If a narcissist is making your life a living hell, this video is for you. 💜

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[kimberlys.]

Know your truth. Don’t believe their version of you.

[gionagrace]

you said it all!! RUN do not walk!! I remember the first time it happened, I truly THOUGHT he lost his mind! It got way worse over time! HUGE RED FLAG!!

[l.ameenaa]

Just stay quiet and walk away bc at least God knows best

[sula]

Now you said it. I thought I d never survive the narc I thought it was all me. Only for your narp I d not be alive now . You saved my life sanity when I thought I was not gonna live a day longer. I actually have my Soul and spirit coming back again I feel my heart is healing . He has found someone else at the flash of a light. She's so happy and lovely I feel sorry for what she s about to go through but thank god its no longer me. I m free and can live and breathe again. Suddenly I have a life again and a future to look forward to a whole new world and opportunities.. its good to be alive ...thank you Melanie for saving so many people with your work and course nothing else was gonna do it for me only Narp ❤

[NativeEastLondoner]

Well said. It's like trying to nail jelly to the wall. That's the term my husband used when he confronted my narcissistic sister about a lie she told. She's not in our lives anymore because she didn't take responsibility for anything she did.

[peterknyk]

True! That's what they do to us....twist us, turn us upside down, make our lives a living helll,
But we are rising from, like the Phoenix, the ashes! ❤️🦋❤️

[lauralycans]

👏🏼 Melanie! Thank you. Love your shorts, too!

[winniewinkles]

Melanie you look so lovely in these helpful shorts. Thank you so much <3

[MarigoldSundays]

You’d have better luck talking to a brick wall

[kmaley]

true!!! Ugh!!!! Thank you for sharing!

[dougstobaugh]

Thanks for explaining exactly what was going on in my past when I use to be Married to a Covert Narcissist lots of Narcissistic drama problems and financial issues and the Divorce took 6years and this is 12years later I am still dealing with some of the after math of the long drawn out ordeal I am starting over again with no friends or family and I am retired and independent I am taking my time and staying focused on future goals. GOD-BLESS.

[ShakirShakir-oudp]

thank God for never taking his hands off of me....sigh thank you for bringing me out!!!🙌🙏

[AuntLALA]

@door of perception 😢thanks for sending this ❤

[Simplyb-u]

I finally got to the place where I had to accept the fact that our narcissists never did like us and they'll never forgive us for something that we don't even know and they're not who we think they are it is like a sheep taking its mask off
To the wolf that's fangs are hungry for more narcissistic supply dripping with blood
They must think you will stay in the darkness forever

[detjaggillar]

I know that! My ex-narc specialty and we where together for 12 year but I have left him since 13 month ago.

I have discovered that my older sister in law has some disorders too - it is NOT only jealousy between/from her about me it is more issues and behavior from her and specially to me but even to other people. She has act very crazy and mean to everybody since 50 years until nowadays (I'm 62 and she is 65 year) but I did not understand "What is wrong with her?". She behaves so super nice to strangers but against me like Devil and always evil. She start with kindness for a few minutes and then ... BANG me into the wall - like a football.

Since I have study and learnt about narcissism (cause of my ex-narc I did that - to understand what our relationship "was"!) those few 1-2 years I can tell You that she is like a "classic covert narc" - just like my ex-narc. That is my hurtful discover.

It's sad and even scary to understand that as a adult that she is like that - most sad I think and hurtfully. Last week I get enough of my sister doing just like You @Melanie Tonia Evans describe - for an example: A smaller shitty thing she turned it into (as usual) a BIG DRAMA and spot on to me and accusing me with things who has happen about 30 years back in our lives and it doesn't even has to the thing to do what we where talking about. Many nasty things she said and going on and on etc... It ended up that she sad to me "To fuck of" and I was totally chocked.

I've noticed that she has been going on like that before in the years but she has the last 10 years being more and more hatred to me - for nothing. I have tried and tried to be kind to her but for now it doesn't matter what I do or say to her: she smashing me like a football to the wall every time. No matter what!

So for now: I have get out from a toxic relationship with my ex-narc but I have to handled my own sister in law too. It's hurt but necessary I understand. That last conversation ended up as I told You that she told me "To fuck of" so I have blocked her at Messenger - but not in Facebook, yet. Just to get a little bit of distance from her to stop her from harass me with her shit talking which she always do and did.

What I have told You now has been going for about 50 years and she has done a lot of things and she even try to bee like an "extra mother" too my 2 grown up boys - trying to smear me and be "extra kind to them" even if she has 4 grown up kids by her own. It's disgusting and hurtful too see what she do to me in front of my own kids. Anyway has my own kids discovered for now that kind of "her kindness" from her to my kids is not healthy - but it takes my boys years to see it and nowadays they understand that my sisters behavior is not goodness. It is something else she do and it is to make me feel small to my own kids. It's awful behavior to me in front of them.

Well - I think I have to have her out of my life but I do "the grey rock to her" to survive for the moment until I really have to say Godby to her IRL.

[shebasan]

Only pertinent advice is to RUN! Don’t walk…get the hell as far away as possible, go no contact and never look back

[Elaine-ucun]

Exactly I could never find the way to explain what my ex was doing. It was this exactly.

[skymeadow]

Hah yeah this is what I've noticed, I'm a Dementia caregiver and the similarities are striking, trying to communicate

[abriannacobarris]

I caught on to all her tactics and I’m now moving on . Will e going to the army in 10 days ship out date is 7/5/23.

[anweshakar]

Literally the same thing is happening as I watch this... 😔