4 Signs Someone Is Right For You

Are you single or in a situationship and now you're wondering if you've found the right person for you? Dating and relationships can be hard to navigate, especially in our modern world.

So, how do you know if someone is right for you? Here are a few signs.

Writer: Clarisse Delos Reyes
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

Reference:

Gottman, J. (2015). The seven principles for making marriage work. Random House.
Perel, E. (2007). Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. Harper.
Johnson, S. M. (2008). Hold me tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love. Little, Brown.
Orbuch, T. L. (2010). 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great. Delacorte Press.

[NarcSurvivor]

1. They listen 2. They ask questions 3. They don’t judge 4. They give you space

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Comfort 0:17
2). Support 0:57
3). Connection 1:42
4). Values 2:27

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[CrusaderGabriel]

“Trust that the right person will come along at the right time”
Welp, I’ve been told all my life similar stuff, specially when I was in my 20s and when I had been rejected people used the cheap comfort method of “you’ll eventually find the right one”, or “you’re still too young”, “when you least expect it she’ll come” and so on.
Now I’m 36 and I’ve only had one girlfriend in my entire life, and she still hasn’t come… so I’ll proceed to wipe my tears with $100 bills (yeah I built my career as a software developer all this time)

[LaniLanilei]

A partner brings out the best in you. Be a partner of value. Be honest, trustworthy and be supportive.

[ballistachicken]

It’s one of the best feelings coming from such an unhealthy and unhappy place but getting to go through these positive videos now and being able to fully relate to the feelings discussed. Progress ❤

[Psychgo]

What would you add as a fifth sign that someone is right for you? Share your insights in the comments.

[THANATOS-PRIME]

Thanks. This will definitely come in handy. I’ve got a good feeling about somebody.

[thedecalisthub]

The notion that comfort is the cozy blanket of a relationship makes perfect sense; after all, who wants to feel like they're tiptoeing on eggshells in the dance of love? It's like finding a pair of shoes that don't give you blisters – a true fit. The support section, well, that's the trusty sidekick in your personal superhero origin story, pushing you to new heights without capes or spandex. Cheers to the ongoing pursuit of love that's as snug as a bug in a rug, minus the rug burns.

[ChocoParfaitFra]

To me the most important values are about what we want in our relationship: do we want to put our relationship first? Do we want to be honest and respectful? Do we want the same things when it comes to relationships? Do we have the same end goal? I feel like we can have different believes that can impact our relationship but if we aren’t on the same page when it comes to the importance of the relationship, everything will fall apart

[stayhappylittlemermaid]

It’s the moments that I stopped just to be, rather than do, that have given me true happiness.

[dereklammers]

Just watched this to see if there's any similarities with my current relationship. Seems my partner is absolutely right for me, and I've never felt like the best version of myself before I met her. Now, I do. Thank you, Psych2Go, for pointing this out. Love your channel 😄

[jonashartmann]

Can you do a video on values and how to communicate them? I've always had a hard time grasping exactly what it encompasses and even then people often assume my values are different from what they truly are which is quite frustrating.

[emifrankokoriefranklinchuk]

I always knew I've got the best woman for me. Yes nobody is perfect but she's an angel❤

[cyberspectre]

My marriage was all of these things. But then, one day, my partner forgot them all in an instant and became someone new. I don't think I will ever let myself be comfortable again. When you're comfortable, that's when you least expect the knife in your back.

[tyhightower]

Why did this come at the perfect time. I’ve been talking to this girl for YEARS. And I’ve always noticed just how much we’ve always been the same wavelength. This just gave me the mental okay to ask her our. Wish me luck.

[spacecat]

Yeah…I think I’m in a “right person, wrong time” situation. As in, I feel all of this, I give all of this and know it’s received. But there’s moreso this…disconnect isn’t the right word. But things can’t truly start ‘cause of their own life events and no doubt anxieties. But…I know that they inspire me to be better—not change, but to heal and grow. Be less afraid, and find courage and patience I swear they need, too, that I didn’t even know I was capable of. But…until they can resolve their own stuff, things obviously can’t really go anywhere. I can’t do things for them, and wouldn’t, anyway. But I know I’ve seen them trying to grow and heal, too.

[error_]

Always feels nice watching unlisted videos early through the playlists. Nice one as always.

[spy]

Whoever is watching this video or not, I hope you're all doing well and find the right person for soon :D

[Unl]

Even outside of romantic relationships, this applies. Applies to family, friends.

I am blessed to say I have found two friends who I share all these video's concepts with. Spot on video.

[bruh-vyeu]

Had a gf until 2 days ago, she's told me that she doesn't feel it anymore.
All 4 of the signs were there. We were both good listeners and both gave good advice. We were both giving each space if needed. And both of us stood to the rule of "be deeply honest".
The main reason she fell away was cause she's been attending medschool and it is taking her whole day. The classes take up to 4h/day, but the studying part for the tests etc is a hell on earth.
She told me she hasn't felt it in a few weeks by then, but because of the studies we were meeting once/2weeks even tho we live under 20min by foot from eachother.
I was trying to find small gaps of time even like under 30mins to take a walk or just talk, but she said she couldn't.
She wants to remain friends and tbh, i cannot be mad at her. I am a bit upset that she didn't even try to repair it and just let that go down. But you know. It's over when it's over. It's not like i'm going to tell her to drop medschool pfff.
I knew what i was signing for just both of us didn't realise how much time it's gonna take away.

(don't worry im mostly over it, i've got friends who cheer me up and got my back. I will take advice if some1 had similiar stories or How to cope with her if we do stay friends)