6 Signs Someone is Not Into You (But Aren't Telling You)

Are you having trouble in the romance department? Maybe you’re really into someone but can’t tell if they’re into you. One minute it’s a yes with them, the next a “nah”. So, do they like you or not? Well, here are a few signs they’re not into you and aren’t telling you.

Writer: Michal Mitchell
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[GibranEscobell]

The best tip I have been given, date people who show a high interest in you, those people will make the dating process effortless. Do not try to convince someone into liking you, you could be using that time with someone who truly values you for who you are.

[wattson]

"I'm not ready for a relationship" 90% of the time just means "I don't want a relationship with YOU"

[Trinitea]

The scariest relationships are with people who don’t want to let you go but aren’t really into you so every time you try to leave they fight for you and tell you you’re bugging when you point out their one sidedness in the relationship manipulating your love for them. They see how much you care and don’t want that to go. I’ve learned that there are people out there that like to KEEP people and you have to really watch out for them. Do you want to be kept or do you want to be LOVED?

[chynabarbieeeeee]

As someone who everyone ignores, I felt this because I deal with this on a daily. But just don't think about them because there's someone who thinks you deserve the world

[datboi]

1. they aren't engaged in your conversation 0:19
2. they don't communicate or text consistenly 0:57
3. you're the one always making plans 1:29
4. your relationship with them is one-sided 1:56
5. they're just hearing what you have to say, but not really listening 2:34
6. they told you they aren't ready for a relationship 3:05
I hope I could help!

[roxqln]

Reasons to stay alive <3
The salty smell and calming sound of the beach
2. You would hurt a lot people that love you more than life itself
3. Hot chocolate on cold winter days
4. Your moms smile
5. Your best friends laugh
6. Your little cousins, nieces, and nephews that look up to you
7. The feeling of the sun against your face
8. Hearing the words “I love you”
9. Not being able to sleep/the feeling you get the night before a holiday
10. Birthdays
11. Quiet late night drives
12. Missed opportunities and adventures
13. The feeling of lying in bed after a long day
14. Long hot showers
15. Music that you connect with
16. You have a purpose
17. You can change somebody’s life
18. Snowball fights
19. Concerts
20. Watching people fall
21. As long as you heart is beating, there is hope

[jakemarie]

I was starting to worry my friends weren’t putting in the effort to schedule things with me, so I decided to make a point not to always be the one to initiate. It's been 3 years and I don't have any friends anymore.

[harrystylessfiance]

me trying to see if harry styles is secretly in love with me:

[GibranEscobell]

Thanks Dat Boi *TIMESTAMPS HERE* comment so they stay up!
1. They aren't engaged in your conversation 0:19
2. They don't communicate or text consistenly 0:57
3. You're the one always making plans 1:29
4. Your relationship with them is one-sided 1:56
5. They're just hearing what you have to say, but not really listening 2:34
6. They told you they aren't ready for a relationship 3:05

[traskindustries]

Man, I needed this. This happened to me back to back. I feel so disrespected after all the effort I put in but at least I know they don’t see me as worth their time now.😔

Update: Turns out the first person is bad at texting and was actually interested in spending alone time with me. Now we’re planning on hanging out and even going to a movie together!🙂

Double update: asked them out and they said no. At least it’s over though! No regrets😌

[Afluffycookie]

7. You ask them out in person and they say yes but then ghost/block you. No apology, no explanation, no closure, no nothing. And then your mind is left in the abyss to wonder why and you start thinking you did something to piss them off.

Edit: And its not a nervous or uncomfortable yes. It's a confident one, like they really want too go
And you also ask them in a way that doesn't imply sex. You're not interested in their body. You genuinely like them and want to get to know them. You ask them out to the movies, or going out for coffee or lunch or something in the public.

[ThornOfHearts]

The thing is it REALLY HURTS when they say "They're not looking for a relationship" but they leave out "with you" that bit of honesty would be so helpful with letting someone go, cept people are cowards who still enjoy getting special attention. -shrug-

[Brke]

I absolutely agree. I’m not in the dating business myself but if I ever wanted to be I wouldn’t try to get someone to like me. I think nobody should do that, if they don’t like you back then there is always a chance of meeting somebody that does and will give you so much love and affection then the other person never did. Love is difficult to control sometimes but you gotta be patient with it. Love takes time and has steps to it.

[thenutrientwhisperer]

Just be sure to take a step backward in order to give room for your romantic interest to step forward towards you. Maybe they need some space so they can start doing some of these things. Sometimes people don’t give enough space for that person to step towards them. Lean back so someone can lean forward. Lean back and observe. 🤓

[jordan]

summary: they definitely don’t like me

[victorribeiro]

Love how she gets distracted with pasta, relatable XD

[Lexiannasam]

This goes for friendships and family too. My own sister does all of these to me (except for the not ready for a relationship part). We don’t have a good relationship with one another.

[FinalDevastator]

My first GF pretty much rarely engaged in convos.

I noticed that when I stopped giving fuel to it and the chat pretty much died.

But what was far worse was the time spend together... or rather, planned to spend together but there had to be just some friend come up around the corner and any and all plans the two of us made were thrown out of the window without even having told me.

She always apologized and promised to make up for it, coming to me about spending time together and doing stuff but that rarely ever happened.

[TheMaryberry]

Thank you for this. I always felt I was the only one with the feelings 😪 . I will move on and enjoy life and yes pasta is yummy

[NathalieLazo]

Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️