Why Being Mysterious is So Attractive to Women | The Mystery Man

When you first meet a woman, it’s tempting to open up and tell her as much about yourself as possible.

And while you might initially be rewarded for your candid disclosure, you’ll inevitably be punished later on for having given away too much information too soon.

Instead, you must use the elements of mystery and challenge to your advantage. If you spend countless hours sending messages back and forth, texting and calling a woman, talking about your life, your dreams, and what you had for dinner, you inadvertently kill attraction by revealing too much information.

When you over-communicate, you not only risk revealing too much about yourself, you risk killing attraction by being too available and responsive.

Regardless of whether or not you want to see a woman, it’s always advisable to keep the calls and messages to a minimum. That doesn’t mean you must act cold and distant, but it does mean you should be aware of the dangers of over communication.

In the early stages of a relationship, it’s important not to move too fast. There’s a tendency to worry that if you don’t get a woman out on a date as fast as possible, she’ll forget about you and move on. You must have enough confidence in yourself to know that a woman won’t be able to forget about you that easily.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Trust yourself and trust the process,

Chris Canwell

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[bahaatamer]

Long story short: talk less to her and add more value to your life in her eyes! 🙂

[patientmental]

This is probably the most valuable advice a man can take in! Learn from it young men!

[kshitijchopradance]

women want drama in their life, it's just their drama they want, not urs !
Don't reveal much, be a good listener, true story !

[daniarjumanazar]

Ken still lives in me but hold tight with his mouth shut. Life teaches.

[adharshtaka]

Man ... you nailed it! That's why being distant from your loved one too makes love grow leaving her wondering how you are actually doing... Being mysterious is the key.. 🤔

[Avalon]

Ken messed up when he kept saying that he was looking forward to seeing her.

[cookiesarelikecream]

I also find it so attractive when guys are content in their own energy and just focused on themselves. Pursuing self development through education (could be school or a challenging career), going to the gym, having hobbies they’re passionate about. Rather than chasing after girls and being desperate for validation. The mystery is attractive but it also makes me value a guy’s time more.

[JH-qyno]

Its fun trying this because its so easy. The trick is you have to genuinely not care what she thinks of you. Focus on what you think of her.

[phiilip]

Well, a girl broke up with a friend of mine. After some months she regrets it, takes contact with him, but also act a little mysterious trying to get my friend back into a relationship with her. But after a long “mysterious” period, my friend thought she seemed uninterested and selfish. So, he moved on and found another girl. He is married to that girl today 😊

[slrd_spiritual]

This entire video is pure GOLD!!

Thank you Chris

[davidtrov]

Thank you Chris! :)

I should've watched your videos along time ago... so I won't experienced too much broken hearts.

[Sacredearthling]

I realize that I'm "mysterious" because of my hyper vigilance. Moving around alot from foster homes has made me constantly worry about other people and how I appear and how to seem likeable so now I literally can't talk about myself because I haven't decided on what I should tell them to seem acceptable.

[HawaiianCrow]

You’re absolutely amazing. This is great great content, and it’s the truth. Thank you for posting this valuable content, it’s so entertaining and understanding.

[edgarfajardo]

Don't tell your weakness to any woman cause they will use that against you

[seargenthammer]

finally found on how to tranquilize my inner Ken.. thank you coach! Learned a lot from these and your Book! 💯

[vita-zmixsouthafrica]

Good analogy, makes a lot of sense, thank you Chris

[sudhanshudimri]

Hey chris, thanks for making videos . It really helps a lot

[VSpiro]

The last bartender part got me laughing out loud 😂... nice one Chris... I’m currently talking to this lady who’s an introvert like myself... so i get forced to do too much talking knowing very well that’s a no no... so now i try to get her to talk more abt herself...

[aubreyjeweltimlin]

I’ve recently started to appreciate the Phil’s, and it’s working

[VJNIKS]

Nice presentation you do man... Thanks. They are more explanatory than reading