How To Know If My Ex Is Ready To Get Back Together

As relationship expert, Coach Lee, explains in this video, it is very important that your ex be ready before you reach out to them.

If you are asking when your ex will be ready, Coach Lee explains the processes and stages that your ex must go through before they are receptive to communicating with you and to considering getting back together.

That is why it is so important that you do not reach out before your ex is ready or else you could sabotage your efforts to get back together with them.

As Coach Lee explains, there is a reason that your ex won't listen to logic and reason when they are in the process of breaking up with you.

There is a reason that they are so cold sometimes and decisive.

Usually your ex has been planning for and deciding to break up with you for a while.

Sometimes it's weeks, months, or even years.

So they have already thought it through and know what they think they want at the moment.

As Coach Lee points out, you can't talk them out of it when they are in the process of breaking up with you or shortly after.

You actually can't "talk" them out of it regardless but they are far less receptive to changing their minds shortly after the breakup. That is why it is so important for them to be ready and receptive.

Coach Lee points out how you can know and more on why this is so important.

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[oth]

Even though i don't want my ex back anymore I still watch your videos because they are soothing.

[martamanno]

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[victorlazarian]

I have to say, I expected some self-improvement shite, but you did something very few people do. You described how the 2nd party felt, which is probably the most important part to understand.

[kaleblowery]

Everything this guy says is true it’s working for me. It was 42 days before we started talking again. It’s just a process now. Hang in there guys

[peachink]

These videos have been a vital source of comfort to me through a very difficult time.

After the breakup of my four-year relationship, i’ve been feeling depressed, lonely, scared and angry. But constantly watching these videos and taking in Coach Lee’s advice has calmed my hysteria and even renewed some hope for me. I love that he simplifies the scientific aspects of love and the breaking down of a relationship-something I never understood before. He’s helped me untangle the confusion and make sense of why my girlfriend ended our relationship and even her thought processes after the break-up, by providing me with a pragmatic prospective.

Coach Lee, if you see this, thank you so much. You’ve really helped me. And judging by the vast majority of other comments, you’ve helped many other people in serious need of guidance and solace.

[abhineetpathak]

I just love you, man. You don't know how much it hurts to be the type of person who knows all this but can't apply it his/her own life due to overthinking. You just give me strength to keep going.

[petejimenez]

Looking at the same video's over and over again is very Therapeutic!!

[Ph-yggw]

My ex contact me with a massive apology after 5 months

[chirantanidas]

Coach Lee, no words are enough to thank you. I don't know will my relation be saved or not, but your counsel provided immense consolation and courage in my bad days.

[caithmaca]

If they didn’t reached out. Be the best that you can be.

[lalosmith]

This man saved my life man.
I almost shot myself!
Thank you so much

[Oussama-bpxu]

You're the best. I cannot explain how much you saved me, you changed my personality in many ways. Thanks a lot man. Keep going. You're amazing

[SoberIrishman]

If someone is ok putting the person they love through a living hell....why would any of us want them back? The jist is....they put themselves first and above all of our hourly pain.

[Devilmoon]

U save my life, i had suicidal attention for long time but now i feel relief, thank u lee, God bless u

[m.alexander]

5 weeks in.. they reached out . I listened to coach Lee videos .. it was a soft reach out to see how receptive I am... Coach Lee is legit

[akosfellner]

I think after a breakup in a lot of cases the attraction doesn't fall but is blocked only. The main psychological process during or after the no contact is not to regain the lost attraction but remove the obstacles.

[conejo_oligarca_reloaded]

Coach Lee is definitely the best... Without his videos, I'd be a mess right now :')

[jnaneshjaan]

If they dont reach out to u, just think that's a blessing

[jacksonrodrigues]

This guy for some reason is spot on. Currently, I’m going through this, and I tried to reach out immediately to her and annoyed her in the process. Each and every word this guy said happened to me. Coincidence, or the fact? Possibly the fact. I will put a stone on my heart and wait patiently through the advise

[dianeh]

You so right Coach Lee. His attraction for me fell without me knowing it.