Things you NEED TO KNOW before your 1st relationship 👀 #shorts #advice #dating

[itac.]

I think a lot of people know these things, but my biggest tip that helped me was be honest even when it’s hard or embarrassing. If you’re in it for the long haul, they’re gonna see sides of you you don’t like, that’s okay. Just communicate, be honest and you can stop a lot of problems before they start.

[scottnomore]

Calm them crazy eyes down now, why can't so many tiktok and youtube people blink?

[grant]

instead of asking if theyre good enough for you, ask if you are right for each other... I think we get into a toxic mindset whenever we assume we are better/worse than someone else. You either hurt them or you hurt yourself

[Jiayingchua]

"A relationship is like a fart, if u gotta force it its shit"
-stolen quote from someone on the internet bc i thought it was funny

[KARINA]

You cant be in a successful romantic relationship if you dont work on yourself first.

[khgl]

Okay the thing is I literally did not see any red flags before my marriage. He was consistent, on-time, kind, and honestly full on Prince Charming. Once we got married and got back from the honeymoon it felt like that person disappeared and slowly he started to become more and more distant making me increasingly insecure and literally just emotionally torturing me. And then he started to travel for work without discussing it with me. And then he was working weekends. And then the nights he was free he wanted to be with family or friends. And then my dad died and he was barely there. And then finally I said goodbye

[wandajones]

Excellant advice. I needed to hear this and Im 59. I became a widow after 36 yrs.

[gwish]

Here’s some advice: whatever people tell you on social media, DONT THINK ABOUT IT IN A WAY THAT MAKES YOU PETTY. because a lot of times, people can take the words of someone differently. (Of course, that doesn’t mean the person giving advice isn’t giving good advice, but it just depends on how they say it.) what I mean by this, is 1. Don’t set terribly high expectations, 2. Think of the question, “are they good enough for you?” And base it off of things like: “are they kind?” Or, “are they trusting?” Because definitely not, “are they tall and incredibly smart to match my own narcissism?” (But over all, she gives good advice.)

[reginaldulrichosbourne]

The confidence is a no-brainer, however if it is not backed by evidence, then it is a bad thing. You are not inherently good enough, as a man or as a woman, you must work on yourself and ACTUALLY bring something to the table not just “I am a beautiful person inside and out” or “I am a boss ass bitch and I know what I deserve” because more often than not the supposed value, that you think, you have is not actually there.

[twistedcoasters]

Lower your expectations if they’re too high! We can’t expect perfection in a partner when we’re not perfect ourselves

[patriciaa.everydayy]

I wish i could've know this b4 my first relashionship HAHA!

[kzdbrtz]

My first relationship was grazy, I don't even know what to say about our break up 💀

[Jesuslife.]

I just have to say something sorry, don’t be too confident or self obsessed. Yes, it’s great to have confidence, and I’m not saying that you’re not good enough because you are TRUST ME OKAY? But don’t be self absorbed!! You have to work on yourself too and not just focus on how they treat you, you’re the other person in the relationship and you guys both aren’t perfect, so be okay with that especially if it’s the first time for one of y’all or both. You get to know each other, focus on who they are and how they make you feel.

[londonmatchmaker]

Absolutely right stop worrying you if you’re good enough for them because if they want you they will accept your imperfections 👌🤩.

[annoar]

yes but also people sometimes need to learn these from their first relationship.

[LolaXoUrFav]

THANK YOU OMG NOW IM LIKE ACTUALLY REALIZING IM TOO GOOD FOR THE PPL THAT TREAT ME LIKE CRAP TYSM ❤

[Carlwithgun]

Her voice is definitely my ASMR tonight

[operatorgriz]

Yea it’s impossible for me too ghost my friends, because I have none💀

[UnfinishedHomework]

If both ppl have the mindset "are they good enough for me" it's going to set expectations from, both of them but they both won't contribute to anything resulting in a failed relationship

[-Luhvv_.]

I’m kinda in a relationship rn it’s very confusing. Quick story- we met, became friends, few days later randomly started dating on the spot, bro flirted with me for hours, Has barely talked since. I’m a very shy person when it comes to dating, it doesn’t matter how long I’ve known you, we could of been besties before dating and I’ll be super shy at first.. and at first I tried to talk with them but I don’t think they are very into me :’) Now I’ve been in a relationship before and I broke up with them but I had my ex best friend with me. And this took place like 2 yrs ago- this is my second relationship, and rn idk what to do anymore.. I don’t wanna be in this relationship, and idk how to leave. I’m fact idk if they even wanna be in the relationship either- in their bio they had that I was their gf but deleted it 💀 bro do y’all have any advice? What should I do 😭