What the avoidant experiences during no contact

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[guywithahelmet]

She won’t reach out. Even if she did… I wouldn’t take her back. I did my best and she still ran away. I’m on to better things.

[frostqueen]

I just ended it finally and blocked him. The dismissive behavior is the most incomprehensible thing I ever saw in my life. I'm so glad that I can stop watching all those videos and to not deal with this DISORDER anymore. It isn't an attachment "style", this is a disorder.

[chiaraA.]

Even when your feelings are still involved, it is necessary to take a step back and realize how you are not respecting yourself and how demeaning it would be to try to get a person back who discarded you. If you say you can't help it, you are flat out wrong - it is an OPPORTUNITY to have your own back. Take it

[BLHuff]

I wasn't anxious at all before i met an avoidant man and now that I'm single again, my sense of peace has returned 🥰 never again will i allow someone to cause me to feel so unwanted and so low because of their immense insecurities/low self esteem. They are onto the next one and im saying ✌️✌️

[addict]

I walked away, it hurts so much. But for some reason i feel free.

[jessicab]

You’re seriously the best coach when it comes to handling DA!!! You should have way more followers!!!

[ritapeters]

Coach Ryan you are the best on avoidants, I like the way you explain them to us with broken hearts. Thank you ❤

[Naan]

I have been watching different videos on this subject, and yours are the most clear ones. Thank you

[Arysia]

He is a dissmissive avoidant and i am secure. I tolerate his behavior for 8 years mostly because i hoped he would go to therapy. He dumped me 2 months ago after i peacefully asked him to stop projecting on me. He ghosted me lol. I did not try to find out anything nor contacted him.when they are gone you really realized how soul sucking those type of persons are. I hope him the best. away from me .

[weaknessstrength]

Your videos heal me. This one and the one about why the discard is so difficult. Thank you 😢

[cocopoulin]

my ex reached out afther only 3 weeks, saying she was sorry for hurting me and the way she broke it off . i know she was sincere but she wanted to come back as a friend .
I accepted the apologies, told her it was the best thing in my life to happen .
and told her we cannot be friend and wished her health and happiness as she going through health disease .
and went back no contact . . . we are now on the 4th week . i keep working on myself and hoping for the best but i am okay if she won't come back obviously it gonna hurt but in the end i did grow already .
I just deeply hope she can do the self reflection on herself too and realize what she is willing to let go .

She told me a lot of events that happened in her childhood i 500% understand why she is the way she is as of today .
I don't want to fix her but i deeply wish from the bottom of my heart she can learn new ways to process things when we are back and me being so much more secure .
Thanks for your videos much love

[StephanieRobertsLife]

Your wisdom has been invaluable in my beginning to heal. This is challenging stuff to process and move through. Having the intellectual explanation is quite sobering and ultimately strengthening. Thank you.

[rmn_]

I keep watching your videos, they help me rethink before I try to reach them out 😢. It's painful, it really hurts. I still miss him though it's been 2 years now😢. Thank you so much for your support & empowering words& questions. Thx a lot. You're blessed 🤍

[Marlin-mnxe]

Why would you want to go back to a person that put you trough all
That emotional
Abuse

[NhatNguyen-plxz]

The worst feeling is when you find out your ex is an avoidant

[YF-eyuq]

Thanks these words are calming after a second heartbreak from the same guy

[amnahaque]

I should have stayed single.
My life is fucked.

[AnaFelici]

If one needs to protect ourselves when the avoidant man decides to reach out or return, that's already tell you who's protecting who .
Sending much 💗

[kalencorrie]

He cheated throughout the marriage as he couldn’t cope. I left and three yrs later, he states he missed me and is in therapy. HE wants to date once a week and wants to be with others. No thanks. This is f’d. Give me my money and I’ll be on my way. No amount of counselling will help bring this boy out of the sandbox.

[rainbowcheung]

You are right, I love all your videos it making sense to compare other Avoidant 's videos.. I agree with you those Avoidant at the beginning is good and then slow fading one is hard .. those Avoidant should not have any relationship if they enjoy being avoidant why they 're seek out relationship in the end they going to discard people .. but I realized the hard lessons we should not allowed it .. do not enable their behaviour .. no matter how hard do not contact them is the right action for our own seek and well being! THANK YOU SO MUCH for all your videos and I love them all!