Men Aren't Intimidated by Strong Women But They FEAR THIS!

Men Aren't Intimidated by Strong Women But They FEAR THIS!

As a dating & relationship coach for women, I've heard this too many times to count... men are intimidated by smart, strong successful women.

Every time one of these women experiences an ending their relationship, they blame it on the man being intimidated and I'm here to set the record straight.

Whenever there is blame, it avoids learning the real reason why something happens and little or no growth can come of it which is why I'm here to draw attention to how men really feel about strong women.

In today's video, we are going to explore the DEEPER reason why a man might get scared of being in a relationship with a strong woman.

Let's talk about... Men Aren't Intimidated by Strong Women But They FEAR THIS!

[cherylyeo]

-I'm here
-You matter
-We are important
-I got your back
-I'm not going anywhere
-And I only want you
It is the same when it's been said to the women as well

[garciam]

There is a saying, 'Strong women intimidate boys and excite men' Beauty of being a human, we ALL can be strong, confident, smart AND gentle/vulnerable/loving. Just love yourself enough to never be anything less than who you are. I'm hopeful we can start to move away from these labels. Its 2020, not 1950. Women have evolved, catch up men. Let's all communicate as adults and be honest. At our core we both want the same things-- to love and feel love.

[toscadonna]

I’ve been told that I was intimidating since I was a shy, little girl who made good grades. Even little boys are intimidated by girl’s who do well. There’s really no way to win with the male sex. I don’t think I’m intimidating at all, and I’ve always been very loving and kind to men. I’ve said all you’ve said to say and more, and I even meant it, but nothing has ever been reciprocal. Men who don’t feel better than a woman never let themselves love that woman.

[ramonacrawford]

I do believe that some men are very intimidated by strong women. I was recently told that my mental strength was sexy but it is intimidating that I can’t be controlled! I was stunned. Wow
I’m not wealthy but am self sufficient.

[sallie]

Great breakdown analysis of this situation. My late husband was delighted and proud to be married to a successful woman and high earner. He did occasionally have to remind me "I don't work for you..." which checked me and reigned in my bossy tendencies.

[mgw]

Hit the nail on the head and God forbid a Man lose his job or status. He will definitely find out if his marriage was built on love or status for sure.

[meganwildhood]

Sometimes men ARE intimidated by strong, successful, smart women, though. It's not always a "rationalization" and saying it is is itself a rationalization. Weak, insecure, manchildren or entitled men who've never been challenged (usually because they're bullies) are intimdated when they can't women to do whatever they want all the time. So we need to be fair to women. Men who have not worked out their childhood issues are actually intimidated by strong, successful, smart women; men who are into growth and healing call strong, successful, smart women "high quality." Also, men who can't handle emotions are intimidated by women in general and think that women aren't "relationship ready" if they're emotional so that also needs to be acknowledged.(How I spot those men is when I feel shamed for having feelings - and I DON'T mean dumping on him. I mean having an empowered relationship with my emotions.)

[celestegarcia]

Men’s sexual preferences often scare me and make me really really sad

[HH-kgfq]

How he speaks to me. How he treats me. His attitudes. Those are more important.

[forgiving.dreams]

I'm here.
You matter.
We're important.
I've got your back.
I'm not going anywhere.
And I only want you.

Beautifully said 💜

[MySideHustleStash]

I rather have a man that makes more than me. But I date a man who makes less than me but he has to have ambition.

[michellerichardson]

Most women are smart and strong, they are not necessarily successful in managing the wrong person. I'm 59 single and a bum magnet...thankfully I've learned to love myself before my natural looks have faded and maybe someone will be lucky to have a chance to share what I have to offer....I'm definitely looking for the high quality if they can drag themselves out of that cave! xx

[georgianaalexe]

Makes a lot of sens! Finally someone who says it right! I was that kind of pin in the a** and i didn't know why he pulled away..i am glad i found oit where .my issue was to fix it. And ironically, the same guy came back after 5 years, after he felt i changed and i have another opportunity to show i am now in the right place and i learned to appreciate him as he is and what he does 👍 thank you!

[Kelleynolimit]

What if a man comes right out and says “Im intimidated by you” ? I’ve heard this from several men. Not men who I’ve been in a relationship with, just men who seem interested but they don’t pursue me. One guy said he “chickened out”. Another guy said “I didn’t have the guts to ask you out” 💁🏻‍♀️

[animeOfDarkness]

Im not letting a women dictate how to run my life.
Im in freedom life without relashionship
My life is happy without a relashipnship
Only place i be loved is my mum and my family.

[sadiauddin]

Why is it that when a woman is single and she id all those things - confident smart successful outgoing etc people comment and assume it's cos she intimidates men but if a man is single no one comments on it and says it's because hes this or that

[hopskotchsquirrel]

This may be an old video...but I am so grateful for it. I am about to change the narrative for sure. I stand to be corrected and this video did it.

[Cinder]

Smart, strong, successful - all 3 not frequently found in the same person.

[flowerchild]

Men need Validation as well verbal expression goes both way's, i think with men they need to hear how they are APPRECIATED and LOVED. Genuine compliments and affection can go a long way

[Dreamsareareality]

Great comments. Well some women...no one cares about your money, car and big house. I remember living in a studio with two cats. I was so happy. I had a house and was depressed. Material things don't bring us joy or success. Sometimes some successful women of power have issues. They run the boardroom and try to run the man. Be the boss in your business but don't try to boss your man. These videos are the best. ♥️