What Makes An Ex Change Their Mind About Me and the Relationship?

[leslypierre]

SUCCESS STORY HERE!! My girlfriend and I got back together after 7 months. I started watching Coach Lee's videos a week later. I followed his advice, and worked with Coach Rex on his staff. I did not beg or chase. I gave her the breakup. She would reach out every month or so. I never ignored her, nor was I cold. But I made sure to never be the one whom initiated contact. She even got into a rebound. I did not show her that this affected me. I kept working on me. She left the rebound, and came back to me. I have been really slow to take her back. She's going to have to earn my trust again. I've also gotten used to being alone during our separation. Listen to coach lee. His program works

[MrMaRzZ]

If they come back, they saw your value. If they don't, they never did. Win/Win either way!

[poedottaviano]

My humble advise to everyone here:
I know it's hurting you on New Year's to not reach out and contact an ex.
However attraction only grows when you match you're ex's distance. If he/she wants space.give them space.
If they draw closer and send a text..match it back, but only at that same pace.
Let them come to you, as if they really want to start over, they will eventually reach out.
(Btw: I'm going through it myself, but I don't want to push her quicker then she may need. And I'm not needy anymore and I just go with the flow now. And I say that after last New Year's we had an electric time together on both days. Good luck 👍)

[roachofdoom]

I really liked the opening to this one. That your ex has to change for you to get back together with them. I’ve had a counselor for the past year who has also helped me through the process of this break, and what she helped me see is that it’s not wrong for me to have felt anything that I did after what happened, but more importantly that I didn’t owe my ex anything. So often when someone is broken up with they analyze themselves to see what they had done wrong and where they need change. Too little attention is ever drawn to the dumper. Reminder for everyone: you are NOT obligated to fix what they broke. just because you may have made some mistakes doesn’t mean they had no choice but to break up with you. And just because they did the breaking doesn’t mean they were automatically right to do so.

[ashlieelizabeth]

Coach Lee is an angel! My boyfriend and I broke up back in May 2020 and we ended up getting back together around the fall of that year. I still come on here and watch Coach Lee for the confidence and how important no contact is---I watch him now to help deal with staying in no contact with toxic family members. Anyways back to my boyfriend and I, it took time, even when we got back together, but our relationship is healthier and more loving than ever! Our love has been going strong since 💪

I wish everyone a success story. As for no contact, I did it and it helped me not only get him back but raised my confidence. Please stay strong and trust the process. I promise you all can do it!!! You are strong enough to do no contact!! Listen to Coach Lee 🩷

[Thessaloniaworsley]

I watched your videos during my break up in 2020 and I always meant to come back and tell you how we are back together, better than we’ve been . It was a long journey, you & some other YouTube videos were a great guide & comfort in those heartbroken days. Thank you

[Jessica-ymfy]

I can't believe I actually spent money and bought your breakup kit. I never thought I would do such a thing, as I am usually an "oh well, moving on" type of gal. But this one hurts. I have had your kit now for 48 hours, and I have listened to it three times. It's like therapy. It has really helped me to just take a moment and breathe. The tears are drying up a bit. Thank you for your videos and wisdom.

Warmly,
A Hurting Heart

[paaruxd]

I don't need my ex back anymore i watch your videos Just to feel relaxed 🤗

[RealCoachLee]

I'm looking forward to having this video live for you guys and girls!

[dr_candiru]

Thanks Coach Lee for all your help. I listened and eventually moved on after 8 months. Reshaped myself and I’m better off. I stayed away and moved on much faster than I thought I would. Take care.

[wenchang]

Coach Lee, the NC rule worked! My ex was really cold and cruel to me at the end of our breakup. When he finally said “we’re done”, I simply said “okay” and turned my back. Went NC and radio silenced for 14 days until he finally reached out with completely different attitude and asked if I could give him another chance. I took your advice to tell him to take it slow. We’re having dinner tomorrow!! Thank you so much! We have broken up before and the NC rule also worked last time as well (he only last 2 days back then), this time, the breakup was terrible so I thought we had no chance but wow NC really brought him closer to me and he admitted to going through all the stages this whole time!! Thanks Coach!

