What ROLE is the narcissist playing in your life?

You have to figure out What ROLE is the narcissist playing in your life in order to heal and grow. Figuring out what role they have in your life can help you disconnect from them and heal for good.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[Blessed]

Their role in my life was to open my eyes to the fact that I was too trusting . . . had no boundaries . . .. and needed to stop being a people pleaser . . . Now I can move on . . . When you know better, you do better . . .

[jenniferclemente]

I was brought up by two narcissists which led me to move out at 14 and Mary the first of three narcissistic abusive toxic men or grown up boys I'll say. I realize now what role they play in my life after being divorced from the third one for about 3 years now and just landed back in a situation ship with someone who is exactly 1, 000 a combination of both my parents and I'm talking freaky similarities my attachment style is anxious and I have severe PTSD so bad that I'm on disability for it. The role these people play in your life is of your toxic parents or caregivers that failed you. Whatever wound we end up with from childhood make us attract people that are similar or treat us similarly to what we're used to growing up with . I'm learning that the lesson is to not give them such a high position in your life and realize that you need to get your voice and don't be scared of them anymore. The feeling you get in your body and you all know exactly what I'm talking about is your subconscious telling you get the hell away or stop and ask yourself what exactly is going on right this second why am I in this spot and why am I letting this person treat me like this if I hated it growing up now I have the choice and it will be hard because of the trauma Bond But realize that the trauma bond is like cigarettes or like strawberry flavored Kool-Aid made with bleach and you don't know it till you drink it I'm learning to not chase anyone who wants to treat me like crap. Love y'all be safe much love from Baltimore and you can do it cuz I tell you from experience if I can do it you can

[ginagina]

Love this Lee. This perspective is paramount 🫶🏼 most councilors or therapists can’t even touch this.

[deborahmotley]

My toxic partner sent me a youtbe video titled "wives are their own worst enemy" smh

[IsabellaPiesch]

I learned to trust myself and simple to do my stuff alone. I was too dependent and just didn´t want to be alone. I searched for love when I was young (I never wanted to be alone). Now I don´t care anymore about that. I just love and respect myself and focus on the things in life. What I enjoy the most is the peace I have now.

[margaretsmith]

Lee! Good morning 2 years NC still in fight and flight mode in therapy nerves still shot! 43 years of hell!😢💪💪

[buggijai]

It's the fact that they're playing with their own lives playing with people!

[TerriSmith-nvmj]

Thank you ❤ so much, I needed this in my healing journey. The person in question was so incredibly horrible to me but yet I still wanted him in my life, I made excuses for myself and him on why he did what he did and somehow in my twisted thinking all the excuses made my feelings valid... The Lord brought me through my healing journey to a simple question "what role are they playing in your life" That hit me like a ton of bricks. Like this is the clarity I needed to really close this chapter... Now, I know and it all makes sense... I was instrumental in him getting 3 years in prison with no time for good behavior... i am not a victim i am a WARRIOR....Blessings to you and everyone going through it, PEACE 🙏...

[csnevergiveup]

Great video, on the mark today unfortunately. Really appreciate your work!

[angelac.]

I have given up on my mother but I do hope that my son will get some therapy. I love my son and I do not want to lose him.

[melodywoolf]

38 yr relationship. No pieces to pick up. They have been stomped into the ground for so long. I can’t pick up the pieces. So I guess I can’t win

[sonjo]

Daughter in law. Mother to my granddaughter. I walk on glass to not act, do, or say anything or she holds out contact. I live on their property. So I’m in close contact. 7 yrs gaslighting manipulating shaming. It’s so crazy and hopefully I can stand back and dis connect from her. Only sad too because I will lose contact with granddaughter that I’ve had so close connection with for almost eight years😢

[keallaricchardson]

I was love bomb, and didn't know nothing about narcissist.

[pamelapinto]

Mr. Hammock. Do you ever work with someone who has to stay, for whatever reason, in a marital relationship with a narc?

[michellebusch]

Why is it so hard to fire them. I don’t get it.

[yuktiarora]

Once narc cheated on you .. can be taken back ever .. like before .. reply @leehammock .. wanting things like before with him .. is it never possible ..