How Narcissists Turn Your Mind Against You

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[cynthiathomas]

It is so difficult to remember their garbage...Sometimes get amnesia within minutes. Totally fail to register how unacceptably abusive their behavior is.

[voulafisentzidis]

It's called survival. If you didn't forget, you'd go crazy.

[penelopedyck]

This is so true. I started doubting my reality of things that he did. I started gaslighting myself.

[joyelvenezia]

I tell people all the time mental illness is contagious.
Sharing feeling with someone who is ill, is equivalent to sharing germs.

[faithfullove]

This is why it’s so important to write things down somewhere, keep yourself a journal, with dates and instances where your boundaries are crossed. Eventually that journal becomes a book. One day you’ll eventually get fed up.

[guidinglightorphansinc.]

Am counting 15 days to my FREEDOM, please pray for me so i don't look back. I must fly over 9, 000 miles away for me to liberate myself. It feels scary but its the only choice I have after 19 years

[locaitaliana]

Once you are able to control your psychosis, you will become a warrior, and you will be unstoppable.

[veraaj]

After 4 years of it, I was disgusted with the person I had turned into.

[martinmartin]

It is like dealing with two separate personalities, and it renders you unable to distinguish wether they are meaning well or not.
It is like crazy making.

[EvaRodriguez-dy]

Yes, so true. It's like I blamed myself for even having suspicious thoughts about them.😮

[martynbonanza]

Soooo true - there are literally hundreds of incidents I accepted, put up with and 'buried' which have eventually resurfaced in my consciousness and when they do I can't quite believe I allowed myself to be subjected to it.

[ayoung]

I am dealing with this currently and has been for the past 19 years. I can relate to this 100%. I feel so alone and I have many health problems from this. He says one thing, but then his actions shows completely opposite. He doesn’t care . Never did.

[lamar]

Wow, my experience with the narcissist I was with and have since gone NO CONTACT with, my goodness, oh, how my life has changed for the better! At that time, I couldn't even develop the words for how bad I felt, how desensitized I became, and then somewhere I didn't recognize myself; three years was ENOUGH. I'm so DAMN HAPPY I WALKED It seems I've got my sense and sensibility back, my wits back. I certainly transformed during and after that experience. It has felt like I've left a version of who I was behind as well, which I grieved, along with grieving the dismissal of the narc (because it is a loss period), so it was double-timed. I'm just glad to be here in the sun, etc.

To anyone with that life-threatening experience/dynamic with a narcissist, please leave cautiously. When you can run for the hills, like an olympian, do it, I repeat, DO IT!

[ShaareiZoharDaas]

All of it can be cured by NOT EVER treating them like normal people

[heartwisdomlove]

Thank you Richard.
One of my teachers explained that when someone does something cruel to us that we can go into shock, and that’s what creates the separation initially causing the delusion

[cutiepie-htyr]

Spot on … I am literally dealing with this right now … despite of no contact from last 3 months I am constantly debating in my head weather he was good guy or a bad guy. He fucked me up big time.

[ariellefletcher]

Omg I hate those moments. Gut wrenching, heart aching, difficult moments to breathe

[kalencorrie]

Thank you for this video. This is what I needed to hear. My kids cannot grasp what I went through at the end of mal narc torture. I wished to end it rather than be near him as he was sadistically destroying me. I was going insane. So glad I was able to collect enough of myself to run.

[Gracielaflores-gfl]

Don't ever forget the bad things. It's never ok fight for yourself ❤

[bobhoward]

Not engaging with narcissist will allow you to be above the drama. If you start to lose your patience just take a walk and find it 😉