6 Signs Someone is Secretly Jealous of You

Is someone is jealous of you? So, what are the signs someone is secretly jealous of you? Jealousy a frustrating feeling that we’ve all experienced in one way or another. But if we’re not careful, jealousy can drive toxic behavior and turn people against their closest friends. To help you discover what’s hiding below the surface, here are six signs that someone is secretly jealous of you.

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[samiyamohammedkhursheed]

1)They constantly compete with you
2)They undermine your success
3)They gossip about you
4)They give false compliments
5)They are overly attached to you
6)They are a copycat
My pleasure😊

[sofiarossu]

I think there's one more: they focus a lot on your mistakes

[cchamming]

"They minimise your accomplishments because they don't have any of their own" - BURRRN 😂

[birbthegreat]

I can't be the only who came here to check that THEY'RE not the jealous one-

[KuyaBJLaurente]

Honestly, I am the one who is always jealous. Nobody is jealous of me.

[vAqeii]

Sign 1: They always ask for your Diamond Armor in Minecraft

[cosmicpeachez]

“Have you ever wondered if a compliment is genuine”

Welcome to anxiety. The exit is nonexistent :(
(This is just my experience living with anxiety, so I get if it’s not the same for others)

[nothanks]

I had a 'friend' like this. Which was crazy, because she was far more pretty and more accomplished than me. But, if I ever had some form of light in looks or accomplishment, she hated it. She wanted/wants me as low down as possible.
It took me a long time to realise this, but she isn't my friend anymore.

[andrewlau]

This is what I got from the video:
1. Your friend constantly competes with you.
- You feel tension whenever you perform better than them
- Friends should SUPPORT, not COMPETE
2. They undermine your success
- Are they genuinely happy?
- Jealous friends will downplay your achievements for their own satisfaction
3. They gossip about you
- They try to ruin your reputation and put you in a negative light
- They also exaggerate about themselves and make themselves look better
- Again, this is all for their self-interest
4. They give false compliments
- They pretend to be friends with you and give you false compliments
5. They're overly attached to you
- Not ALL jealous people are angry or similar to the above four points
- Someone might try to get your attention a lot, this may mean that they are envious of you and want to "steal" what you have
6. They're a copycat
- They copy you because they're jealous of you

[pandamaxcute]

I thought nobody was jealous of me before watching the video, but after watching it, I realized that I was thinking right

[colettelee]

I used to be friends with people who did ALL of these things. It's interesting to find out that jealously was at the root of their poor behaviour. My life improved SO much when I cut those people out!

[sundewlemon]

Someone can be secretly jealous, they don’t always be mean because of it.

[britt]

You know someone is jealous if they dislike you when you’ve given them no reason to, and they talk about you A LOT

[hodansheikh]

"Why is it so hard to make friends, but so easy to lose friends."

[bestusernameever]

I think the scariest part is when these jealous people fall in love with you. That's when the real trouble starts... speaking from experience.

[CBrown-zujf]

Another sign might be that they switch the topic to focus or talk about themselves when you're talking about something positive in your life.

[kingkupa]

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[NenaLavonne]

As hard as it may be to see it that way, it really is a complement 🙃

[nana_baNANA]

"They try to steal your personality for themselves"