'Heartbreaking' 8 Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist (so sad but so true)

Is your mom or dad a narcissist? Find out if you're the black sheep of the family by taking the BLACK SHEEP TEST.

Family life in the narcissistic nest hurts like hell if you happen to be the black sheep of the family. The poor little black sheep gets blamed for everything that goes wrong and is denied love and support from within the family.

Count the signs that are true for you and your relationship with your narcissistic mother or narcissistic father to get your BLACK SHEEP SCORE...

Sign One - Messed Up
Your narcissistic parent(s) project(s) all the family problems such as addictions or mental health problems on to you

Sign Two - Bad Egg
Your narcissistic mother or father thinks that you are a bad person

Sign Three - Finger of Blame
Whenever something goes wrong in the family you get the blame

Sign Four - Memory Lane Put Downs
When your narcissistic parent(s) tell(s) stories about the past it is to make you feel embarrassed and ashamed

Sign Five - Absolutely Useless
Your narcissistic mother or father doesn't believe in you and expects everything you do to fail

Sign Six - Out in The Cold
Your narcissistic parent turns the family against you when you don't do as he/she says

Sign Seven - Liar Liar
Nobody in the family ever believes your side of the story - they side with your narcissistic parent every time

Sign Eight - Swapped at Birth (?)
You are made to feel as if you are an alien imposter within the family

How many signs were true for your narcissist mother or narcissist father? Click her/his score NOW...

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[Chromozome]

Just turned 35, still dealing with it. She treats me like a stranger of the family, but my brother and sister can do no wrong. The fact that I didn't have kids makes it all the more worse. Brother and sister are treated like the golden child since they did. Everytime I try to talk to her she rolls her eyes at me.

[realitybytes]

Sadly I knew of someone going back 20 years who committed suicide, knowing what I now know he was the scapegoat son of a single narcissist mother. She turned everyone against him, he probably thought he was so useless due to the abuse, nothing could be further from the truth. So evil, sick, twisted and sometimes deadly this narcissism is, so few understand its implications, videos like this will help. Thank you :-)

[ohsnapitspat]

Some relationships are not worth mending.

[okaykatee]

My mum is definitely a narcissist. The only things that she tells me is that I'm useless! Even when I do a great job at something and a lot of people say how good of a work I've done, she never says ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING GOOD. She only shouts and says nasty things all day. I'm f*cking tired, can't wait to move out.

[pacalvotan]

Well...I'm 8 for 8. I expected that though. I have not spoken to her since 2004. Life is good :-).

[rachealbridgeman]

im the black sheep and i freaking hate it!!!😣😣

[rowdeo]

I am a mom of eight children. I would rather kill myself than ever ever degrade, demean, devalue, criticize, any of my children. I only guide them if I am asked as they are now adults. I never liked parents who had bumper stickers: My son is on the honor roll, or similar bummer stickers as if their children's achievements were their achievements. My adult children call me, I do not call them except after texting them to ask if it is a good time to do so. I was never supported as a child most of the issues came from being a child of immigrant parenting.
From the day your child is born, the umbilical cord is cut, that is a symbol of your job beginning and dependency of the child ending. It is up to us to teach guide pass on our culture and value systems to our children. We should inspire engage listen and help our kids.
Thank you for posting your video

[JeiCris]

My mother is a narcissist. Though my dad is too. And they put eachother down very sarcastically. I just ignore them. I'm 34. I laugh in the inside because i dont take them seriously also because its entertaining how their minds is so ass backwards when their narcissist behaviour comes out. Honestly folks....ignore them...know its them, not you. its a mental sickness....go no contact. why argue back n forth with foolishness.??

[enrikapiliciauskaite]

MY MUM IS THE LAIR LAIR SHE DOESNT BELIVE A WORD I SAY I M CRIYING RLLY HARD

[HealthyPlanet]

Why isn't there a practical way to legally, sensibly, and humanely place these people in permanent quarantine somewhere where they will be safe, but out of reach of causing harm to others, especially to their children of any age.

[drinkyourtea]

My mother accused me of smoking behind her back once when I came home smelling like cigarette smoke and couldn't explain it the thing is I've never smoked a cigarette in my life and she accused me of lying to my face and I hear shit she says about my to her "friends" on the phone when she thinks I'm not listening she is a horrible women.

[nannersfun]

Wow! I am the black sheep! Even though I was the one that done anything right.. My mother is the classic narcissist

[manhater]

Every single thing you said is true about my NM. I didn't speak to her for five years. Then, I forgave her. We have a relationship now and she's still the same but even though she destroyed my life for a long time, I feel that I must help her all that I can. Instead of hating her, I feel pity for her. I don't understand what made her the way that she is. I never could love her because she was so abusive and horrible. She's never been a mother to me. Maybe she just didn't know how. God bless all of you who went through the nightmare.

[circlesinthenight]

This is my mom. It hurts me, I'm 18 . I make YouTube videos and write poetry to kill the pain

[destructivebliss]

It's really difficult growing up with a mother like this. Never being able to do anything right, being kicked down at every opportunity, being tarnished as a liar and good for nothing. She can be as cold as ice, not talking to me for weeks on end which makes for a horrible home atmosphere for everyone, but that's my fault. She would go through all of my stuff, dictate which friends I could or couldn't have, same with boyfriends. Always ready to share a story with whoever is happens to be there, normally about the time 'I freaked out' on holiday for 20 minutes (I had a sudden panic attack and generally couldn't suck in any air, it happened once only) she pays no attention to my children (I'm quite thankful for this) and is quick to tell me about all the times ever messed up. She bullies, she emotionally blackmails and she mentally breaks you down. She is critical of everything and if she smiles at any good fortune I have, it's through gritted teeth. I made to adulthood. I am strong.

[ScapegoatedDaughter]

This is a well made, informative animation. The subject matter is naturally upsetting to learn about (for the black sheep anyway). It's a great idea, using animation this way. I can almost guarantee that most folks would not stay to the end of educational videos on this topic. Keep up the good work...you are helping so many people.

[endlessjourney]

why do they make kids in the first place?

[danbruuu]

The 'when you are rigged up behind the scenes; no-one will believe you' part cut me straight to my core.

[hrmagoo]

All these are true! BUT! I escaped this by leaving all of them for good. I created a new life, full of love. I wish I could be everyone's Mommy who had to suffer like I did. I would tuck you in bed and make you feel safe by making you laugh, I would buy you presents all the time bc I'm thinking ab you, I would show you how to cook and we would laugh at our mistakes. I would constantly compliment & encourage you. Respect would be a two-way street where we respected each other. My loyalty & love would never waiver. I wouldn't abandon you emotionally, physically or any other way. I am your Mom and my love would NEVER leave you nor forsake you. And that's what a REAL MOM would be like...oh and big kisses on the cheek every day...because you're so worth it!

[josephdamuth]

Yep this is my mom I'm only 12 and I know it