Why some Men are Afraid to be with One Woman | Stephan Speaks

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Full episode is on School of Greatness

[lysabelle]

The truth is that guys that cheat may in fact meet a women that they want to be with, but behaviors are habits and they are very hard to change. So what ends up happening is they have some issue in that relationship that should be talked out or sometimes they don't even have an issue. But they just fall back into their normal behavior which is to be a cheater. So many guys think when they find the "right" person they will magically not be a cheater, toxic, liar etc. That is not how things work you are who you are unless you work to actively change behaviors and you usually need outside guidance for that.

[nancyclaypool]

Here's a bit of insight. Women have been hurt before too. Some came from an abusive relationship & have encountered men that tell me I need to forget about the past yet they have not. With all due respect, a majority of men have not come from an abusive relationship. A cheating partner or a divorce can never compare to a woman healing herself from abuse & finding her confidence & strength & move on.

[mgroliveira]

We ALL need healing. You and me, he or she.

[mariehenry]

A man doesn't give himself to one woman, because he does not want to. Plain and simple, no excuses or manipulation needed.

[racilleashley]

The solution, is it's the majority, of men, in this world, desperately, need, Theopy AND HEALING.

[peterwilliams]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[lovegoddess]

A man not in his purpose WILL get hurt! Find out your life purpose FIRST and then the RIGHT woman will be presented to you! The same goesfor the women!

[cocoleluz]

That’s just an excuse to be a player. If they got hurt then seek some counseling and wait until healed.

[Rasheens-Story]

These men need to grow up because I swim and we get hurt all the time and you don’t see us walking around doing crazy stuff like they do to us get over it that’s just an excuse that men used to cheat

[hawaiigirl]

The guy needs to grow up then & stop abusing women to remedy his pain. That behavior is narcissistic

[stephenchapman]

Just imagine the builder taking this position, I just got hurt on my job so now I’m not going to build any more!

[tovenrvik]

Stephan has so much to bring to the table, great job‼️🎯

[ErinneNicole-ek]

This is good to know. I like your work and listened to it a lot the last year and a half. Thanks again for shedding light on this ☀️

[lexaneli]

You need to tell those most guys who've been hurt before to go and heal and fix their past hurt before getting involved with another only to destroy and traumatize that person.

I am not accepting less than from any grown adult poor and bad behaviour. If I can face my inner self and work on me so can you. No excuses.

[grennie]

Hurt people, hurt people. That man who is damage need to seek therapy to heal n let go instead of using women as their coping mechanism. Not mature n certainly not loving.

[JoanMulder]

To the point. You are so good Stephan

[hawaiigirl]

Throwing away his player aka Asshole card WONT LAST! The relationship will wear itself out because that bung hole is already shaped the way he is. He WONT change

[peacefaith]

we ALL have been hurt ..men are called players, women are called ho's stop making excuses for cheaters

[a.r.]

Oh boy! Who the hell hasn't been hurt!!!
Weak

[amandaforrester]

That's horrible. Women are people, not toys. I am not your coping mechanism.