How do I STOP Attracting Narcissists?

#codependency #codependencyrecovery #lifehack #lifecoach #detachment #relationshipadvice Are you still attracting narcissistic, women and friends into your life? It might be challenging to wonder why and how it is you are the common denominator but doing so can help you end any subconscious attraction you have to toxic relationships.

As a Life Coach for adult children of alcoholics and narcissistic parents who struggle with self doubt, making decisions, setting boundaries, and speaking up for themselves, in can be hard to detach and observe how one's emotional set point might be creating a pattern that draws and then tolerates narcissistic others into their lives.

In this YouTube video by Lisa A. Romano, world renowned Life Coach and codependency recovery expert, you will learn about how to stop attracting toxic people into your lives at the subconscious and thus vibrational level.

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Lisa A. Romano is a Life Coach and bestselling author specializing in helping people reclaim their lives by ascending old thought patterns and healing faulty childhood subconscious programs. She is an expert in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and elevating consciousness. She is also one of the most popular meditation teachers on Insight Timer and is the creator of the 12-Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. If you feel invisible, unworthy, and lack a sense of self or purpose, Lisa's work in personal development can help you gain the self-awareness required to break through.

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[NarcSurvivor]

Self love and self worth is your greatest defence. They only target people who lack those things. Or they try to resurface past insecurities.

[robdegrilla]

Stop enabling them. Don’t be nice to them. Make it clear you see exactly what they are and you will hold very strong boundaries. Zero tolerance will usually see them move on

[vam]

Oh this was very much needed! Thank you very much beautiful Lisa ❤ I’ve done a lot of healing but I still attract such people as friends or potential mates. Even if I don’t give them much of time they seek me out. One of them calls me their “energy boost”. I feel depleted when I’m around them. I don’t feel seem or heard. Same with my mom on the phone. It can be a 2 min call and ruin my day. I will keep your advice in mind.

[f.t.]

Thank you, Lisa, for sharing your wisdom on this! 🙏

Just earlier this week I decided to ignore the message of a girl I previously had thought potentially could be a friend, as I realised that my stomach always started to hurt whenever she contacted me. She only contacted me to dump her problems on me and never cared to ask me about how I was feeling and what I was needing. So I slowly stopped feeding her my energy and attention. She then started trying to get attention from other girls in a joint group. When that did not work she tried "love bombing" me. I did not take the bait. Her final move was to send me a message to ask me what she could do for me. I knew that this was just a move to lure me back in as she had never asked me that before in the 7 months I've known her, so I ignored it and decided to move on.

No more unbalanced relationships with self-absorbed people are welcome in my life. If they don't make me feel good or bring out the best in me they have no place in my life. Period.

[Miniver]

I'm not into Buddhism, and don't plan to change my spiritual beliefs, but I do agree that you essentially have to learn how to reprogram your own internal wiring. Like you, I had to ask myself why I kept attracting unhealthy people. It meant I had to acknowledge some unpleasant facts about my parents and my early life, and what was psychologically and emotionally drilled into me from childhood. Both of my parents were definitely Cluster B personalities with strong narcissistic tendencies. My sister and I were viewed as possessions rather than autonomous individuals.

You are exactly on target about the importance of doing discovery work, and learning to recognize patterns so you can disengage from unhealthy people and situations. Thank you for all the work you do Lisa.

[wandRng]

Though I'm not the marrying type, after I got out of my upside down relationship, I started wearing a gold ring on my marriage finger for 2 reasons: To deter anyone trying to come knocking AND, most importantly, to remind myself that, from now on, I'm committed to me, ALL of me. Almost a year later now-ring is on my finger, I'm solo, much more mentally stable, and I kinda freaking enjoy being me. Godspeed y'all 💙

[stevendedeian]

obviously, a 'ring' is not a requirement, for true, honest love....great video, Lisa....

[Jennifer]

Didn't have alcoholic parents but they were both narcissistic and the mother was also bipolar. This was my everyday. Thank you for this video. I like an astrologer from California, Toscha Silver. She used to write for a magazine, and one of the articles she wrote was about a young woman who got pregnant for the first time. Her mother got so crazy about it, that she was sick all the time was aligned with the mother's anxiety she almost lost the baby. That story stuck with me and I chose to talk about it in therapy all day because my grandmother was a worrier at psychotic levels and my mother had issues, my anxiety was off the charts all the time. My therapist said it didn't work that way. Well, yeah, it does. I wish I learned these lessons earlier in my life. When my mother starts to go of the rails because she's aligning with a cptsd flashback, I tell her pull it back.

[slowedtwizzy]

Stoicism is a good philosophy to follow as well because it teaches you dispassion

[Hummingbird]

This was a great video ! Helps me so much on what I need to be doing . I have gotten rid of toxic negative friends. But I have a son that's narcissistic and it's hard . Thank you Lisa ❤

[i]

Thank you. It's true whenever I have money and treat myself really well. I start to attract people that are kind and respectful to me.
People that actually want me in their lives. Whenever I don't treat myself how I want to, neglect low on finances. I attract the scum of the earth, the narc and the stalkers.
Already have the picture. Asap I'm going to buy a ring ❤.

[MandyD]

Have always worn a ring on my wedding finger since as far back as I can remember, possibly early childhood. Only true love will do. Only what's meant for me. No narcissists need apply. 💍👍 🙏 ❤️ 🤗 💪 🌈 ✨

[novarlevante]

I love seeing these old ones again! Thanks for reposting them. :)

[angiemason]

We are all energy. Energy is everything and everything is energy.

[gregorynicholls]

I attach to love and all who it comes from. I am in love with love. Stay strong Wonder woman.

[PeterAcrat]

Yes: 6:03 It is (more accurately) a matter of *Owning* the _MEANINGS behind_ the emotions that come up and making a choice if you want to keep having those emotions, or whether you value more peaceful feelings...

... because one can't change what one projects (give away) onto others through blame. Pst actions can not be shifted, but what they MEAN certainly can. Yet the heart will only agree to settle for definitions and perceptions that generate and support peaceful feelings - and that level of alignment is beyond the 'Good Vs Bad' system we knocked up to guide humanity in general. It's called Love. ☮Start by ForeGivting yourself with compassion. Value _being_ and feeling loving and kind - to yourself.

[rockerdad]

So interestng, I can see this ..the common denominator idea, , I feel this can happen in a family system. Once I did remove its seems that the toxics get along fine without me. Once I as an empath backed away, things smoothened out. detach, place your mental health first above all else. My thoughts.

[johnjohnstone]

What I'm getting is the great difficulty of awakening, you have to be really set on it, so many obstacles in the way, I once heard society described as one great lullaby, to keep us all asleep. I once heard that in business the first million dollars is the hardest, I think the spiritual equivalent could be the first personal problem issue that you can begin to manage consciously would be the hardest. There seems to be so much promise in the personal growth field yet getting your first win is another matter.

[klyn]

OOOH MY GOD!!! Thank YOU Lisa, I am AWARE!!! 🕊️✨🫶💯

[Indigorose]

I realized I have only ever attracted narcissists into my life this past year. Even with realizing this, I am still attracting them. Today I realized my boss is a narcissist. It sent me into a panic attack. I left my family 2 1/2 years ago, cold turkey when I learned what a narcissist was. I’ve lost everything and am constantly on the verge of bankruptcy and/or homelessness. I really am trying so hard but I can’t seem get away from it and I don’t know what else to do. Can you suggest anything on a spiritual level? I’m starting to think I was a narcissist in a past life and this is my karma.
And thank you for this video and all of your videos, you have brought me so much relief from learning. God bless 🙏🏼