Why Narcissists Fear Abandonment: The Truth Revealed

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[LowellHancock]

Their abusive behavior pushes people away but they feel entitled to treat you like that

[MomTube-iw]

That's why I went no contact. Stay away these people are dangerous.

[ElleLaBelle]

They don't like to be left, but don't know how to treat you when you stick around. Make this make sense please.

[reginabonds]

My husband was a narcissist. A very classic one. I didn’t leave him, but he got cancer and died after 35 years of marriage. He got his revenge well before he died. When he retired, he cancelled our life insurance. When I found out (after he was diagnosed) he simply said, “Did you really think I was going to leave you all that money to blow on you and your boyfriend?”
I had no boyfriend. I couldn’t handle him much less him and someone else.
The betrayal of those words was numbing. He left me with no life insurance and loose medical bills from his cancer treatments. A funeral to plan. No home, no money. It’s been a year since he died. I’m finally finding some peace for myself. But, I will never ever, for the rest of my life marry again.

[fluffytail]

So true. They don’t want to be left but want to leave. I got a letter from a lawyer once (nothing to do with anything involving my husband) and he hit the roof when he saw the return address on the envelope. Apparently, HE was consulting divorce lawyers behind my back and thought I beat him to the punch. He was angry like I’ve never seen him before. Then not 2 months later, he had me go on an errand for him and gave me an address. This wasn’t unusual for him and if I didn’t do his “errands” it always ended badly for me. I pulled up to the address he gave me and met the person inside who “served” me with divorce papers. The paralegal was surprised I didn’t want to contest the divorce! Joke was on the ex though because he filed, he paid. He paid the entire bill for the divorce. And I still got half the money from the sale of our house…and my freedom from that monster.

[serenityhill]

They are toxic… RUN‼️‼️‼️and do not look back. Your mental and physical health is at risk. God Bless you all😊💕

[jendixon]

All about the way they look, never about how you feel. Mental rollercoaster that I’m happy to be getting off of asap! 🙏🏻

[janeygadsby]

once a confident sparky ambitious fun loving lady....now can barely leave the house

[charlotteschnook]

This is why people who treated you like crap try to come back - they need you to want them to fix their ego. This us why going no contactw works SO good. They can't stand being ignored/ forgotten

[mrs.strompsenson]

The thing is they never change. A healthy person goes through life, experiences things, comes to conclusions, tries not to repeat their mistakes, wants to be happy and tries not to upset others but these guys are dead inside: they are forever the same...nothing makes them change.

[Lisa-crb]

When they are the one who discards...its so evil and heartless. They want to see you suffer even if their own child is in the cross fire

[Skyenchantment]

They literally despise their victims who they gaslight endlessly. I left and he turned into 10 times worse because as someone said they feel entitled to abuse you

[BikeLife]

Yep. He "let me" run the house, do the yard work, parent completely alone, cook and clean and do literally everything. When the abuse was too much to handle anymore and I finally realized what was happening, he started love bombing me, then being manipulative and sending me suicide statistics for kids of divorced families. Then when that didn't work, he started acting and speaking to me in a threatening manner, attempted to destroy all of my close relationships, deleted all of my friends in my phone contacts, and smeared me to even my own family. He attempted to alienate me from my kids (which thank God didn't work bc they know who their safe parent is) and even prevent medical and mental health care for the kids. Dumped all of the expenses on me, knowing I was only able to work part time bc our kids are special needs, and then took all of our joint money and assets. And it's been two years in this horrific divorce and he keeps dragging it out with the intention of making me broke to get me to stop fighting for custody. It has been a freaking NIGHTMARE trying to get away from him.

[rainbowintheclouds]

Plain and simple they’re the worst people to EVER be around, and NEVER stick around them once you know WHAT they are

[misspc]

Some don’t fight or cause a scene . Some don’t even care to chase or fix anything and that is OKAY TOO

[cathouze]

😢 But he felt that im standing for my self after 20 years of suffering
.. He started to spread rumours about me to my family "" That im having multiple affirs and not a good wife and mother""
Now i left him and no family around me.. He knows how to trick people. Though im the victim he played a role like Him being the innocent.
Why should i prove my self to others. No one knew my suffering and only me and God knew what he did to me from the first day of my marrige.😢😢
Im financially down, ,
Trying to recover Anxiety at the moment. But im free from that evil person. Thank God.

[Narc_Hunter]

They are savage control freaks. Savage and willing deceitful. It's up to you to mirror that right back to them by going no contact and showing that you have zero interest in their abuse!

[iamBDott]

Big facts! I saw her eyes go black and felt like I was in danger. I left and never looked back

[jennabell]

So true. So many dead beats wanna fight so hard for there kid AFTER their spouse leaves them. But only on the surface and only at court

[ChosenDj]

I’m the type of person already recovering & healing from my ex narc that I instantly see when someone is one & it is completely a refresher to understand who someone is but also emotionally draining because you want to care for them but you honestly can’t cause it’s never enough!! & I will never get played again 💯💯 I’m steps ahead discard them before they discard you 💯! It doesn’t make you a bad person because you’re protecting your peace, Just trust God