What to Do When Your Ex Moves on RIDICULOUSLY FAST | Matthew Hussey

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[dn]

My doctor recently told me this:

*”Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness. Remember that if a relationship doesn't help you become a better person… ending it does”*
From that day on, I realized the past can not be changed, forgotten, edited, or erased. It can only be accepted.

[nakkeung]

If they moved on that fast, They probably had someone already on the Wait-List. They checked out along time ago mentally.

[nursekillm]

Moving on quickly usually indicates a lack of healing & codependence. It usually has nothing to do with the other person.

[hushpuppies]

Breakups are so hard to a point where you start wondering I really have a relationship or was it just in my mind. People just move on incredibly soon and it makes you wonder if you even meant anything to them at all. It sucks.

[Misagonna]

Some people like to fast track their relationships and drop someone and then replace the person with someone new without healing. No matter if they married their quick rebound, or had kids with them. It will fail. It’s just a matter of time. All the things they were when they were with you, this new person has to put up with, and rebound relationships, marriages and serious relationships rarely last. Even years after, men and women don’t get over someone good that they loved. The show you see on social media means nothing.

[CreepyGerbil]

For those who still suffer, it takes time but wanted to share...

- Keep busy and productive
- Spend time with family and friends (it's a different kind of company and won't fill the "void" but it definitely helps).
- Don't hold back your emotions. Let them come out. You'll get over it quicker if you don't hide them. Your body and mind are processing the change. Let it. It'll feel crap but it'll be good for you in the long run.
- If you lived with the person especially, get rid of anything that reminds you of them. Just do it, trust me. It helps to purify.
- Keep on music and background noise if you feel lonely.
- Don't look them up. Don't contact them. It only makes the emptiness worse. It's so hard not to do, but just move on! Your self-worth isn't measured by whatever they're doing. Who f cares! Think about it, they're gone. They're gone for a valid reason. Move on.

Good luck guys!

[rjeffadpt]

You set boundaries and he moved on to someone who doesn’t have boundaries. You’re better off!!

[bibilym]

To be honest, it’s so tempting to just give up on love altogether. I was talking with one of my friends about this: the minute you let someone in, they f-up your peace. At the same time I’ve been learning and through lots of therapy and self-reflection I’ve realized why I’ve been choosing the wrong ones, or guys who aren’t meant for me. While I want to give up, I am still hopeful. I’ve deleted my dating apps and feel so freaking good. I’ve realized that they aren’t for me and I’m gonna live my life, create my own happiness, and make connections. And, prayerfully one day I’ll meet a great guy just from living an amazing life. My point is, I’m hopeful.

[foreverred]

Heartbreak is one of the most painful experiences I've ever had in my life. Oh boy.

[tiffanypr.]

It's better to move on slowly but surely. No one escapes heartbreak because there is always attachment (in a healthy relationship). If they don't feel it now, they'll feel it down the line. In the mean time focus on yourself <3

[jujuthaguru]

The new situation isn’t love, it’s just infatuation aka the “honeymoon phase”. I’ve come to learn some people are just in love with the idea of love, no real substance. It won’t last. My advice, just take care of yourself (emotionally, physically, and psychologically) until you don’t want them anymore. Cause you definitely won’t! You’ll realize that a person who has to crush you in order to lift the next person up is a weirdo3000 and also, if the next girl is soaking up her special treatment over you, here’s a gem for you…. He ain’t changed…& She’s next 🤷🏽‍♀️

[itslingling]

Every time someone breaks up with you or rejects you, it is actually a blessing for you! Because at least they didn't keep on dating you and lead you on for longer

[Hayden]

I had this happen to me. I was with my ex-boyfriend for 6 years. We lived together for 5 years, I moved across the country for him, away from my friends and family, and he'd asked my parents for their permission to ask me to marry him. And then one day he broke up with me and kicked me out of our apartment. Blamed me for everything and made me feel like I deserved it. Two days later he posted pictures of him and one of his female friends together, the one that he swore he didn't have feelings for (not that I'd ever accused him - I'd always trusted him 100%). Looking back, I realize I dodged a major bullet. I could not be happier with the direction my life is headed now, and Matthew's videos have been a huge part of that healing process. To all my broken hearted ladies (and gents), take this time to focus on YOU. Be gentle and kind to yourself. Love yourself. You are enough. You are going to be okay. <3

[Elevenbravo_ABN]

Delete every single photo, delete every email and delete every text message.

Throw away anything in your home that reminds you of them.

You have to be a little bit cold to get through this pain.

They threw you away like a piece of garbage; now it’s time to throw them away.

[jund]

It feels like the person you love and care for doesn't exist. Take care everyone.

[midnight]

My wife left me for another man. And since, she went and got a boob job, went to Disney World with him which was supposed to be our honeymoon we never got, and seeing that broke me. Its been over a year since our divorce and seeing those pictures made me feel like I fell back to square one. I feel numb, angry, sad, and just hurt. I feel worthless, tossed aside and replaced as though i meant nothing

[iamauroraborealis]

Usually it only seems too fast for ones who were dumped. Then you learn that they were already building something new for a while (in their heads, it's not always about cheating) while planning to leave you. That's the reason they're moving so fast, because it was already happening for them before we know it.

[priestrat]

My ex started dating like a week or less after he broke up with me. We were together for 4 years. Talked about moving in together, getting married. One day he told me he doesnt feel like hes in love with me anymore and he has a crush on another girl. Those feelings of being replaceable, of having trusted someone and having that trust shattered, of being wrong about someone are so difficult to manage. I've never felt so horrible before.

[leekautz]

Fact is...if she moves on very quickly after u break up with her....she had him on deck in case of the breakup. Sadly. And probably in that case you made the right move by breaking up with her. She never cared about you very much anyway.

[justinbrockwell]

I must say it gets quite exhausting, when you are the one investing... because they initially show interest, you're the one who is proudly telling your friends and family how great the potential partner is... you're the one trying to do the right thing... be honest, be understanding, be good to them, respect them, treat them well... and they initially reciprocate... only to turn their backs and dump you for someone else (usually with a fair bit of overlap) When it keeps happening, I must say, regardless of ones self confidence... it takes it's toll. I didn't sign up for that kind of treatment, and I refuse to accept that it is normal, acceptable behaviour. I am exhausted from having to walk away from people that I once believed in.