I still do I wanted nothing more then my life to get back to how it was . it took many many years of abuse and listening to Jordan’s Peter Pan theory on repeat for months for me to realize the life I was living was nothing more then a bad fairytale and it was never going to change and the mental abuse had killed the person I used to be .

I finally walked away and I’m now living my dreams traveling building haunted houses, 100 % self employed and HAPPY !!

[Native_love]

I've been married for 31 years! Nothing is easy in life, think about it. There are times you can't stand yourself! So you will have fights but be kind! And remember to think about what it must be like to be the other person. Talk to each other! Tell her or him how much you love being with them! Make their day whenever possible! And you'll wake up happy and live a blessed life with another person. Eventually you become one soul! Love each other!

[nutsandnoteworthy]

I am so glad that my fiancé is a very good communicator and understanding and very empathetic. I am finally being treated the way I want to be and all the efforts I am giving are being reciprocated properly. We are already doing these things and we just have little arguments to enlighten each other but never had a fight. We both know how to be silent when the other one is explaining. 🥰🥰🥰 This really works!

[memesinc]

Understanding that I grew up with parents who punished me when I did things right and always looked at my few failures, never my many achievements has really helped me realise where alot of my anxiety, depression, loneliness and attachment issues stem from.

[LuvdbyGod]

The best relationship/partnership is one where both individuals create space for the other to be themselves...and one where you can fully express your wants and needs without resistance. If you really love that person, even if its something YOU wouldn't do or like, showing up for them in the way they need you to will surely improve the quality of your bond. It gets better from there...and respect goes a very long way. Hope this helped someone.

[mjchecksfield]

This is all painfully true. The death of many marriages goes this way. I have tried to be patient, but you know people often just dont want to change, because thay are too lazy to, or convince themselves they are right!

[blondescorpion]

Thank you so much. I just got married. And these are our arguments. From me to him. This is so perfect for my marriage

[wesleyrice]

I like the format of your video. Straight to the point, easy to apply and feel familiar with many situations encountered

[jayweckerle]

I was teaching this in church in a marriage class out of scripture 15 years ago. It's always powerful to see it secularly as I have always believed it should. Thanks

[KissingTheCook]

Imagine being self aware enough to understand that what Jordan is saying about not just our partner, but ourselves is wholly true. There's nothing wrong with having the feelings that we do, but that goes both ways. You didn't marry yourself, so don't expect your decisions and behaviors to be the reaction from others.

[IsakAidee]

What's hilarious is that, apart from the reasoning aspect in this, this is how you raise dogs. Reward good behaviour, even if done badly. With time, it will be better and done more.

[brandonowen]

Thank you, information feels so personal. Exactly information I needed

[mauricemiller]

I have only watched a few videos but for a scholar this guy is very simple, practical and common sense that most folks overlook, I have learnt much, especially because I am married 😅😅😅.

[corriejo]

If they’re a narcissist they won’t do it they’ll shame you for even asking or speaking

[kalaylay]

With out knowing I did this with my husband. I had to be very patient and bite my tongue a lot but now we have a great relationship and we can now talk about things and I express what I’m feeling.

[jinkswax]

The act of trying means willingness, a willing individual means happiness, a willing couple means strength, love, honor, respect, all of it! PLEASE know each and every day will get better but you both need to work for it. The payoff is a beautiful life partner. Please if you are being dragged through the mud and you’re the only one trying, you need to ask yourself “is this person healthy for me?”
That person can say they love you but that doesn't mean
They nor are you being honest to your heart.

[aleksxandaman]

Quite possibly the best thing that happened in the 21st century, , Jordan Peterson. I first heard this years ago. It is just as helpful now as then, we just celebrated our two year anniversary. We are all human after all.