Stop obsessing 😍 over someone with these 2 powerful techniques

[its_meenay]

we sometimes romanticise someone so much that we forget we dont know anything about them
(Edit:woah these are so many likes😭❤️)

[Divinly-]

The line you told :
“You actually grow your obsession by trying not to be obsessed “ is damn true …

[dwcushman]

I am a clinical outpatient therapist and I’m happy to say you are spot on about obsession. Absolutely excellent!!

[kaavyarajasekar]

1. Knowing them in and out, so that the spark is gone

2. Why am I obsessed with that person?
It's just because I wanted to live a life like them. So build myself, my appearance and my confidence

[shrekcringe]

I'm obsessed with this person because they give me attention

[andromedadavis]

Thanks Sis! In a world full of narcissists...this knowledge is golden

[brendaandbilly]

".... I wanted to be him" this is the most relatable thing on the internet

[jackalope]

I am prone to obsession so I needed this. That second point is especially interesting. Unless I'm (in love /obsessed) with a woman, I am not particularly self-motivated so that's why I'm attracted to women with a lot of drive and an adventurous, independent nature.

[harmoniousandtranquilhannah]

Thank you so much for these tips! I’ve been wondering for a few years how to for good stop obsessing over guys that are emotionally unavailable or out of reach even though they are not good for me and not meant to be in my life anymore or at all. The third tip I have is to stop letting your friends and family’s opinions confuse you and breed your obsessions with people. It’d be best to communicate with them that you are working towards getting over obsessions and if they don’t respect that boundary, you can distance yourself from these people. Get to know everyone equally instead of trying to foresee an idealized future with them. Taking people off the pedestal also protects you from entering narcissistic and abusive relationships.

[moumitakundu]

Can't be so generalized. Obsession can also come from the fact that they gave you a vibe or treated you in a way that you have been craving for all your life... They made you reach a point of heightened satisfaction that you never consciously was aware of existed in you, but they brought about that desire in you and now they are gone... It can be intellectual, psychological, sexual or emotional or a combination of all the four etc.

[Fernandez]

i think the best way to get over someone or your obsession is to go out and meet new people. talk to anyone. old ladies, people you are not attracted to, people you are attracted to. your garbage man -- the person who bags your groceries. ask them about their life and listen -- people who sit next to you on the subway. ask them how their day was.

[emberrageofficial]

Romanticising someone and leads to obsession is creating your mind that you can have this person eventhough you know for some reason, It will not be possible and since It will not be impossible, It will become more obsess to challenge yourself until you finally have this person.

[BlazerT]

This is such a perfect timing. I am obsessed with a guy in my office. But after getting to know him and talk to him, the "butterfly in your stomach" and obsession to think about him started to dissipate. It's such a weird feeling but it's comforting and unload my mind of off him. I have to make mental notes that whenever I overthink about him or someone I HAVE to talk to them, and that feeling would disappear.

[lethal_soul]

Her channel is growing faster than my mental health

[danieldelange]

I’m obsessed with my ex and I don’t want be anymore. I know she has flaws, I know she was abusive, but I was raised that if it’s love you look passed someone’s flaws because you love them. She moved on so dang quickly (within a month) and I haven’t yet and it’s been over a year😓

[pragatibansal]

This is how manifestation work! I gave myself a new year resolutions to solve my issues and see i got your video!!! I really really thank you a lot for making this video ❤️.... Thank you for showing me the way correctly. I love you ❣️

[ciaodew]

I have this immense feeling towards a guy and IDK how to control and behave myself. I've read several articles but those didn't help. Watching your video really helps me to rationalize what I'm feeling for him. So, thank you sm THANK YOUUU <3

[_t.silv]

The world is abundant with love, and we will not lack by releasing what is not ours.

If it's ours it will come back,
If it doesn't thanks for the lessons 🙏🏽

[deeplyfeminine]

Its seems as women in modern times, we are becoming obssessed with men for the lives they get to lead, which seem free and unrestrictive, compared ours which have heavy responsibilities, esp if you have children.

[deecee]

I agree with this video. I used to get the hugest unwarranted crushes on military guys besides being pretty neutral and not specifically pro war. In fact, I did not really care about war at all. I think I wanted to be more disciplined and more brave, and to live a more adventurous life of signing up for more unknowns and taking more risks. I have been consciously trying to become that for about 5-6 years now and I no longer get huge unwarranted crushes on military dudes. I am slowly gaining and building the qualities I want to become.