Why Older Women hit THE WALL in Dating | Women in their 30s, 40s & 50s struggling with Dating Apps

When older women hit the wall in the dating market, they point the finger to everyone and everything but themselves. So let's take a look at what's actually going on, when women in their 30s, 40s and 50s are struggling to date and find love.

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With all of the changes in modern dating, older women are not having as much fun with the dating apps, as they were led to believe, since many eligible men in their age range, are also being pursued by women in their thirties and twenties.
This dries up the dating pool for older women and causes a lot of frustration.

Video Structure:
00:00 Intro
01:03 The reality of The WALL
02:20 How women create & maintain The Wall
03:49 The "Knowing your Worth" Fallacy
05:14 Two Types of Women
06:08 Why are romantic women single?
07:21 Self Sabotage good relationships
08:36 Women "helping" Women
10:11 Good old fashioned delusion

Older women are let to believe that dating will be a lot easier as they get older, since they now "know their worth", have tons of experience and know exactly what they want.
But the reality is, not only are these absolutely not the things that men are looking for, these women even add more traits and requirements to the mix, that make it virtually impossible for them, to ever be happy with anyone.

New York 2022/2023

[FBECapital]

As women get older, they hit the wall in the dating game, even though they played it on recruit mode.

[leonidasthermopylae]

Men don't want a woman that we have to "Handle". We want peace and if you don't bring peace, we don't want you. Period.

[twenty-nineeleven]

I always love how they say, "I'm ready now" like men are supposed to go, "Oh okay. Let me come be everything you want now that you're ready." Life doesn't work like that though.

[willmartin]

I tried dating when I was in my late 20's after I was abruptly dumped by my girlfriend of six years for a guy she only knew for a week. The dating scene was not fun, and by the time I turned 30, I realized that I had no interest in becoming a simp again. In regard to the ex-girlfriend, she wanted to get back together with me only a year after our breakup, because her new beau was physically abusing her. Fortunately, by then, I had wised up and moved on.

[roberttroxell]

As a confirmed bachelor, I take no comfort in seeing women anguish over their difficulties in finding true love. For both men and women, it’s a struggle now to finding anything sincere and lasting. Modern American society has made adversaries of men and women and is toxic to relationships. I hope the decades ahead see some changes and men and women can start enjoying each other again. Too late for me, but I hope this for younger people.

[shan]

I have a female friend when in her 30's I used to work with and when she was dating and talking with her female friends they would bad mouth her fiance and suggest he wasn't "the one". I found out the details when talking with her and she was thankful when I congratulated her. It came down to this, her friends were giving her advice based on their own unhappiness. Misery loves company, as the saying goes. She eventually married and has three sons and is very happy. I don't know if she talks with her old friends.

[oceanhedonist]

These women don't want a relationship. They want a retirement plan.

[SophisticatedBob]

"Being an ugly woman is like being a man, you're going to have to work." Daniel Tosh That said, all other women, the pretty ones, have been told their entire lives how special they are, what a princess they are, and they've had a never ending line of people treating them special because of their looks. Life is easy. They buy into it. They believe it to their core. One day, at 40, they are just average, and that core belief crumbles. Those looks fade, the body count is high, the worship stops. Enter, "The wall."

[liverightdieproud]

"I m 47 and I want to spend the 50 years vd someone".

Woman, u don't want to spend, u ARE spent.

[bobnat]

My first marriage was for 3 years, the second for 6 months. When I was dating my third wife one day she was grilling me about my marriages and divorces. I told her that the first divorce was amicable but extremely difficult to go through. I explained that the second divorce was easy. I then told her that I suspected the third would be even easier. Our 24th anniversary is in three days.

[patrickdunn]

Thank goodness I got cheated on, and heartbroken by my high school sweetheart early in life. It was devastating, and I took custody of our three sons, worked my ass off, while going to school too. Luckily my mom was my big help with the kids, when they were young. I always worked extra hours for the overtime money, and flourished in my career. Met and married a school teacher, and we prospered together. Our 30 yr anniversary coming up in a few months, we both make six figures and I’m twice retired, but still work. HAVING THE RIGHT PARTNER IS EVERYTHING!!

[hrgirl]

Women: I'm a strong, independent woman. What can YOU offer ME?

Eligible Men: Our condolences.

[remomiyamoto]

A middle income guy in decent shape will date a cute loyal burger shop worker, do you think one of these women would date the same? Thats why they will never ever find what they want.

[tommiller]

Dated a single mom and discovered very quickly that doing so will drain you of all your money, peace, and happiness. Was expected to always be available though she had a very busy schedule. She would sabotage me with questions about activities coming up with friends by acting like she didn’t want to go….when I would agree and tell her it was ok, she would then say I was intentionally taking her away from friends…I guess Ill talk to you next week and expect a huge apology. Waste of my time and emotions. Not saying all woman are this way. All I’m saying is give your time to them after they have earned it or just have fun and if they don’t support your happiness…Don’t put up with it.

[SilverSun]

My wife and I married in our 20s, and we are now in our 50s. It's interesting to watch her friends who enjoyed being single career women now being so jealous of our 23 year marriage. My wife's loyalty helped me become the successful attorney I am today. Why would someone like me want women like them who judged and judged and judged every short uncommitted "relationship" they ever had, but especially didn't understand our serious commitment to marriage. They all thought of me as my wife's knuckle dragging Catholic patriarch. Now they are all jealous of my wife, and I secretly take delight in watching their suffering.

[gunsandpoker]

Bachelor: A man that has cheated a women out of a divorce.

[nla]

Anybody desperate for a relationship have no business getting into a relationship. Work on yourself and mind your business. Not EVERYBODY is meant to be with someone. Not everybody will find”their person”. Some people WILL die alone. And that’s just what it is.

[ronnie]

Women out here living a fantasy life in their 20s, blaming men in their 30s, on psych meds in their 40s to cope

[mac_lak]

Women: "Why men can't handle a strong, independent woman that knows her worth and who knows what she wants?"
Men: "Why women can't handle a strong, independent man that knows his worth and who knows what he wants?"
You need TWO persons to make a couple. YOUR needs are in NO WAY more important than the needs of your significant other. Period.

[johnmccann]

"Never make someone a priority in your life when you are only an option in theirs"