11 Things Narcissists Would Never Do

Narcissism is a buzzword used quite a lot in the modern-day. It’s possible that we have all known or been involved with somebody who has narcissist traits at some point in our lives. If you have, then you may resonate with some of the points highlighted in this video.

Writer: Jade Hamilton
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[theironrubberduck]

Narcissists always gonna give you up, let you down, run around and desert you. They always make you cry, say goodbye, tell lies and hurt you.

[Raghav-txym]

0:28 They will never apologize to you or admit that they were wrong.
1:08 They will never tell the truth.
1:40 They will never forgive or make peace.
2:18 They will not listen to you.
2:45 They will not take responsibility.
3:15 They will not seek help or professional support.
3:54 They don’t address the difficulties they have with emotional stability and manipulation.
4:34 They will not act selflessly.
5:08 They will never provide you with any sense of safety.
5:34 They will never let you go.
5:52 They don’t want change.

[sanparuzu]

The narcissist I dated for 3 years would always say I was too sensitive, when I would bring up their behavior, they would also NEVER apologize when they were clearly in the wrong. To a point that I had to use text messages in exchanges and they denied those were real. She made me question my sanity and memory by gaslighting me to no ends of the earth. Glad to be away and healing through therapy as it really did a number on me and trusting myself and my reality.

[evelina]

“When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The misinformation will feel unfair, but you stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth just like you did.” – Jill Blakeway

[CairoCreations]

Bruh my imposter syndrome be so bad that when people say “narcissistic people don’t think their narcissists” my brain goes “but what if I’m lying to myself about thinking I’m a narcissist and I actually am a narcissist!”

Edit: a lot of people are talking about how some narcissists do know their narcissists. Yes I am aware that people like this exist and that people with NPD are still people. Another thing people were pointing out was that if I show traits of NPD I should talk to someone about it. I don’t, my self esteem is just so bad that I think giving myself any self care or self love makes me a narcissist. Just because you love yourself and enjoy your own company dosent make you a narcissist. Anyway good luck to everyone, I hope y’all can get trough your mental struggles!

[Rachelfishk]

I kinda disagree with number 1. There are different types of narcissists. The covert narcissist may apologize when spoken to in a calm and communicative manner and say all the things they know you want to hear. Only to turn around and act the same way they always have, and likely gas light you when you call them out.

[kili]

I had a "best friend" that was a narcissist, they manipulated me and made me feel guilty and miserable my entire childhood and early teenage years. Even now after a few years of blocking contact with them I still feel the affects of their actions on me every day.

[queeneliane]

What really makes me mad is that they’ll never genuinely apologize without throwing in a manipulation tactic but they feel SO entitled to their own apology and will make you feel like the worst person in the world if they don’t get it, doesn’t matter if they did that and worse to you, it’s always your fault.

[Obliv]

if you confront their wrong doings you'll get a response like "im sorry you feel that way" - basically putting it back onto you, while showing no accountability or regret.

[MCAlexisYT]

“Life is a battle zone in their eyes” I’m literally here to keep it that way in my narc mother’s eyes because of the betrayal with my sister. My mom is literally the reason why I found out about gaslighting and this channel as a whole. That’s one time where the YT algorithm worked in my favour.

[MrRizon]

This is %100 right, my mother is a narcissist and has done everything in this video at some point in time. Very sad. Sending love to anyone effected by a narcissistic parent. ❤️

[chancellorchandler]

you guys always make me realize that i have a narcissistic mother and that i need to get a therapist👁👄👁

[muayboran]

I was narcissistic but not nacissistic personality disorder. It stems from insecurity and the way I overcame this was by peeling off the layers of my own self and looking at myself honestly even if it feels awful. I challenged myself by doing martial arts and getting myself humbled when sparring with people better than me.

[RockawayCCW]

Nearly ten years after getting the monster out of my house, I still hear his constant insults in my head. Everything I do, everything I think, he's there insulting me every step of the way. That's the worst thing about such people. They live in your head forever.

[thomasskye]

The Never telling the truth part really resonated with me.
I've told enough lies in my life to the point where I can no longer tell the difference between what's real and what I said was real. I hate when people figure out or question my stories because I know that they will loose trust in me if they learn the truth. My whole life is based on lies and I truly wish that I can make things go back to normal, but alas, I may live forever with a backstory that isn't mine.

[kaymuldoon]

I had a good friend who was a narcissist. We’re no longer friends (I ended the friendship) as I was tired of the verbal abuse. Nothing was ever her fault - it was always mine. I was done.

[wgnorman]

22 years with NPD wife...your points spot on. Hardest part for me was to accept there has NEVER been any real love from her. Have left for good and filed divorce....moved to Ecuador....finally finding peace.

[vinztee]

This literally describes my ex-girlfriend. I was questioning my sanity after we broke up but I'm glad that I bumped into this video. Their manipulation skill is really on another level.

[khalilahd.]

I hate to see so many people who can relate to this like I can 🥺. Over the years I’ve been able to grow past the trauma that a narcissist can cause I Just hope the same for you all 💜

[NanaHoneyB]

I’m glad I spot the signs so easily now. I’ve been watching videos and reading about narcissism for days and it’s like watching me talk about my experiences… I hope anybody dealing with one finds the strength to cut them off. Going no contact or at least minimal contact is the only way, since they will never change.