Why Is My Ex Taking So Long To Come Back?

Coach Lee explains possible reasons why your ex is taking so long to contact you after they broke up with you.

This is assuming you are using the no contact rule and are wanting to get back together with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend after they dumped you.

Sometimes just because your ex is taking a while to reach out doesn't mean that you want get them back and Coach Lee explains what could be going on and what to expect in this powerful video.

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[RealCoachLee]

Just a reminder, I don’t ever suggest you contact me or anyone on WhatsApp. There are people who impersonate me in the comments. Take a look at my name here and how on a computer it has a check mark and on a mobile it is circled with a dark color. If it doesn’t have that, it’s a cheap, fake impersonator trying to rip you off.

[luciaiglesias]

Breaking no contact is like saying to your ex "I still can't do better than you".

[ILoveAnine]

find comfort in this:
You can never ever mess up something that is meant for you. Nothing you say or do will mess up what's destined for your life.

[ak.]

Some exes will never come back or even communicate with you. You should never put your life on hold. Stay strong 💪

[_astro_]

She did actually came back 2 months ago, she came after a little more than 1 month no contact, i thought there was no hope, i started to talk to other girls .. now we are back together and we are pretty much stronger.. do no contact guys ans work on yourself, you will be surprised how the tables will turn, stay strong my kings 🙏

[itsreallyrona]

My ex can take as long as he needs. He’s exactly where he needs to be.

[Iloveorliandwicked]

He’s very stubborn, proud, strong, and disciplined. I’m terrified he’ll never come back. Not because he doesn’t want to but because he’s a dismissive avoidant and able to shove his feelings down and ignore them. For decades.
My anxiety is starting to gas light myself and think maybe he just didn’t like me anymore even though I know what we had was real and genuine and that he loved me.

[bhagyashree]

How to deal with the resentment towards them ? When they left you during one of the most difficult and crucial period of life whereas you were standing strong with them during theirs. This type of betrayal can easily drown one person into anxiety and depression .And it just gets more difficult to fight when you see everything crumbling right in front of your eyes.

[ILikeDumplings]

Cuz he is not coming back. This is the last video I click on about getting my ex back. From now on, I'm only gonna focus on my healing.

[Ruuumichan]

Coach Lee, I can't thank you enough.
You are truly my saviour, especially during my darkest times. I followed your no contact rule for around three months and now he wants me back. Even though at that time he told me that we will never get back together etc. After following everything you said, I did it. I lost hope SO MANY times and I kept on questioning whether this would actually work, but I chose to believe in you and the no contact rule and here I am now. I am so thankful that I found your channel. I remember watching your videos literally EVERYDAY after my breakup, It's so hard and painful to do the no contact thing and each time I almost break the no contact I always go back to watch your videos. I remember scrolling through the comments on each videos just to read people's success stories, and I never thought I would write my own on your comment section one day. I did all the things you said and it helped me a lot, I learned patience and so many other things. You were right about so many things. You are truly a gift from God and I just can't thank you enough. Thank you so much Coach, God bless you. I love you. <3

[kenf.]

1. Break up was difficult, you made a difficulty at break up.
2. Dumper thought about break up for a long long time.
3. Dumper thought you are mad at him/her, and you don't want to take dumper back.
4. Dumper has a rebound relationship.
5. Dumper's friends or family trying to keep the dumper to stay in break up situation.

[kermitTheFrog]

if my ex has a rebound, i'm done!

[matthewwalz]

You have no idea how much you are helping me right now....everyone in here is a complete stranger, but we are all feeling the exact same hurt and anxiety. It's good to know I am not alone.

[kekkic]

At first I was angry and vengeful at the way it was done, but now almost 8 months later and after a lot of self reflection, I realize I was handed the gift of not having to spend my life with a selfish, narcissistic, useless human being with no goals and no empathy. Therefore, I am happy now and forgot what his face looks like. I wonder, why would one want to get back together with someone. It's over and it's for the best. Be happy all. Also, remember that Time is your friend. I think we all have a self preservation trigger wired into our brains that helps us heal and forget.

[mamziemay]

I didn't pester him, plead, chase, beg. I gave him the break-up. Hell will freeze over before I would ever contact him.

[wilsonaparra]

+100 days of NC.
Confidence came back, made new friends, things are brighter than even a couple of months before the break up. Starting to think I don't want her back after a 4 years relationship. So, it's working.

[bosslady]

During the no contact I have actually healed to the point I’m ok without them when at the beginning I thought I would die without them..Hey time will heal you you will be ok👋🏻

[chandlerrutan]

Been quiet 6months ex and the guy she left with broke up. Now she is in my inbox everyday. She is working on the crap i told her was wrong. But she isn't doing it for me. She is doing it for her and him. Don't compete. I'll keep my distance but she is trying to friendzone me to comfort her. Not happening

[TanzaniteHayley]

I’m not in love with any of my ex’s nor do I want them back but I just love being here lol

[yangtzeling]

“ Hope can be incredibly destructive when your heart is broken. “ Guy Winch.