[davidchristian]

Coach, I just wanted to say thank you. Your time, effort, experience and the manner in which you deliver the wisdom and insights you’ve acquired is so very much appreciated. You are imo head and shoulders above other commentators on this subject that I have seen. Very grounded, very real, not into promoting false hope, basically just everything. Thank you, very much! Please provide a link so that I can send you a tip. I want to contribute to your continued efforts and tangibly say thank you.

To those of you visiting Coach for the first time, watch and listen to his videos. As often as you need. It will help soothe your broken heart and mind and give you strength. Please do as he says. Stay the course. All will be well.

[davidchristian]

Well friends, it finally happened. She reached out. After almost 6 months. It was a weird breakup. I was actually the one who said I would back up and leave her be. But only after over 6 months of being pushed away. There were a couple texts very early on from her and then silence. It was very difficult to remain silent through her birthday and the holidays. But I did not give in. And honestly, after not hearing from her through the holidays, I was even more convinced that I would never hear from her ever again. And then last night, out of thin air, I heard that all too familiar text tone. Listen friends, heed Coach Lee. For your sake, not the sake of whatever relationship brought you to him. I know that may be hard to digest but do it anyway. Stay the course!

[itchman]

I want to say Coach Lee thank you!
I watch and am practicing this how ever my ex has lost me.
Its been I think three years since the break up. Realized I have someone right I front of me thats caring and loving
Keep up the good work!

[joyhaave]

Going on to 5 months in NC thanks to Coach Lee. This channel has prevented me from crawling back to an immature guy who took me for granted. I hope he is remorseful by now; I’d sure welcome an apology for closure. Happy New Year indeed!

[sloanmagnum]

I have a success story except mine is that I never got back together with my ex of 11 years. In the past 6 months, I've learned that it wasnt me. It's not my loss and I'll never ever go crawling back to her. The time I've spent in no contact allowed me to really think about things. I had time to think about all the problems we had and we just were not compatible in any way. Total mismatch. She treated me poorly, gas lit me all the time, blamed me for things I didnt do, made me feel bad for being normal when she was the abnormal person. Anyways, my success is that I've become indifferent towards her. In the beginning I would have anything to get her back but now I dont want anything to do with her. The disrespect I put up with was unfair to me. Never again. The time apart made me realize shes a very toxic person with deep roots trauma and she lives off drama. I cant be apart of any more. Whether she stays single or dates, I feel sorry for who ever she ends up with because she'll make his life hell too or they'll be mutually miserable. Either way I dont care. I knew it was the right decision to put her in the past because I started feeling happy again, I'm content with life and people around noticed I looked and acted happier and was friendlier and more enjoyable than I've ever been. This tells me I was not in a good relationship. I'm taking time to be alone and enjoy the peace and quiet of solitude. I'll start entertaining new women when I feel I'm ready for a romantic companion again and this time I'll choose someone who compatible with me, someone who feels, thinks and acts like I do. I'll meet that person in due time. Until then I'm happy just being me. That's my success story.

[jman]

Thank you Coach Lee for making these videos. They have helped me immensely. It’s been about a month of no contact on my end, hoping she comes to her senses soon. Fingers crossed 😅

[Duncanexgirlfriend]

I get more satisfaction ignoring my ex than ever get back with him, He is left knowing that I rejected him again and again again after he dumped me. Karma is a biatch 😉

[tearthangel]

I don’t choose to live with a compulsive liar and betrayer in my life

[Zeb]

Success story here…
She dumped me on August 6th, 2022. She even said there is nothing I will do or say that will make her to change her mind. I went NC for three months. Texted her in October to wish happy birthday but mentioned that she doesn’t have to reply if she doesn’t feel so. Surprisingly, she blew my phone with text call etc… Since then she had been the one initiating any conversation. She told me during Christmas 2022 that she is ready to be back. I followed coach Lee advices and it went well. We are definitely back together. No contact works guys