Is My Ex Testing Me? How To Know The Signs.

Is your ex testing you or playing head games? Sometimes it seems that way and sometimes they are. Coach Lee reveals signs that your ex is testing you, explains how you can tell if they are testing you, what it means if they are, and what you should do about it.

Just know that it isn't necessarily bad news if your ex is testing you and that he or she might not have bad motives for doing so. Coach Lee will explain in this video. If you are asking, "Is my ex testing me?" then this information should be helpful to you.

Coach Lee also guides you through what your response should be that will preserve your own dignity while also giving you the best chance to get back together with them if that is what you want to do. A test from an ex can be a good sign or a bad one and Coach Lee examines this topic thoroughly in this powerful video. Be sure to watch all the way to the end so that all of your questions are answered and explained.

VIDEOS Mentioned In This One:

[kaan]

Hey Coach Lee, I just wanted to say that your work is very important and life saving. You are like a ray of light that saves me from the dark labyrinths of my mind. When I feel like my life has ended I listen to your videos and immediately feel a lot better. If I get my ex back or not, I will always appreciate your help and I will pray for you.

Keep on rocking that hairstyle you handsome devil!

[michaelmiller]

Bottom line: if they love you they'll move Heavan and Hell to be with you.

[mightyapostolic]

at this point I’m just watching these to keep my peace.

[TelAlissa]

Im here to tell you guys that NC worked! It took 32 days for my ex to reach out for some trivial catch up and he told me how he was feeling hurt and alone and how he felt he lost best friend. We had a very good talk and even tho we are now taking things slowly NC DID WORK! Believe in it. Dont believe what you think your ex thinks. It maybe very misleading. I was sure he is having a good time and forgot about me. Have faith! Have patience! Stay on track!

[jambogb]

It's so nice to know I am NOT the only one going through this shitty time in my life 💖
❤BE STRONG EVERYONE!❤

[jessebohannon]

My ex actually walked in to the restaurant I own while I was listening to your video. After 6 months no contact I feel ready to show off my growth. No more chasing for me. I’m stronger and less anxious than I’ve ever been. Thank you!

[TelAlissa]

Three month update : i regret not doing No Contact longer and i regret somewhat letting him back in my life too soon. I didnt wait until he is back back, we just in limbo without any explanation and now it feels too late to ask " what are we ". Half of the feelings are definitely gone after all this time . We talk, we still somewhat close, we fight and we reconcile, but its no where near same. I am torn between " be patient, show him love, be his peace " and simple " let go " . My advice for all heartbroken souls would be to be patient. It only an illusion that you want him/her back. When they are back it will be a whole new can of worms to deal with and its hard hard hard . Do not rush, do not push. More time in NC - the better.

[Mooncat]

People are so scared of being hurt - but no one has that power unless you give it to them! Heal your own wounds from childhood and you will be whole and ready for a healthy relationship 💖

[Rachel-iSverige]

The best thing to do is to take a screenshot of coach Lee's face and save it as your phones home screen.
This will stop from any attempt to break no contact.

[curious_gage]

It doesn’t matter if NC “works” because it’s your best option regardless of the outcome. Do it for yourself. If they want to try again, cool. If they don’t, cool.

[lololola]

Guys trust the no contact rule it works like a charm, thank you coach
for the guidance and giving us hope
Not just getting back our ex but to grow as a great partner to our significant other

[aleksandarkrnic]

Who loves me is with me, and only person that is here right now is my son.

[maxsheerin]

I laughed into my tea when you said 'we have to still behave ourselves 😂😂😂 so serious. I'm learning to laugh again and find humour again. Thank you for what you do and the way you do it.

[divinedigitalpro]

I did the no contact, but not as a game or to get my ex back. He contacted me last Saturday after 3 months and said: We haven't spoken in a while, hope all is well with you.
I responded: I'm fantastic and I hope all is well with you.
That was it.

[genjimccorkle]

Such an underrated channel. You are the only relationship specialist on YouTube that has made feel very comfortable mentally during times of great stress during my relationship.

[theforbiddenfruitshow]

Any type of manipulation that will involve your emotions or your decision making is usually a test. Always pick the strongest or more manly choice if involved.

[craigstephens]

If you are not interested in taking a bath, why do you care if it's to hot!! Coach you have said some classic lines, but this had me on the floor lol
Coach I love your sence of humor and your genuine nature on helping people. In these trying times we all need this. God bless you brother.

[gutsandgrittv]

I really like your approach on not treating an ex like the devil. Instead you reveal the ex to be nothing more than a fallible human.

[jeanettesoto]

He sent me a text saying Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

[Zinnia]

I followed the NC rule. My ex contacted me for the first time since the breakup a few days ago.
Then Silence.
He sent a brief message tonight, like the ones he used to send me post breakup.
So, … watching your videos, sometimes more than once. And with your help, I am staying strong.
Coach Lee, you gave me your honest advice and loads of strength, starting from the 2nd day of my breakup.
Your videos are a Blessing!
Thank you!