The Dark Truth About Attracting Women | The X Factor | Why Dark Triad Men Are So Attractive

The idea that attraction flourishes in a swamp of anxiety, selfishness, and uncertainty doesn’t sit well with men who prefer to believe that love and attraction exist in perfect harmony. Love and attraction can exist in harmony, but to have love you must first have attraction. It’s a classic case of the chicken or the egg, which comes first?

If your goal is to build attraction with women, it’s crucial to separate the sweet, tender nature of love from the harsh reality of attraction. Love does exist, and it does grow out of attraction, but if you think you must be sweet, caring, and kind to win a woman’s heart, you’re sure to be disappointed.

One area, however, we’re yet to touch on is how to make yourself irresistible to women—to find the elusive X-factor in attraction. We know the X-factor exists, but for most men, any attempt to harness the power of attraction and channel its energy remains elusive.

The X-factor continues to remain an abstract concept, in much the same way that nuclear fission remained an abstract concept until the day Trinity—the first atomic bomb—exploded into reality in 1945. Right now, you hold in your hands all the concepts and theories of attraction.

Bringing these theories into reality, however, requires its own kind of nuclear fission. For this to happen, you must be able to turn theory into reality by smashing abstract concepts together like atoms. Only then, when you look into the blast crater can you catch a glimpse of the elusive X factor—attitude. Attitude is everything.

Men who are smart, handsome, educated, and who understand key concepts of attraction often come to me with the complaint that women still don’t find them attractive. Women often tell these men how “nice” they are, effectively telling these men that they have no attraction for them whatsoever.

Men who are considered anti-seductive, lack that all-important element of attraction—attitude. They smile too much; they’re too nice; they’re unsure of themselves; they communicate with weak words like “perhaps,” “maybe,” and “possibly,” words that mirror the uncertainty of their mind. When women snap at them, act bitchy, and try to push them around, these men tolerate the abuse without putting up the slightest amount of resistance.

Bringing an edge to your character doesn’t mean being an asshole, it means eradicating your desire to please and be nice. If a woman calls you a “nice guy,” take it as an insult not a compliment. If a woman has the audacity to call you “nice” you mustn’t respond with “thanks,” instead, you must respond by telling her to “shut the f@#k up.”
“What?” She says, shocked by your crude response.
“Just kidding.”
“Uhhh.” She looks around, feeling slightly uncomfortable.
“Still think I’m nice?”
She laughs. Maybe not, but you’re certainly a lot more attractive. As we dig deeper into the depths of attraction, it becomes clear that women adore men who score high on dark triad traits.

These dark triad traits include narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Men who score high on dark triad traits are usually more confident and selfish than their less self-assured peers. They’re also more likely to be self-interested and attempt to manipulate and exploit other people without any sense of guilt or remorse.

Among such men, there’s a dark, apathetic quality that often underpins their relationships with women; a quality that challenges women and keeps them around despite the man’s “asshole” behavior. Research has found evidence to suggest that men who possess dark triad traits are more likely to date more women, have more sex, and be seen as more attractive.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

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Chris Canwell

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[TheKoolraj]

If you can't change the girl...change the girl..✌

[SamuelTF]

My mom said I was nice so i told her to stfu then you wouldnt believe what happened next

[TacticalxRecon]

Chris you changed my life.
I went from being heartbroken to dating a woman who has already submitted to me thanks to this book. it's crazy because I have these dark triad traits and yet she only focusses on pleasing me. She offers to pay for dinners and always wants to make sure I am pleased like a king. I can do anything to her that pleases me which is crazy to think about. I am like Christian Grey and I love it. Respect you forever.

[aaronsteven]

It is so easy for me to absorb your teaching. I like to tell women "Im not a nice guy, im a good man . thers a BIG fucken difference".

[josejunior]

2:49 it’s so true
Also if you’re girlfriend tells you that you’re the best boyfriend she ever had, take it as an insult.

[michaelpeterson]

I just finished with the "48 Laws of Power" believe me, that book if you follow it you will develop dark Triad traits.

[mystykalmn]

This guy is real, if a woman called you a nice guy it's an insult. FACT

[bkon_music]

Learn to be a hybrid....be nice and show strength at the same time.

[betrustedandhonest]

PLEASE always remember-she use to be someone else's problem, so why should she change Now!!

[JeffreyGillespie]

This is an excellent commentary because it's frank but not cynical. Thank you.

[i_am_riley]

Wow someone actually knows about the dark triad. Been a member for 34 years now lol

[siddarthjena]

Chris you have taught me a very big lesson, Thank you so much, without your videos I was in so much relationship stress and drama, I'm glad you saved me😊

[blanksheets]

It's really great idea to use illustration for your explanation

[JMully]

Lmao my girl called me a nice guy and I told her to “shut the fuck up”... she blocked my number for a day

[praveshlama]

Men should not misunderstood the word attitude. Showing too much attitude projects yourself as a man full of a pride and arrogance.

[Zer-gybh]

Your informations is priceless, ,,, scientific based theory

[debonaire_nerd]

Attraction is like being in The Rolling Stones; the coolest ones are the Keith Richards' and Charlie Watts' of the world - the hardworking, stylist and quiet ones rather than the flamingo out the front shaking his ass about.

[bobbyvishwas]

I laughed so hard on shut the fu3k up part 😂

[ravenclaw]

If being a nice guy isn’t good enough for a woman, then she isn’t worth it. Move on. There are too many low quality women out there seeking low quality men.

[andrebaxter]

If the smart guys mentioned at the 2 minute mark really understood attraction, then they wouldn't be making all of those mistakes listed.