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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:

Narcissistic abuse looks like:

Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.

Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:

Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.

Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.

Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.

Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

How to begin healing from narcissistic abuse:
Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.

Get Help:

Establish No Contact or Low Contact:

Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:

Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:

Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:

Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:

Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.

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[lemonsunshine]

Narcissists are monsters in human skin. Anybody that seeks to hurt, control and destroy another person is a monster.

[deequilter]

It's difficult to comprehend how anyone could rationalize belittling another person while claiming to love them so deeply. "Listen because it's for your own good!"

[MJ-qbph]

They despise an independent honest person

[tootienottoofruitie]

Attraction to sweetness, pure of heart, people pleasing AND IGNORANCE of their evil ‼️

[gwendolynwehage]

For years I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me, making people avoid me and even pick on me. Then I realized we live in a culture of narcissism, a person who is open and honest is feared by those who are living false personas. I am convinced now that my openness and honesty make them fearful that I will tell the truth when they love to hide and pretend.

[survivor]

Wow!!! What energy!!!! You're genius!!! Thank you! 🎉❤🎉

[whitehorse]

What is really tough is when the narcissists in your life are your parents. Starting life out with these sick people who sexually, physically and emotionally abuse you as a small child takes a lifetime to heal....I am 67 now and still working on healing those wounds...thanks to the internet & videos like this one! Thank you so much! 🙂

[juliachasegrey]

Sooo clear! Thank you. I am very intelligent, empathic and extrovert and also independent but I was also vulnerable due to childhood neglect. He used them to control me. I got out 7 weeks ago. Hooray me!

[oneamongall]

I am 68 years old and I now know that I spent my entire life with narcissists. I ended up with nothing!
The love of my life was nothing less than a cheater and a sex addict...it was so bad I could not imagine living without her and preferred living in denial than losing her....7 years later I dropped her and rebuild my personality surrounded myself with good people who cared .
Unfortunately I fell for another later on and worked for her for 25 years, helped her run and build a nice restaurant while living in fear and insecurity with poor self esteem...Once her house was paid for she closed the restaurant overnight without warnings and put 18 people out of work without shedding a tear!
I have gone to college afterward and pursue a Bachelor degree in business and found a job as a manager in a RV park...you guessed it ....my general manager is a narcissist!??? Out of seven children none have spoken to him in over 35 years! he took over the family estate by making the court system believe the mother was crazy and suicidal...(wonder why).
So I am a total narcissist magnet and I am looking for a way to get out of there...
I feel good about myself and i am not depressed I kinda laugh at circumstances that lead to these relationships but remember narcissists are very charming and accommodating at first so don't put all your eggs in one basket especially when it is too good to be true!

[rjlewis]

Helps explain why narc parents don’t like teaching their kids to be independent. Our society helps enable narcs by winking at their behavior.

Parents should be required to pass psychological exams before they are allowed to procreate.

[aimeestutzman]

They are just nasty people. I appreciate you sharing your vulnerabilities. Thank you for being here

[melissacole]

I think they try to feed off of your soul, until they drain all the goodness out of you, so they can drag you to hell with them. If you are a child of God, he will remove you from them and bless you with peace of mind.

[Grrrrrrr]

When I met him thirty years ago I had a new car my own apartment and a good job. Within six months my car was sold to pay his debts and I only drove old bangers every since while he drove top of the range. Until the fog of abuse lifted I couldn’t see it for what it was divorcing now 🙏

[Arvy]

Narcissists are attracted to People Pleasers and Enablers.

[Portia]

They’re still trying to show me that I’m not good enough, but I know better! I’m more than enough! 🥂❤️🙏. I’ve had God standing by my side when I lost everything and everyone for the most part not everyone but pretty much God was my BFF and I raise daily because of that and know that I will rise.

[Vixinaful]

Weakness and empathic people. I asked one of the psychopaths Ive attracted and he told me straight out: "I heard about your ordeal and understood you were weak so I looked you up" They look for weak people and some of them like a challenge so they go for strong people and se if they can break the down. They usually can. Until one learns what they are and how to get rid of them. The only thing that helped me so far was to abuse them as badly as I could verbally. Look down upon them, tell them how disgusting and miserable they are and eventually they will have such narcissistic damages that they cannot be around you anymore. No contact didnt help for me, they come back for the pieces left of you to abuse, you HAVE to fight back!

[sheilamurry]

"It" was never attracted to my qualities it was a doorway to squash to get to my vulnerabilities.
Then as my qualities blinded them "it" and their enablers scurried to make up a game plan and it's called "kill, steal and destroy" and the lay-out plan was influenced by satan

[silvanam]

The BEST explanation of narc abuse/attraction I've ever heard.

[timegoesby]

Be careful not be confused and messed by the intermittent love bombing, when narcissists praise your good qualities making you think they are appreciative.
Kevin thanks for all your videos 😍

[TROLL]

You nailed it: Codependency is a Loop; A supply chain loop', for the narcissist.