indifference is seductive | attracting a specific person

Learn how to attract a specific person using the lost art of indifference. In this video, we'll explore the concepts of detachment and how to use it to attract the person of your dreams.

What you learn in this video will help you to become more immune to negative emotions and more in control of your thoughts and actions. By realizing this pitfall of manifesting a specific person (as an anxiously attached type) you'll learn how to attract a specific person using indifference, you'll become more confident and secure in your relationships.

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chapters:
0:00 - opening thoughts
3:47 - skillshare
5:09 - anxious attached & SP's
9:01 - a cure for wellness
10:11 - storytime
14:15 - summation
15:39 - outro

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•Favourite Divination Card Decks•

𝑩𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝑰𝒏𝒒𝒖𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒔:

[auntjemima]

“He was everything I ever wanted. He had a job. And a heart beat” IM DEAD

[thedivinelife]

There was a SP that I wanted so bad, I think I did every ritual to get him. There were times that I drew him to me, but eventually, I never got him fully how I wanted him. I’m glad I didn’t because he ended up getting engaged, married, and having a kid, now mind you I was devastated when I heard he was engaged. Long story short, his marriage only lasted a year after he put that woman thru hell. I ran into him again and he is still the same mentally ill, selfish person I wanted to take care of so bad. I dodged a bullet and realize now that my self-concept is high that this person would not even be a consideration. Please realize that God is protecting you when he doesn’t give you what you want.

[aluciana]

I've had multiple SPs in my past that I've been really obsessed with. Eventually, I grew out of all of them. With some, I feel like I have dodged a bullet. The thought that I could be in a relationship with any of them now is terrifying.
I found the Law of assumption because I desperately wanted to be with an SP. At the time my self-concept was very low. The more I learned and evolved as a person though, the more my self-respect grew, and the less I liked and wanted him anymore.
I have come to realise that it was not the SP that was important, it was the personal and spiritual growth I achieved while trying to manifest him.

[Cecred]

“Having Options Puts you in a Position of Power”

[LaytonObserves]

The thought of being the manifested SP for someone else so cute

[EzraSnow]

As a guy who's recently got into a situation-ship with this guy I met last summer, this is exactly what I needed to hear. I didn't fully lose myself yet, but I could feel myself slipping away. Been working on just focusing on me and not letting him run my world, and this is definitely the extra push I needed, thank you as always Maleeka <3

[Meglemon]

I used to sacrifice myself to adjust to his needs, but finally he still broke up with me. I now realize that I should love myself first. He actually didn’t care about me at all.

[MyaLea-tp]

I am obsessed with this guy in high school right now. pretty much a crush but I was told to get over him multiple times because we don't talk as much and I don't know enough about him. I am in the middle right now thinking either my gut is telling me that he is "the one" or if I'm lying to myself just because I may be attached unexpectedly. I just want to have the opportunity of getting to know him better. As a friend or as an acquaintance before I deep dive into a relationship with him(if I could say it like that LMAO). Like I have family background of elder women having bad boyfriends and I just want to be cautious. I don't want to jump straight into flirting with him and stuff like that. I no longer want to chase after him and try and have a conversation with him either. I just want opportunities to arise for us to come together and if it is really right, create a bond. Maybe let him approach me first this time because I have put in all the work, it is his turn. Btw love your vids

[EverydayDazzler]

I have let someone else take my unique sparkle away by trying to conform to their timeline & needs. I woke up this morning and just felt so tired from neglecting my own needs. You always lift my day with your voice and words and your timing was spot on, thank you ever so much. Sending love and light to all ✨✨✨

[DracarysSnow]

"He had a job...and a hearbeat". That took me right out!

[thegod]

Im a simple man, i saw seduction i clicked.

[arihotherichestslayer]

I tried manifesting one specific guy from tiktok. I followed him en a few days after, he followed me back. I knew this was a good chance of creating a friendship. So I appreciated him for following me en he replied which melted my heart. Everything was cool until I realized I needed to put in alot of effort to keep our friendship goin. Truly he liked me but his character is not what I had envisioned . Manifesting a specific person whose personality you do not know is very draining and to a large extent it’s not worth it. Like Maleeka has said, just keep your options open and let you attract the right person for you. Not you obsessing over one particular person.

[amdiary]

I usually say “I don’t need an angel, I am my own angel.” In response to my ex who stated that I must needed someone else than me to fulfill myself.
He wanted to basically be a part of my identity, and he didn’t accepted it when I told him that I was fine by myself, that he was my choice, not my need. It opened my eyes because in fact, anyone who is healthy minded would be touched by such words. But he wasn’t. I think this sentence is powerful, we all can be our own angels, of course it’s nice to have someone by your side, but remember, no one can fill your entire heart, you have to do it by yourself first, the only thing you lack is yourself, your own love. ❤

[MissYOUna]

✨ heal or lose yourself, the choice is yourself.

[ij]

“He had a heartbeat and a job” sent 😂. Amazing video needed this 🙌🏻

[clbnresident]

This is absolutely true! I've been no-contact with this person for 2 months, been manifesting that he misses me and that he can't find anyone better or at least the same level as me during NC, and he broke it yesterday. But that's just it 🤷‍♀️ I didn't feel like I wanted him back; I just wanted him to miss me 😭 He's still the same reasons why I liked him and why I disliked him at the same time. Bottomline: I still deserve better. And the better option is me 💅

[psyckknows]

If you just trust your intuition with everything, there's no action needed. Your ego falls into your old ways of attachment style, and then you'll want to take action in the 3D. Even in the 4D and beyond (your mind & energy), there's no need to take action. Your SP will come to you because YOU EXIST. You don't need flash or glamour, you don't need fixing! If you someone who loves hard, then you're not clingy or attached. You just need to be with someone that loves as hard as you. Don't 👏🏾accept 👏🏾 anything 👏🏾 less!! Tell your ego to shut up and do you!

-Love

[deepamehta]

lol the Scorpio door slam is real. From one Scorpio to another, good for you! You are the universe - whether he wants to be a planet or a star he’s still just a speck in your world. ❤

[leakcgg]

The 🔫 handle mug is crazy I’m feelin it! Lol dope video as well 👍🏾

[glamorouswallflower]

I don’t care for videos aimed to attract anything outside of myself but felt I needed to click this and boom…the focus on going within and centering you is exactly why I enjoy this channel🖤 beautiful reminder💫