Why Is Your Ex Contacting you If They're Dating Someone Else?

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Is your ex contacting you while in a NEW relationship? Are you just a wee bit confused why they're messaging you, I mean, what do they want? What are they thinking? Do they secretly want you back? I shed some light on what it all means in this video!

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Ashley "Don't Give Up On Love" Kay

[livefree]

the ex always thinks you are the back up plan when things dont work out for them. just move along, nothing to see here.

[Nustart]

I never stopped wanting my ex but had to remain strong she’s not the person she was when I met her, never will be.

[computerbiscuit]

My ex kept telling to move on, I stopped talking to her and did my thing, then she won't leave me alone. She was seeing someone else and got mad at me when I did the same thing. She said "That was fast!" I think she was just using me for emotional support when things weren't going well with her new guy. She seemed like she wanted me to be devastated without her. In reality I was bummed, but I know you can't make people like you or love you, so I move on, she can't handle it.

[tuwapratt]

Just keep it moving because I'm not giving u nothing.

[zulmaochoa]

He called me to apologize for ghosting me, I took his apology, texted me and I told him very, very politely to eff himself, I don't want to get sloppy seconds by taking him back and never did like him like that anyways. If he's still in love with me that's his problem, not mine.

[justpeaceful]

Also I think a lot of persons must be mindful of the fact TRUE LOVE can not be bought and FEELINGS can't be repaired just like that.Hurt is very very painful and we should all be honest with ourselves what is it we want from a relationship....whether it's one that is emotionally driven or financially driven. I think it's very important to TRULY and HONESTLY establish this first before committing into a serious relationship. I think for the most part though there is a lot of selfishness, social problems and immaturity contributing to a lot of break down in most relationships.Personally I think there is that one true love waiting out there some where for me and when I find her she'll be my GREATEST TREASURE. No puppy love....lol

[carolloraine]

If he's contacting you and there's another woman in the wings??
He's a CHEATER!!!
He'll do the same to you!

[a.m]

My avoidant ex often texts me how much he misses us and the sex (I gnore) but then will post pictures on his socials " me and the wife" 🤡🤡

[shuatreee]

This was fine, but has nothing to do with why ex is texting while dating someone else. The title is misleading.

[lambertlow]

Thanks Ashley. You are right on point. I have been trying to look for an explanation regarding this situation as I'm going through the same thing. No matter how much and how big we fight she still contacts me. Even though she is seeing someone else. I'm always the first one to know of her problems rather then the person that she's seeing. He's always the last and that's after a few days. I just removed myself completely by not answering her calls or replying to her messages. Cause I don't deal with "bullshit". But she tries to call me at odd hours of the night or early morning hoping that I would give in and pick up. Looking forward to more of your inspiring videos. Thanks

[Angelicconnections]

oh hell no thank you,
I remember the red flags from the beginning I'm sticking with that

[rinaroysyngkon]

"They want something from you"...I believed this 110% cuz always i used to send him many many costly gifts

[TaniaMarie]

The answer is simple, SEX is why your ex still contacts you!!

[FashionVanilla]

What if they don't contact you, but are obsessing over your social media? Watching every single IG story you post, never skip a photo. I blocked them for a bit, but when I unblocked them they came back immediately! I've heard it's the sign of them still being attached to you and still trying to be/control your life, even via social platforms, even if they're in another relationship! What to do in that kind of situation?

[wedontlikenoneofyou]

My ex still won't leave me alone I only bust in her when I feel like it, I maintain her blocked till I want it. Going on 2 years.

[kjam]

If I see my ex-wife in five trillion years that's too damn soon! 😂😂😂😂😂

[houstonraver]

My ex contact me a month ago! Convo is not even all that she takes forever to respond so I hit her with the "yeah lol" and then she stops texting me another month later she text me again with the same question" how are you " again she takes a full day to respond to anything any thoughts?

[Saiimoony]

So my ex broke no contact and tells me he misses me. Months later I allowed him to see me. And then he doesn’t text me at all and I see he’s following someone new on social media. I feel used and played 😭

[simplyjustash]

Yep. Mine is contacting me because his life is miserable with his married gf. She doesn't know he talks to me when she isn't around. She shrugs him off. Doesn't want to work. He needs to work. Yet she begs and pleads for him not to go when he threatens to leave. Pretty much using each other.

[sierria]

My ex I'm a nurse he was a surgeon never gave me the time or showed me he cared. I broke it off, it was to be sex only it the way he treated me. I met a new man a policeman, he did not even call never returned my calls...so I have time to get to know the new man. One day he called I was sitting by phone and listen ed he left message.i did not return call..I let month go by, he call me and says on answer machine is there something wrong...I still did not return call. I waited sometime later and called he told him I met someone and wanted to concentrate on the new guy. I decided I would leave keeping he confused as to what I really felt about things..I told him he was a nice guy and that I'll always care for him but I had to be realistic..I was not getting younger. I told him I hope u find someone.i was soft spoken and non confrontational..this man told me if it does not work out will u consider me. I said nothing.he kept calling me .one day he came to the gym that I went to he asked if I loved the guy..I again did not answer. I married the police man. Some years later in 2019 I saw him I told him that I have two kids..he looked at me and said I wonder why we never had kids come up between us. I again did not answer. Mind u he had a ex and he was dealing with her ....I realized that's why he would not come or communicate..at times. He treated me like shit. He tells me no one has ever told me like u.. when I broke it off with me and he told me I let u get away.