6 Signs Someone Is Secretly In Pain

Do you know someone who changed their behavior abruptly? Are they now easily angered and always talking about dark topics? Every person has a different reaction to trauma and pain. Here are a few signs to look out for.

FRIENDLY DISCLAIMER: This is a disclaimer that this video is for informative purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any condition. Please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional if you are struggling.

Writer: Chamae
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Stephanie Cárdenas Cano (New Animator)
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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0:25 - Sign 1: They become silent

1:34 - Sign 2: They lash out

2:16 - Sign 3: They become reckless

3:05 - Sign 4: They talk about dark topics a lot

3:38 - Sign 5: They become increasingly paranoid

4:17 - Sign 6: They're always tired


Hope this helped 😄

[NebulaEclipse_]

The worst thing about pain is not experiencing it, but when the people around you don't seem to notice and/or care enough.

[ari]

1. They become silent
2. They lash out
3. They become reckless
4. They talk about dark topics a lot
5. They become increasingly paranoid
6. they're always tired

[elisabethopp]

I fit so many of these. It’s hard, also, because my depression actually manifests as me acting actually quite happy and quite hyper, despite the fact I joke about death a lot, so that will sometimes concern me. Becoming reckless is definitely one of the symptoms I fit, but mostly talking about dark topics is what I fit most. When my gymnastics coach said “If you do the skill like that you won’t die!” and I replied “I wouldn’t mind that!” He then got very concerned because that wasn’t the first time I mentioned dying, and he talked to my mom since I’m only 13. Me and my friends also discuss self harming all the time and details of it. Thank you for your videos always making me feel less alone, as a child who struggles with countless mental illnesses.

[ethanspradling]

These videos about depression always hit a little too close to home. I watch these and its like I'm checking off boxes on a list things that apply to me.

[RT.]

I don’t know why I keep it so secret. It just isolate & isolate. I just wish I felt safer outside of my own space.

[cappuccino]

Now we need the video of “How to make make your friend know that you are in secretly pain”

[piejosh]

"Feel your pain until you become numb."
That's the sentence i always said when i was failing or in pain (physically or mentally). It really strengthened me when i felt hopeless, made me realize that the pain i suffered wasn't that hurt.
Three years suffering from depression, feeling hopeless, etc. Everytime i saw a knife in the kitchen, my mind always thought about suicide. But i survive though. Repetition makes you used to it. The more you get it, the more you get used to it. So does the pain. The more you suffer the more you get used to it.

[scarletjester]

I've come to this way to help out the ones I care about, if they say something like "leave me alone!" or whatever I just say that I'm only leaving because they want me to, but that doesn't mean they're alone when they're ready to talk. The timeframe that they do talk varies, bit by saying this I've gotten more positive outcomes when trying to help them out of whatever they're going through

[artisticalex]

This is so accurate with myself. I usually am this way whenever I feel emotional pain and a lot of my friends are the same too so I reach out a lot of the time to them.

[VIVI_-]

Your voice is so calming, and it really helps if you’re stressed.

[Joshua-jkom]

For years now, I've always had this weird confliction watching these types of videos. Because as I watch them, I can't help but reflect on my life and behavior towards others, and how others behaved toward me in my time of struggle. It always makes me sad remembering how I felt, and feeling like I had nobody to go to. I watch these videos out of interest because I told myself one day, I want to make sure nobody goes through what I went through. It's nïeve I know. First step in helping others is learning what was supposed to be done in the first place. Correct my habits, and learn better.

[lisette]

This is so fitting to my current situation. I've noticed my friend is depressed and in pain over something. I don't know exactly why she's in pain, but she's lost interest in alot of things and is alot more quiet. I've already reached out to her, so at this point I'm just trying to be there for her.

[isaiahvoss]

It reminds me of the song Crawling by Linkin Park and we all become silent where we don't communicate. I can relate to the pain of the song itself while watching this video. I've been going through an existential crisis about how I feel about life and what I want to do. I hide my pain and I know how I feel but it crawls in my skin to really communicate at times. I have had moments of wanting to not live anymore in my head and what that would feel like. It's just tough to really get it across especially living with Asperger’s Syndrome of what I go through. I just don't get as much appreciation as a person as I should. I wish people would just see what I go through and just appreciate who I am. But this helps a lot! Thank you.

[lyntex]

I knew it! Most of my classmates check all these boxes and I just had this feeling that there were people in pain. I just thought I was making things up but, now I know. Now I can help. Thanks a lot for this video!

[TheQuokkaQueen]

You are always so great at spreading awareness 💛

[michaelkeller]

I sure could have used this 3 years ago. I miss you every single day Justin 😢

[LoneWindtheWolf]

Unfortunately this has been a problem for me for years, and it only got worse since 2020. When bad things happen my mind is filled with anxiety and anger and end up acting irrationally. This constant feelign of paranoia and anger has been taking my energy and feelings for so long, and i don't know how to stop it at this point. No one in my family understands me and none of my friends do as well, even though i'm in good terms with all of them (well, at least the ones i still have anyways). It's really hard for me to "open up" to something or someone after getting emotionally and psychologically hurt, and that happened to me a lot as i got older.

[nsbwhcodhwbznkc]

Everyone deep inside has a lot of pain

[leafgreen]

For those who are in pains, may God comforts you..at the moment, the world is full of stress 😩 and everyone is facing it in one way or another.