What If My Ex Is Using No Contact Too?

If you are asking, "What if your ex is doing no contact also," or questions related to someone who broke up with you using the no contact rule to try to get back together with you, this is the video for you!

My Ex Is Also Doing No Contact

Coach Lee discusses how you can know if your ex is also using no contact even if he or she dumped you. Though this situation is rare, people are often concerned and wondering if their ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is also using no contact and if that will prevent them from ever talking to each other or getting back together. This concept is explained and thought through by Coach Lee.

Watch this video all the way to the end to learn what you should do and what you should not do if your ex is using no contact on you.

If your boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with you and hasn't contacted you, you might think they are using the no contact rule on you.

Maybe they are and maybe they aren't. Coach Lee explains how you can know if they are and what you should do if you want them back.

[dulceaidavp]

My grandma used to say, " Stay with the people that love you and want you in their life."

[nildaochea]

Never force yourself to be with someone who doesn't seem to love and care for you ...

[tacobelle]

The dumper should be the first one to reach

[joec]

If your ex dumped you they didnt value you, or see your value. Keep moving forward. Eventually they will grow some balls, and will come back. Trust me. If you treated them right, and they left anyway its because there is something wrong inside them. They wont fix it. They will just relationship hop. Eventually they will circle back, and I hope that when they do, you have made a better life for yourself, and you kindly point out their obliviousness to reality, and decline their company. THE PEOPLE THAT DESERVE YOU WILL SEE AND HONOR YOUR VALUE!

[maryivan]

I loved when you said “bet on yourself.” Whenever I feel anxious about the breakup I listen to one of your videos and always walk away feeling calmer and better. 💜

[imhonestlyfreeanonymous]

At 7:40 in this video, coach said the realest shit ever spoken. If they havent contacted you yet its because they dont miss you enough. Just think about that the next time you want to break no contact. Why the hell would you want to contact somebody who dont want you still? Stand your ground! You might not feel it but each day you are getting stronger, in there eyes too.

[katiestrombeck]

3 months post breakup. i never thought that i would stop crying and i’m becoming stronger every day. i no longer feel like life doesn’t have meaning without him. imagining a future without him doesn’t seem scary anymore, but im excited for what the future holds, with or without him! thank you so much

[tdavis]

Today is one month, no contact, staying strong mehn

[habibbasit]

Got dumbed, blocked in March 11th, Unblocked today, April 19th. Not optimistic, but, I have moved on! I cannot believe the growth in me in 40 days!!

[nathanb]

"Bet on yourself" I love that! They think you will always be around waiting for them. Don't let them think you're a safe bet, bet you're not.

[MVProfits]

What's sad, is that while "no contact" and not chasing are indeed not games but strategies, it's clear to see that before a breakup happens, there is a one side part to it, that one party is trying hard to save the relationship... which often pushes the other further away! I say it's sad because it's like you can't be fully yourself or open at times, you have to play a game. Just because it's easy and common for people to walk away. Women are often encouraged to do so now too.

[sigmachad]

Day 20 of NC ... 2-3 times panic attacks a day ...damm this is hard... but staying strong is the only option I have.

[kathyowens]

Some people break up with others because they aren't being treated right or they are being taken advantage of. The break-up can serve to get the attention of the one who is neglecting. This topic can go both ways.

[steve]

I love coach Lee's videos and emergency break up kit. 3 months ago my ex checked out of our relationship. It was very painful to lose my best friend. I went no contact and improved myself. I started working out, lost 20 lbs, improved my flirting skills and updated my wardrobe. I have since met the most amazing woman who is drop dead gorgeous. I would not want to be without her. Just a comment to say there is life after a breakup and sometimes it is much better. Stay in no contact and preserve your self esteem. Let the dumper fix things that they broke.

[daniellemorse]

No contact is completely necessary for healing. When you tried to make things work a couple of times and it didn't work, it is time to move on.

[apphea]

Excellent topic, Coach Lee! I swear my ex is using no contact to see if I’ll chase him and to feed his confidence

[CountessLouLou]

Some people invite you to dump them by treating you like shit- and then get mad! Don’t think I want my ex back, but I find these pep talks comforting. My family and friends still talk to my ex, and throw me a pity party every time they see me. Coach lee is like the one honest friend that I am lacking at a time like this.

[poppyone]

When you are in love we are in pain and it sucks I'm hoping the universe is listening as well as doing no contact 😕

[genevievetang]

Your material is so good. It's so rational, wise and fair. I love it.

[donnacrowe]

Had a first contact, he called me, 3 months no contact. He said did you curse me, I think of you everyday and have dreams about you. I call bs