7 Early Signs of A Toxic Relationship

What if the person we fall for isn't who we really think they are? Here are 7 early signs of a potentially toxic relationship. Nothing can be worse than wasted time and energy on someone. 1) They carry an ex-baggage 2) Constant lies 3) Love bombs you. 4) Frequently monitors you 5) ... Watch to find out the rest!

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[ytsejam]

"We often hold on longer to something that's not working because we are afraid noone else will love us." Ooof.... I feel this so hard right now.

[Mayeoli]

This isnt just for romantic relationships. This goes for friendships too.

[vrushtimehta]

1) Your partner has heavy ex baggage.
2) Your partner often lies to you about almost everything.
3) Your partner love - bombs you.
4) Your partner frequently monitors you.
5) Your partner isolates you.
6) Your partner uses hot and cold method.
7) You constantly find yourself starting over with your partner.

[hmmyesinteresting]

Always learn to let go for a healthier life.

[lailanniley]

I'm scared. I'm stuck. I just wanted a pure relationship. I'm losing myself. I don't know anymore.

UPDATE: After 4 months I finally have the courage to break off the relationship. My family knew how big of a jerk he was and they were pissed. Took me time to make a move but yes! I finally did it. Thank you so much for the support, it helped a lot :<

[melii]

*Signs you're in a toxic relationship*
No 1: You're watching this video

Edit : So happy to say that after 2 years I was finally able to leave my relationship too. I hope everyone who has a s/o or a friend who is toxic, leaves them so they could be happier :) <3

[purplex]

Me: (is single)
Brain: just in case bro

[joeywall]

Stuff like this should be taught in Middle School. It would be valuable to hear this right in the beginning, when you start to explore romantic relationships.

[duckduck]

“we’re afraid no one else will love us” is what i’m a afraid of 😔

[OfficialKorrupt]

Everyone should keep in mind that your partner probably doesn’t even realize they are doing these things. So it’s a better idea to point them out to him/her first and try to see if they work on them before just throwing away the relationship. Just a thought.

[edaoezyrt]

When someone gives you compliments and tells you how much they love you all the time doesn’t necessarily have to be toxic. Especially in the beginning of a relationship when everything is beautiful and both partners just love each other. Don’t get it mixed up! lol

[Kipasa]

Who's here because they going through this crap atm🤦‍♂️👋🙄

[Boi-qsrw]

I ruined a relationship this way. All I can say is, make SURE you’re ready for a relationship. Don’t go in with untreated baggage and hurt. Not advised

[mrssugarpop]

"We usually hold on longer to something that's not working because we're afraid no one else will love us, but this is how your fears ruins your chances of finding something real. Love is always worth it if it means setting yourself free from the wrong people."
This hit me hard.

[oneoutoftheninety-nine.]

I get mad at myself for letting myself go through this. Ughhh

[AnimeWolf]

I think the hardest part is the denial. No one wants to believe someone is manipulating them or using them. Even when it ends, they'd rather believe they did something wrong rather than think they were just played as the fool.

[elianastasiadi]

If you're "monitoring" by just texting or calling them through the day, is a reason to break up then I honestly don't know. The person texting you might care for you, be lonely or maybe you're the only person they trust enough to talk to...

Sincerely,
The Person That Always Texts First

[shadowsomething]

I was in a toxic relationship for a year or two and never wanted to brake it off, take it from me it's not very fun at all and is emotionally damaging

[realpassionlife]

This is NOT just for relationships but also for friendships as well. I came here to admit that after much self reflection and introspection, I have to say that I am the toxic one. It's important for all of us to not always put blame on the other but also to humble yourself and be self aware of your own actions. I've lost a really good friend because I was not well at that time. I know mental illness isn't an excuse, but because of it- I had so much self hatred and I depended on my friend for my wellbeing and IT WAS SELFISH. I feel like I gave her the responsibility for my happiness which I should be giving to my own self. I wasn't aware of it at that time, but now having been realizing this- I feel so terrible and guilty. But I can no longer change the past nor get my friend back, but I can let those things teach me a valuable lesson and to make myself better. I've worked hard on myself consistently and only then that I have learned genuine self love that it makes so much difference in your life, insecurities aren't so big anymore, and no need to feel jealous. It was a massive growth for me. All I'm saying is, people also do get better and people improve if they're willing to work hard on themselves and I can attest to the changes I've seen inside of me. I wanted to be better for myself and I wanted to be a better friend to others.

To the friend that I have lost, dear V, i am truly sorry. I know we will never cross paths again nor meet eye to eye in this lifetime. And I'm keeping my promise to you to stay away no matter what, (which I broke several times before)- I've now learned my lesson and will continue to respect your space, that I've deleted every single thing to make it easier for me. You deserve the peace. Wherever you are and whatever you are doing, I hope you are genuinely happy. May peace, joy, and love always find you, senpai.

Your old (ex)friend

[leahhhhhh]

can you guys do a video of signs of a toxic friendship?