How To Save A Relationship That's Falling Apart

You may find yourself lost and confused after your relationship has hit a challenging time.

Will the two of you breakup and part ways forever? Have you already broken up? What are the things you need to do to save your relationship?

We're going to be discussing this in this video.

[alaalfa]

Practice daydreaming.

You probably dont understand what I mean, but as I said dreaming is actually a form of planning,
it sets the rules of what you like and enjoy without judging, commenting, and putting you in a position of doubt.

Kids are dreaming and imagining things therefore it's easier for them to do hobbies.
Probably it's possible in relationships if the daydreaming is also combined with some intuition.
That you amy say a negative opinion or refuse things, but because you are in a certain frequency of thinking, it will not make you feel borderline or bipolar or moody or whatever.
You will not see things so negatively, therefore people will like your energy and want to be inspired by your mindset.

I guess conscious daydreaming takes 20 minutes a day, but after that subconsciously it may continue 24 hours.
While judgment and negativity is much longer consciously or subconsciously. It makes you feel like you're stuck etc. So its better to disconnect with old personality that isnt serving you, because many emotions are not yours, they are borrowed from television or media etc. because the parallel world is crazy, its about short-term happin but the real world of our nature isnt, its very intuitive.

[charlesdemar]

My ex fiancee of 9 yrs, 3 kids tells me shes completely done..moved on..zero feelings at all she says yet im not sure...shes super cool, been staying here alot though i kicked her out, our kids stay here mainly cause its winter and i have a house..she has a dude already she kindve hides..but they talk hrs on end..rebound? I think she left me for him? But no concrete proof she says just friends but maybe more someday.i feel she emotionally cheated on me w him cause i didnt show her intimacy..ive tried everything for our kids and i love her, how do i reattract her? She says she doesnt want to try to fix anything.she doesnt want me, hopeless?

[alaalfa]

If both are independent it's the best option.

so they may enjoy only some sweet activities like travel, camping, hiking, and sports.
without judging the partner's lifestyle, or haircut, or why he cooks the food this way, or why she is not wearing a skirt more often, or other "lifestyle" choices that seem not very important, for a relationship, or why she has money in this bank, not this bank or other unimportant conversations, that is really nobody's business but yours.

because 150 years ago there was only one lifestyle, or two, so people seemed happier in some way,
but now there are multiple lifestyles, hundreds of lifestyles, and hundreds of mindsets, created by marketing, by millionaires, celebrities, corporations,
or by TV and media, sellers, supermarkets, and companies,
so it forces people to be judgmental and comment on everything instead of living in peace and joy.
If you have too many options, it forces your brain to be rarely happy, or satisfied.

[AdamHattemer]

I was begging and pleading with my ex a lot and then we had a fight and then we cut contact for now and it’s been almost two months of not contacting each other because she blocked me. I tried reaching out because I want to apologize and get on the same team again. I want to talk to her again do you have any help for me @Clay Andrews ? It would be much appreciated