How to have EFFORTLESS RELATIONSHIPS with women: the advice you wish your dad gave you

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People say that relationships take work, but this is only if you choose poorly. Select the right partner and sex, love, and affection will flow to you as effortlessly as water moves downhill. The key to this process is understanding the importance of being a woman's perceived best option. Almost all the issues that men are subject to experiencing in their relationships are rooted in their woman's belief that she could do better. I'll discuss more in this episode.

Orion is a licensed psychologist in the state of California.
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#relationship #dating #attraction

[psychacks]

People say that relationships take work, but this is only if you choose poorly. Select the right partner and sex, love, and affection will flow to you as effortlessly as water moves downhill. The key to this process is understanding the importance of being a woman's perceived best option. Almost all the issues that men are subject to experiencing in their relationships are rooted in their woman's belief that she could do better. I'll discuss more in this episode.

Orion is a licensed psychologist in the state of California.
Podcast available of Spotify, Instagram, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts and others.
See the "About" tab for more information on donations and consultations.

#relationship #dating #attraction

[simplifiedlife]

Be yourself. Have interests, never beg for anything, don't hover like a puppy dog. Take hikes, bike rides, read, build things etc. ALONE. Not all the time, just enough to show her you're a self-contained man, and while you cherish your relationship with her, she isn't all you have. Let her miss you, let her pursue you. And if she cheats or leaves you, do a 180 and never look back.

[cizzymac]

"Just be her best option." Proving that is the complete opposite of effortless. This is a 24/7 job. You slip up once and you could potentially lose everything you've spent years building. Hypergamy doesn't care about how much effort you put into the relationship.

[randomcat]

"... taking on a second unpayed job..."
OMG, that's exactly how I felt in my last relationship. She's a great women, but after 6 years, I felt more at home in the office and more at work, when home.

[hoboi]

It doesn’t matter what you provide, what high value you show, and what trips you take care on. If her social media is advertising her as single in all her pics. You are NOT her main choice

[notusedexer]

Some women will always eventually want more. No matter what they have, eventually they want more.

[esworld]

This is assuming she’s logical enough to understand what she has and mature enough to not jeopardize it..thanks for the video we need more content like this 🙌🏾

[jaythenihilist]

How I have effortless relationships with women. I *never* go after women who give me the fuzzy wuzzies. I don't date women that I like so much that I couldn't withstand losing her on any moments notice. I treat women with fairness and kindness. But I also make it clear through my actions that if she ever wants to walk away from the relationships, then I won't try to stop her. Oddly enough, women are much more attracted to men with this mindset than they are men who are madly in love with them.

[adrees]

100% true. I’ve experienced this with several women/gf’s as I have been dating this past decade to find the woman I want to make my wife. It is a night and day difference between a woman who sees you as her best option and a woman who is not sure or thinks she wants more. And it is super easy to tell because everything becomes easy and effortless and you can tell she likes you in a very cute and girly way. And it is really a numbers game. The majority of women will not feel like that for most men but the man she does feel that way about will get all of her best behavior. So it’s our job as men to be the best person we want to become and ask out enough women to bump into the ones who so happen to be attracted to exactly who we are. Luck and effort.

[galactictumbleweed]

This applies for mentally stable women.
A narcissist will not temper themselves, even if they see us as their best option.

[ModernDatingMastery]

*The idea of being your authentic self instead of trying to impress is spot on. Relationships thrive on honesty and vulnerability, and this video nails that point!*

[dtuitt]

I think that the only way a relationship can be "effortless" is if both people involved, believe they are with their "best perceived option". If one of them believes that they can do better, it will show in the way they treat the other.

[adam-newbloom]

I think this is 90% good advice as long as you have a woman who has perspective. There are many entitled women out there who don't understand a good thing when it's right in their face.

[Richard_AKL]

Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive. :)

[kwatt-engineer]

My wife and I married each other 23 years ago. We turned that ceremony into a great marriage. We play together, work together and find our talents to be complementary. We each have our own pursuits, I build things. She likes gardening and bridge. You are correct, for us being with each other is as natural as breathing.

[samboni]

This was true for me. My wife treated me like an employee. She was never concerned about my happiness. I quit my corporate job for entrepreneurship and then covid made business tough. Her friends husband's had more secure pensions. I understood why she acted that way, but who wants to work for a thankless boss or wife.

[Kenny-Ross]

As me and a buddy of mine were on our adventure through South America we had many long discussions about dating, approaching women, what women want and are attracted to, etc. I said during one conversation. You have to see yourself as the high value product. I know who I am what I have to offer you. If she can't see that or doesn't want it it's her loss. And I can continue to move forward with my life until I meet that woman who recognizes she has met her best option.

[jons]

On other channels I've heard it referred to as strong burning desire. If you're her best option she will have that strong burning desire, and she will go to the moon and back for you. If she doesn't have that burning desire then she's settling, and as a man you'll always be chasing her. Eventually she'll monkey branch to someone she feels is her best option, and it wasn't you. Like you said, that's where vetting properly comes into play.

[elliottrau]

It’s easy to make a woman happy. It’s impossible to keep her happy!

[Russ-nftv]

I found a great woman after ending a 20 year marriage, and it has been amazing. She would literally do anything for me, yet I ask almost nothing of her. It seems so strange to be loved and wanted. It is a bit hard at times to always take the lead and make decisions, but I'd rather that than have my ex wife back 😂 Life is wonderful